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Percentage of Single Women In Their Thirties to Hit All-Time High

Via Moron Robbie, the coming demographic collapse comes even faster.


In the coming years, another demographic trend could help further close the pay gap in the U.S.: the rising ranks of single working women. Based on Census Bureau historical data and Morgan Stanley forecasts, 45% of prime working age women (ages 25-44) will be single by 2030--the largest share in history--up from 41% in 2018.

What's driving this trend? For starters, more women are delaying marriage, choosing to stay single or divorcing in their 50s and 60s. Women are also delaying childbirth or having fewer children than in the past.

"These shifting lifestyle norms are enabling more women, with or without children, to work full time, which should continue to raise the labor force participation rate among single females," says Zentner. Rising labor-force participation rates should put upward pressure on women's wages and help increase overall consumer spending.

As it stands, women already control a large share of the U.S. consumer wallet. They contribute an estimated $7 trillion to the U.S. gross domestic product per year, according to the Center for American Progress, and are the principal shoppers in 72% of households, according to consumer surveys conducted by MRI-Simmons.

Meanwhile, women are earning bachelor's degrees at a higher rate than men, and they are the primary breadwinner for nearly 30% of married households and nearly 40% of total U.S. households.

Victory Girls writes about Boss Girls shrieking about not finding love as they hit their thirties.

At some point they may realize they've been sold a lie their entire lives, but I doubt it.

Posted by: Disinformation Expert Ace at 01:20 PM




Comments

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1 Not Sponge!

Posted by: Heirloominati at May 22, 2024 01:22 PM (CtJ/Z)

2 TRUMP!

Posted by: MAGA_Ken at May 22, 2024 01:22 PM (tXFoB)

3 Who wants an old woman?

Posted by: Stateless at May 22, 2024 01:22 PM (jvJvP)

4 Whoa.
I'll fetch 'em

Posted by: Heirloominati at May 22, 2024 01:22 PM (CtJ/Z)

5 Bitter used up old woman?

Posted by: Stateless at May 22, 2024 01:22 PM (jvJvP)

6 To be more accurate...

Posted by: Stateless at May 22, 2024 01:23 PM (jvJvP)

7 Holy shit, Rich Cooper makes AoS.

Posted by: JROD at May 22, 2024 01:23 PM (IlL6s)

8 I understand Biden fatigue is involved in this.

When threads collide.

Posted by: andycanuck (ZdexC) at May 22, 2024 01:24 PM (ZdexC)

9 It's the "4 B Movement" ... bed, bowels, bank, backache

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 01:24 PM (RHGPo)

10 *Laughs*

Posted by: Female Delusion Calculator at May 22, 2024 01:24 PM (gmlRP)

11 WEF is pleased.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:25 PM (ynpvh)

12 But they banged a lot of “hot” guys, so there’s that.

Posted by: Trump at May 22, 2024 01:25 PM (OZ0uV)

13 This won't end well.

For them or society.

Posted by: Formerly Virginian at May 22, 2024 01:25 PM (JMAcK)

14 If you want to spend 35 years treating men like they're disposable, don't be amazed if they refuse to show up to be bagged and dropped on the curb.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (B0mGw)

15 Well, I can tell you that my son is 31 and is not the least bit interested in getting married.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (DRSnL)

16 Drizzle Drizzle.

Posted by: cheshirecat at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (TwA+r)

17 Weird timing that Ace would post on this, I just had a number of "Soft boys / drizzle drizzle" pop up in my youtube suggestions.

It seems to be a male response to gold diggers.

Posted by: Darth Randall at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (f1kZG)

18 Grandma always said:

A Flower only blooms once, sweetheart.

Posted by: garrett at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (gmlRP)

19 Chad's got a lot to pump and dump

Posted by: Itinerant Alley Butcher at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (CiKCe)

20 Morgan Stanley forecasts, 45% of prime working age women (ages 25-44) will be single by 2030...What's driving this trend? For starters, more women are delaying marriage, choosing to stay single or divorcing in their 50s and 60s.

I don't think that last one logically impacts the number of single women aged 25-44. Wait, logic? Let me check...lol, I assumed the author was a woman. No writer is listed (that I see), but the bottom of the article has this:

For Morgan Stanley Research on the SHEconomy, ask your Morgan Stanley representative or Financial Advisor for the full reports, "Rise of the SHEconomy" (Aug 22, 2019) and "Introducing HERS: Employing Diversity Pays Off (Aug 12, 2019).

Posted by: Moron Analyst at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (JCZqz)

21 Why are so many 29 yr old boss girls from Tiktok having public meltdowns about failing to find a man?

Well, let's see...
1) feminist commies
2) Faces that fell into tackle boxes
3) Hair done by child with the full set of colors
4) man-haters (see #1)
...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (ynpvh)

22 Meanwhile, women are earning bachelor's degrees at a higher rate than men,

Oh. So to be successful all a person needs is a bachelor's degree. It doesn't matter in what discipline, just possessing one.

In the meantime, Mike Rowe is constantly showing how a person can be successful in multiple ways by pursuing a trade, marketable skill, running a business - things that don't necessarily require degrees, just a willingness to do work.

The Culture of Worth Through Credentialism is folly.

Posted by: Unknown Drip Under Pressure at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (iruKY)

23 Well, they do consistently vote for a Daddy-Husband government to replace the males in their life.

Protecting them, give them jobs, money...

Posted by: Stateless at May 22, 2024 01:27 PM (jvJvP)

24 When threads collide.

Wait. You don't suppose that Ace is reading the comments and seeing what we're talking about, do you?

Posted by: Oddbob at May 22, 2024 01:27 PM (/y8xj)

25 In the coming years, another demographic trend could help further close the pay gap in the U.S. ...

-----------

Ah, the mythical "pay gap" survives unabated and apace ...

Posted by: ShainS -- Blood-Bath-and-Beyond angel investor at May 22, 2024 01:27 PM (A2XMJ)

26 >>Drizzle Drizzle.


Someone explain this to me, please. Been seeing it all over in the past 72 hours. No idea what it is ref'ing.

Posted by: garrett at May 22, 2024 01:27 PM (gmlRP)

27 So I guess that Harrison Butker guy has a point, ladies??

Posted by: fly gal at May 22, 2024 01:27 PM (sNzJm)

28 Who wants an old woman?
Posted by: Stateless


Emanuel Macron

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 01:27 PM (v6JzV)

29 But Tay Tay at 34 and childless is living her best life!

Posted by: logprof at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (Uy5OP)

30 If only somebody had the answer for them.

Posted by: Harrison Butker at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (xPl2J)

31 Lots of women want a wedding and a baby. Precious few of them have any interest in being wives and mothers. Absent that, smart men won't bother with them.

Men aren't avoiding marriage, they're avoiding divorce.

Posted by: anon at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (lDq8n)

32 >>Meanwhile, women are earning bachelor's degrees at a higher rate than men


Because. The World needs more Gender Studies Degrees.

Posted by: garrett at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (gmlRP)

33 >Someone explain this to me, please. Been seeing it all over in the past 72 hours. No idea what it is ref'ing.

Go to YT, search "Sprinkle Sprinkle Lady", "Soft Guy Era", and "Drizzle Drizzle"

Posted by: cheshirecat at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (TwA+r)

34 22 Meanwhile, women are earning bachelor's degrees at a higher rate than men...

Posted by: Unknown Drip Under Pressure at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (iruKY)

Well that explains it; they didn't earn a Marriage certificate.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (ynpvh)

35 A straight shot of 6 minutes and 19 seconds of you talking?!?!? Honey, you're just not that interesting. Is this a date or a TED talk?

Posted by: Wally at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (hqVaF)

36 At some point they may realize they've been sold a lie their entire lives, but I doubt it.

Posted by: Disinformation Expert Ace

Some will, but most will become AWFL, bitter, man hating, wine guzzling cat-moms.

Just what America needs to turn our downfall around!

Posted by: Moron Analyst at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (JCZqz)

37 Why are so many 29 yr old boss girls from Tiktok having public meltdowns about failing to find a man?

I dunno, killing your offspring time after time after time doesn't sound like marriage and kids material.

Having zero interest in bringing in the Next Generation is a deal killer to a man who want to see his family name continue.

Posted by: Unknown Drip Under Pressure at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (iruKY)

38 Don't forget trying out being a lesbian.

Posted by: Disgusted at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (Z8Yh2)

39 "...45% of prime working age women..."

That's what's important, not "prime keeping-the-species-from-going-extinct age."

Posted by: SloPitch Whiffer at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (wzAuc)

40 Should be bunch of Ukraine women available once shit calms down there.

Posted by: Itinerant Alley Butcher at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (CiKCe)

41 What colour is a green orange at the bottom of the basket??

Posted by: andycanuck (ZdexC) at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (ZdexC)

42 Willowed:

398 That's from a place that's trying to sell the $10K procedure, Archimedes. Which is fine and I don't blame them because advertising works, but I doubt they'd tell you this unless it was in tiny writing at the bottom of the page:

Good point, but I want to know what the CPR is for "fresh" oocytes. I think many people assume it's 100%. It isn't.

"The clinical pregnancy rate per vitrified and thawed oocyte is 4.5%–12%.1

Clinical pregnancy rates decline with advanced maternal age at the time of freezing.1 Furthermore, the ASRM estimates that the live birth rate is 2%–12% for women under 38 years of age.6 Studies examining the success rates of social egg freezing remain limited, and egg freezing does not guarantee a successful pregnancy or live birth."

Nobody is saying (at least I'm not) that 100% of fertilized eggs lead to children, nor that later maternity doesn't diminish one's chances of a successful pregnancy, or that a successful pregnancy is guaranteed (which is also true of young women). But it is incorrect to say that frozen eggs rarely lead to fertilization. AFAIK, Your extract does not compare successful pregnancy rates for frozen vs fresh eggs.

Posted by: Archimedes at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (CsUN+)

43 They forgot to mention that a lot of guys no longer see a future in marriage, particularly with the courts stacked against them.

Posted by: Ciampino - what cannot be spoken at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (qfLjt)

44 The Taylor Swift Syndrome.

Posted by: dantesed at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (Oy/m2)

45 31 Lots of women want a wedding and a baby. Precious few of them have any interest in being wives and mothers. Absent that, smart men won't bother with them.

Men aren't avoiding marriage, they're avoiding divorce.

Posted by: anon at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (lDq8n)

I rate this a true. Divorce is expensive, messy, and time-consuming.

It's not all the fault of the wimmins. My sister married a large, fat asshole. He was abusive. If I'd known the type of man he was...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (ynpvh)

46 Pierce your nostril area and put something large and metal thru it.
Guys go crazy for that..
(not really)

Posted by: gourmand du jour at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (MeG8a)

47 At some point they may realize they've been sold a lie their entire lives, but I doubt it.

Posted by: Disinformation Expert Ace at 01:20 PM

Anything that cannot go on forever will end.

There are a lot of young women rejecting the advice.

My daughter has noticed how my stay-at-home wife and I live. She wants that too.

It's not easy- my wife has a LOT of things she does (including homeschooling the youngest two- used to be all 4 until we found a good charter school) but she also has time for not only caring for the family but actually pursuing things she loves for herself. She's a dancer and does some teaching on the side as well.

My daughter (13) sees this family life and also sees the lives of people with two parents working. Even at that age, she knows which works out better for her and the family.

So there is hope.

Posted by: Formerly Virginian at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (JMAcK)

48 "What's driving this trend?"

More and more are still learning that women need men like a fish needs a bicycle. That's the wisdom from the highest echelons of Girl Power reaping the whirlwind of bra-burning 60-70's.

Posted by: AnonybotymousDrivel at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (aXxgO)

49 Dear women of all ages,

Eyebrows resembling Bert from Sesame Street are NOT attractive.

Sincerely,
Hetero men

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 01:31 PM (h0Z+I)

50
As an aging boomer I'm glad that these women are keeping the Labor Participation Rate high enough to support Social Security.

Keep it up girls! You rock! You don't need an actual life of home, children, marriage, washing dishes. Boring.

/ sorta s

Posted by: Divide by Zero at May 22, 2024 01:31 PM (RKVpM)

51 www.youtube.com/watch?v=acgjLx1hD48

Guys. You need to be a real man and marry up. You'll never understand true bliss until you get a woman in your life to civilize you and teach you about life.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:31 PM (Ectld)

52 33 yr old woman, that's been single for 7 yrs crying about being single.
Why are women doing this

-
Lack of sandwich skills, duhhhh.

Posted by: Anonosaurus Wrecks, I've Been Through the Desert On a Horse With No Shame at May 22, 2024 01:31 PM (L/fGl)

53 35 A straight shot of 6 minutes and 19 seconds of you talking?!?!? Honey, you're just not that interesting. Is this a date or a TED talk?
Posted by: Wally

1- I didn't know TikTok allowed videos of that length

2- that video is definitive proof China uses TikTok to destroy American society

3- even I don't want to look at that face for that long (or, any length of time, really)

Posted by: Admiral Ackbar at May 22, 2024 01:31 PM (JCZqz)

54 Awesome, I have comment #29: same age as most of the women (and half the Horde).

Posted by: logprof at May 22, 2024 01:31 PM (Uy5OP)

55 The "Four Nos" are:

no sex with men (Korean: 비섹스; Hanja: 非sex; RR: bisekseu),
no child-rearing (비출산; 非出産; bichulsan),
no dating men (비연애; 非戀愛; biyeonae), and
no marriage with men (비혼; 非婚; bihon).[6][8]

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 01:32 PM (RHGPo)

56 I'm guessing most of these single women are mentally ill or massive narcissists. Just the fact that they post videos of themselves crying and moaning about being single (I couldn't make it past :15 of either video) is a cringe-inducing Danger! Danger! sign.

I feel sorry for young guys these days.

Posted by: Biergood at May 22, 2024 01:32 PM (PwgSL)

57 "What's driving this trend?"

Also, they're spiting that KC football kicker. They'll show him what's what.

Posted by: AnonybotymousDrivel at May 22, 2024 01:32 PM (aXxgO)

58 Based on Census Bureau historical data and Morgan Stanley forecasts, 45% of prime working age women (ages 25-44) will be single by 2030--the largest share in history--up from 41% in 2018.

What's driving this trend?



Check your friendzone ladies, where you parked the marriageable guys while you rode the cock carousel. Oh, btw, they're probably not there anymore.

Posted by: rickb223 at May 22, 2024 01:32 PM (ofCHO)

59 What colour is a green orange at the bottom of the basket??
Posted by: andycanuck (ZdexC) at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (ZdexC)
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Green.

What do I win?

Posted by: Captain Obvious, Laird o' the Sea, Radioactive Knight at May 22, 2024 01:32 PM (mUnoX)

60 >>Drizzle Drizzle.

Someone explain this to me, please. Been seeing it all over in the past 72 hours. No idea what it is ref'ing.
Posted by: garrett

Bad case of the clap?

Posted by: Itinerant Alley Butcher at May 22, 2024 01:33 PM (CiKCe)

61 They forgot to mention that a lot of guys no longer see a future in marriage, particularly with the courts stacked against them.

Especially when the game console doesn't care if you bathe.

Posted by: Unknown Drip Under Pressure at May 22, 2024 01:33 PM (iruKY)

62 38 Don't forget trying out being a lesbian.

Posted by: Disgusted at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (Z8Yh2)

or a pan-sexual; you'll never look at your kitchen appliances the same way again.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:33 PM (ynpvh)

63 As a single guy, I have less than zero sympathy.

I’ll just play Nightwish “Bless The Child”. For its oft cited line:

“Why am I loved only when I’m gone?”

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:33 PM (xgbJW)

64 41 What colour is a green orange at the bottom of the basket??

Posted by: andycanuck (ZdexC) at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM (ZdexC)

Gray or Grey...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:33 PM (ynpvh)

65 Actually I think some daisies flower twice.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 01:33 PM (7aRnr)

66 33 yr old woman, that's been single for 7 yrs crying about being single.

Why are women doing this and how many guys did she pass on to get to this point?


---

Men will date anyone higher or lower than themselves in looks or status. The "date" might be a hookup for the less attractive ones, but a 5 man will date a 3 or 4 woman. Women MIGHT date laterally, but mainly they want to date up. A 5 woman will not date a 3 man without wealth or status.

So womens dating pools are very limited and it's a self-inflicted problem. Add the dating apps and it's even worse, with something like 10% of the men on the apps getting all the attention and 90% of the men being invisible.

OK Cupid data how men rate women:

https://tinyurl.com/23apahad

OK Cupid data how women rate men:

https://tinyurl.com/29674uq6


(for anyone who won't / can't click, men view women on a bell curve, while women view almost no men as attractive - "most attractive" is literally 0%)

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:33 PM (ICJ9S)

67 The first woman's problem? Weird little hands.

The second one looks like Dylan Mulvaney.

And neither will settle for a man who doesn't meet their laundry list of requirements.

Posted by: Grudge Harbor at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (hCzfy)

68 >>Why are so many 29 yr old boss girls from Tiktok having public meltdowns about failing to find a man?


From a very young age they've been encouraged to dream big, get busy with the exciting career and all the possibilities available to girl bosses.

What they aren't being told that this choice has consequences, that while they are doing this, other women are settling down (and may still work), thus eliminating a lot of the men who will be available to them when they get around to thinking about marriage and kids.

And then there's been the cultural push to alienate young men and women from healthy heterosexual behavior. Young women are told men are "toxic" and that interest from only the hottest guy(s) is "rapey" and "stalking." They've been sold on the hookup culture instead of dating, and on and on. They've been trained to be not marriageable, trained to fear and despise the men who would treat them the best, marry, and have kids with them.

Posted by: Lizzy at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (cCVOS)

69 I’m, rising labor force participation rates most definitely does not put upward pressure on wages. More workers = lower wages. Whoever wrote that is an idiot.

Posted by: sniffybigtoe at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (JTwsP)

70 Howdy Ace, Horde. In fairness to those deeply unhappy women, feminism is one of the most cunning lies ever pitched to Mankind. It's communism aimed square at women.

And the communists, especially the Bolsheviks, know how to package poison in a bright, shiny wrapper.



Posted by: callsign claymore at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (JcnCJ)

71 We will make up for this with the newcomers womenfolk, who average 6 anchor babies before thirty.

Posted by: Ripley at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (JojsZ)

72 "At some point they may realize they've been sold a lie their entire lives, but I doubt it."

It's men's fault they were tricked. The Patriarchy tricked them into focusing on their careers and sleeping around and not having babies.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (B0mGw)

73 The chick in the first video reminds me of AOC.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (DRSnL)

74 46 Pierce your nostril area and put something large and metal thru it.
Guys go crazy for that..
(not really)

Posted by: gourmand du jour at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (MeG8a)

the tackle-box effect.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (ynpvh)

75 22 Meanwhile, women are earning bachelor's degrees at a higher rate than men,

Oh. So to be successful all a person needs is a bachelor's degree. It doesn't matter in what discipline, just possessing one.

... to be successful all a person needs is a master's degree.
before you get a PhD, get 3 or 4 masters degrees, first.

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (RHGPo)

76 There's many a fine man coming across our borders illegally. /s.

Many of those women will hear the ticks of their biological clocks & mate but, at later ages, likely producing fewer children.

However, that's how the US really diversifies and citizenship becomes completely skewed.

It's a great plan that may cover payment of promised reparations, too.


Posted by: L - If they do it with you, they'll do it to you, too at May 22, 2024 01:35 PM (NFX2v)

77 or a pan-sexual; you'll never look at your kitchen appliances the same way again.
Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:33 PM (ynpvh)
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*sob*

Posted by: Sybians everywhere at May 22, 2024 01:35 PM (mUnoX)

78 "How many guys did she pass on to get to this point?"

Could be as few as three.

Could be that the only guys who ever showed interest in her were irresponsible losers who blamed other people for the state of their life, or druggies, or men with baby-mommas in other cities.

Could be that the decent guys she was interested in decided she wasn't worth marrying.

I'm sure none of that would give a gal a complex about her own self-worth.

There are plenty of reason why a middle aged woman might be single.

Some of them could be the accusation that bitter old men like to make about such women - that all of them have been behaving like rakehells all their lives.
Some of them could be that she's never been a rakehell, but doesn't have the social connections or doesn't live in the right place to meet compatible men.
Some of them could just be that she's not 18 and athletically slim, which everyone one the internet (so you know it's true) says is the only kind of woman worth marrying.

Posted by: FeatherBlade at May 22, 2024 01:35 PM (ou9hh)

79 It's simple really. Des bitches be crazy.

Posted by: Xipe Totec at May 22, 2024 01:35 PM (pohLc)

80 more women are delaying marriage, choosing to stay single or divorcing in their 50s and 60s. Women are also delaying childbirth or having fewer children than in the past.
-
In other words, this civilization is dying.

Posted by: Methos at May 22, 2024 01:35 PM (Dnobf)

81 Yep, been sold a lie. Finding someone worthy of their time? Sorry honey it don't work that way. It's a two way street. Don't be so whiny on tikton. If I was single would I want to date any of these whiny females? Nope. They still have the attitude it's all about me. Enjoy being cat ladies.

Posted by: Ganowicz Commie Exterminators, LTD. at May 22, 2024 01:35 PM (A2E7p)

82 Well, they do consistently vote for a Daddy-Husband government to replace the males in their life.

Protecting them, give them jobs, money...


"What's driving this trend?"

More and more are still learning that women need men like a fish needs a bicycle. That's the wisdom from the highest echelons of Girl Power reaping the whirlwind of bra-burning 60-70's.


It really depends on the woman and her personality. I can speak to my own daughters, all of whom are very accomplished, and had a plan for getting to where they are now, which is moms (2 out of 4 married with kids, with a third on the way to marriage and kids, and the fourth still in her mid-20s).

My girls are financially secure, happy, and fulfilled. It can be done, but it takes hard work.

My wife is another case in point. My point is that it isn't necessarily either/or, but there are many women who want both, but can't of won't put in the necessary effort. The same applies to men, of course.

Posted by: Archimedes at May 22, 2024 01:35 PM (CsUN+)

83 The left discovered it could manipulate women through social media and used it to turn them into...AWFLs.

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM (ibTVg)

84 gourmand du jour: "Pierce your nostril area and put something large and metal thru it.
Guys go crazy for that."


And nothing says "beauty" more than a ginormous tramp stamp a potential mate can read from a block away.

Posted by: AnonybotymousDrivel at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM (aXxgO)

85 Alternate Headline: Percentage of Girl Bosses Kicking Ass and Being Super Girl Bossy and Stuff Skyrockets

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM (7aRnr)

86 FIRST!!!!!

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM (Zz0t1)

87 You also have the MGTOW movement. I’m sure there are plenty of men who aren’t the bees knees but women seem to be especially unattractive as lifetime mates nowadays.

I also think the internet has allowed people to compare notes on marriage and many have found that marriage is generally pretty crappy. Marriage researcher John Gottman found that 70% of problems in marriages are unresolvable.

Posted by: MAGA_Ken at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM (tXFoB)

88 Among things that we rejected because they were so backwards (like the strong societal shunning of bastards) is arranged marriages.

If people would realize that marriage is about building a life together and learning to live with someone else. You learn and grow TOGETHER. Not "I have to get my life in order, make sure that I'm ok and then I can think about a relationship.

(Of note, if you "grow apart", that's not a reason to divorce. You can still grow back together if you realize your mistake.)

Posted by: Formerly Virginian at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM (JMAcK)

89 It's important to note that hookup culture has fully liberated women.

Might be one of the few aspects that the vast majority of men support wholeheartedly.

Posted by: The Central Scrutinizer at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM (KbCG3)

90 I'm not understanding all of the tick tock and other sites. Why broadcast your problems to anonymous strangers?

Posted by: Thomas Paine at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM (lTGtQ)

91 26 >>Drizzle Drizzle.

Someone explain this to me, please. Been seeing it all over in the past 72 hours. No idea what it is ref'ing.


there's been a thing on tiktok for a while with dating influencers using "sprinkle sprinkle" to convince women that they should expect men to pay for everything and give them gifts in order to earn their attention. it's a play on that, with men using "drizzle drizzle" and saying the same things to show how silly it is.

i understand another thing going on lately is "grizzle grizzle" to make fun of of the wimmens that say they would rather be trapped in the forest with a bear than a man.

*shifty eyes*

not that i spend too much time in the evenings running youtube in the background while i play world of warcraft or anything, mind you.

Posted by: anachronda at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM (sGtp+)

92 Another element is when a woman dates someone with wealth or status and she is permanently stuck at that level. She cannot conceive of "dating down" at a six or seven now that she had a one night stand with the 9 or 10 guy that has banged 100 other women this year because he has wealth and status.

That makes normal / average guys even more invisible, and the 9s and 10s men aren't looking for the sixes and sevens.

Hope you don't have cat allergies, ladies.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:37 PM (ICJ9S)

93 Hey chickie, maybe you don't have anything a man wants.

Posted by: Ben HaduButker made the speech at a CATHOLIC at May 22, 2024 01:37 PM (s7CNV)

94 Welcome, ladies, to the world that you voted for.

Posted by: Thomas Paine at May 22, 2024 01:37 PM (lTGtQ)

95
Men aren't avoiding marriage, they're avoiding divorce.
Posted by: anon at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (lDq8n)

And drama.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:37 PM (xgbJW)

96 Pierce your nostril area and put something large and metal thru it.
Guys go crazy for that..
(not really)
Posted by: gourmand du jour at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (MeG8a)

=====

Son will literally not date anyone with a septum piercing.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 01:37 PM (DRSnL)

97 The chick in the first video reminds me of AOC.
Posted by: Jordan61



Has she married her soiboi yet?

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 01:37 PM (v6JzV)

98 Well, I can tell you that my son is 31 and is not the least bit interested in getting married.
Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 01:26 PM (DRSnL)



Because today's bitches be cray.


And welcome back.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:37 PM (Zz0t1)

99 Rising labor-force participation rates should put upward pressure on women's wages and help increase overall consumer spending.
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This is retarded.

More laborers = more supply for "work"

That means the value of the laborer, wages, must decrease.

Posted by: Methos at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (Dnobf)

100 This is actually an excellent trend long-term. One of the main factors that allowed this country to get so screwed up was the "unified culture" created by first radio, then cinema and finally but most especially by television.

For most of this country's history, communities of people lived their own lives, went to their own churches, went to their own schools or learned at home, and read their own newspapers (which often had names that indicated which party the paper explicitly supported). Mass media gradually ended all of this, until everyone was watching the Beatles on Ed Sullivan or the Super Bowl at the same time.

What's wrong with that, you ask? Well it centralized culture, and centralization always lends itself to commies, and commies very definitely took over our culture. These hags only got the way they are in these clips by being to go on a centralized platform and get attention by thirsty idiots with no interest in actual relationships. Such centralized dating culture (whether it was going to bars 50 years ago or dating apps now) would not have existed in a pre mass media world. People dated and married within their tight-nit communities.

Posted by: TheLowerDepths at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (Dg7ng)

101 Hey chickie, maybe you don't have anything a man wants.
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Exactly.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (Ectld)

102 Woke leftist white women are the worst human beings in the world. It's no mystery why they are single. Conservative women should not have a problem finding a good man. Unfortunately all women's good selection machinery is broken.

Just IMHO of course.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (0CsDL)

103
rising labor force participation rates most definitely does not put upward pressure on wages. More workers = lower wages. Whoever wrote that is an idiot.

Posted by: sniffybigtoe at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM


Leftist logic requires a willful suspension of disbelief.

Posted by: Divide by Zero at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (RKVpM)

104 "Another element is when a woman dates someone with wealth or status and she is permanently stuck at that level. She cannot conceive of "dating down" at a six or seven now that she had a one night stand with the 9 or 10 guy that has banged 100 other women this year because he has wealth and status.

That makes normal / average guys even more invisible, and the 9s and 10s men aren't looking for the sixes and sevens. "

Hypergamy in action. Hoe_Math has a whole series on this on YT.

Posted by: cheshirecat at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (TwA+r)

105 Social Media has diminished the value of physical presence.

Without a physical presence, there is no relationship

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (RHGPo)

106 PRO TIP: Go long on Cat Food and Injection Molding Technology Futures.

Posted by: garrett at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (gmlRP)

107 Don't forget trying out being a lesbian.

Most of the "born this way" lesbians I knew in college ended up married to a man

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (ibTVg)

108 My eldest daughter is 35, and met a guy last year who seems like a godly man.

Will be meeting him next month when they come up here to visit.

He also asked the hubby for her hand in marriage, and will propose to her when they're here.

He was also baptized at the church they both attend.

Posted by: SMH at what's coming at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (ZabZM)

109 'Meanwhile, women are earning bachelor's degrees at a higher rate than men'

Yes but if one subtracts all the 'Studies' degrees then it might look quite different. Also BA vs BS. Also Hard Sciences and Math vs Biological Sciences.

Posted by: Ciampino - what cannot be spoken? at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (qfLjt)

110 Jane Fonda's Pussy Strikers hardest hit.

Posted by: Big Fat Meanie at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (YIxO9)

111 rising labor force participation rates most definitely does not put upward pressure on wages. More workers = lower wages. Whoever wrote that is an idiot.

1964: You need one wage earner to raise a whole family

2024: You need two wage earners to raise a kid or two.

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (ibTVg)

112 51 www.youtube.com/watch?v=acgjLx1hD48

Guys. You need to be a real man and marry up. You'll never understand true bliss until you get a woman in your life to civilize you and teach you about life.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:31 PM (Ectld)

So, does she have sex with her husband? I mean, she might consider that a chore and let him handle it himself...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (ynpvh)

113 Not a one is a qualified sandwich maker.

Posted by: Big Fat Meanie at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (YIxO9)

114 95
Men aren't avoiding marriage, they're avoiding divorce.
Posted by: anon at May 22, 2024 01:28 PM (lDq8n)

And drama.
Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:37 PM (xgbJW)
And getting raped in divorce court.

Posted by: Xipe Totec at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (pohLc)

115 President Joe Biden will not appear on Ohio’s November presidential ballot, according to Secretary of State

Posted by: Mark1971 at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (xPl2J)

116 Posted by: Methos at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (Dnobf)

The Left still don't understand supply and demand They think mandating demand is okie dokie.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (0CsDL)

117 Mental illness has descended on this nation like never before.

It's going to get a lot worse as these womyn age.

Posted by: Last Days of the Republic at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (perM6)

118 Doof should love the first vid because she uses 'literally' often.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (Zz0t1)

119 Boss girl has a therapist but not a man. I wonder if there is any link.

Posted by: Ripley at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (JojsZ)

120 That first video turned me off that woman immediately. If you can't get your first sentence out without a cliche and an f bomb, you're an entitled idiot.

Posted by: Archimedes at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (CsUN+)

121 @Jim 112

She's pretty awful. I don't know how women like that even find a mate.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (Ectld)

122 If a woman's going to go online and bitch about men, she'd better be wearing overalls with no shirt or bra and have huge, jiggly melons.

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (v6JzV)

123 PRO TIP: Go long on Cat Food and Injection Molding Technology Futures.

Posted by: garrett at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (gmlRP)

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And Female Sexbots ... but mostly Female Sexbots.

Posted by: ShainS -- Blood-Bath-and-Beyond angel investor at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (kMJiH)

124 And welcome back.
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:37 PM (Zz0t1)

=====

Thanks! Trying to get caught up on all the work that piled up while I was gone. Obviously I am not succeeding.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (DRSnL)

125 Woman needs women to rally around her as she sits in her kitchen in a tube top crying on the internet.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (Zz0t1)

126 If only all of these women knew that the roots of "Feminism" come from bitter mentally ill women who either couldn't get a date to save their lives; were lesbians and thought other women should be, too; and/or had severe Daddy issues or abusive backgrounds.

I think it was Kate Millett's little sister who talked about being dragged to a couple of the early bitch sessions by big sis who wrote about what whack jobs these women were.

And here we are....

Posted by: Teresa in Fort Worth, Texas - Ace of Spades Ladies Brigade, plucky comic relief at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (SRRAx)

127 Mental illness has descended on this nation like never before.

Is it Heinlein's crazy years or Warhammer's rise of Chaos?

Or...some elements of both?

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (ibTVg)

128 ...Some of them could be that she's never been a rakehell, but doesn't have the social connections or doesn't live in the right place to meet compatible men.
Some of them could just be that she's not 18 and athletically slim, which everyone one the internet (so you know it's true) says is the only kind of woman worth marrying.

--

With all due respect, these things are impossibilities. If a woman is interested in relationship or marriage she can find a relationship or marriage.

If she doesn't it's her choice. Or her actions, I suppose.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (ICJ9S)

129 Abortion will save us.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (7aRnr)

130 I cant get married, every women I have ever dated was bitch-be-crazy-nuts

plus I enjoy having money

Posted by: The Unvaxed and Unmasked Ranger - Esteemed Trump-Ho and Searcher of Wagshambas at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (VTu1l)

131 3 seconds of body language from the first vid and I'd seen enough. Their own choices yet somehow they are the victim(s). To be avoided at all costs. Or as the saying went, don't lay down with crazy. Seems a lot of crazy nowadays. Glad I'm not young and single.

Posted by: scampydog at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (2bFN5)

132 How DARE you say that marriage is stacked against men?

Posted by: Senlon Foke at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (ji3Wy)

133 "And Female Sexbots ... but mostly Female Sexbots. "

With AI technology and robotics progressing at the rate they are going, this may be the reality in 10 years.

And then the human race is done.

Posted by: cheshirecat at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (TwA+r)

134 "Most of the "born this way" lesbians I knew in college ended up married to a man
Posted by: 18-1"

LUG was a socially-acceptable way to avoid being accused of being a prude for not hooking up with every guy a girl met.

Posted by: FeatherBlade at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (ou9hh)

135 Another element is when a woman dates someone with wealth or status and she is permanently stuck at that level.

Another look at arranged marriages?

Posted by: Unknown Drip Under Pressure at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (iruKY)

136 LOL. Comics constantly bitch about hecklers, and several of them in a row came out and heckled a random woman at *their show,* simply for being alone. And these guys wonder why people don't really like comics, except for their jokes.

Posted by: Yudhishthira's Dice at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (0FoWg)

137 If a woman's going to go online and bitch about men, she'd better be wearing overalls with no shirt or bra and have huge, jiggly melons.
Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (v6JzV)


I wish I had saved that link.

Posted by: spindrift at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (OguvZ)

138 By the time they've finished riding the Cock Carousel, all the men their age and older have chosen younger models.

But it's not the years; it's the miles. Thank Dog that at least for my son, he doesn't have to struggle to defend his mother's honour.

I don't have to either. My parents fooled around before they married --but not before they met. My mom was already married when I was conceived, and 19 when I was born.

Thanks Mom for having me so young so I could have you for so long before you left! ❤️

Posted by: logprof at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (Uy5OP)

139 And Female Sexbots ... but mostly Female Sexbots.

If you go over to feminist sites a common cause they all sign on to are banning sex bots.

I honestly don't personally see the appeal but...apparently even feminists understand supply and demand

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (ibTVg)

140 The last time a woman indicated serious interest in me, she was:

1) mid
2) older
3) THE DEAL BREAKER (and she could not figure out why): married.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (xgbJW)

141 Posted by: SMH at what's coming at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (ZabZM)

Off to a great start. Congrats.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (0CsDL)

142 All in all you're just another brick in the wall.

Posted by: Hatari somewhere on Ventura Highway at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (NtVYv)

143 I think the Hallmark style movies are a part of the problem. They present a false description of what reality is or, at least, what they think reality should be. Middle aged women who live in mansions in diverse communities who support themselves with bakeries, antique shops, and what have you (and have plenty of time off to solve murders) and who attract woke pretty boys at the drop of a hat. Mrs. Wrecks was watching one the other night in which pretty boy wanted to watch a five hour Golden Girls marathon with protagonist. When real life doesn't live up to fairy land, they are disappointed, feel victimized, and become bitter.

Posted by: Anonosaurus Wrecks, I've Been Through the Desert On a Horse With No Shame at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (L/fGl)

144 "who either couldn't get a date to save their lives; were lesbians and thought other women should be, too; and/or had severe Daddy issues or abusive backgrounds."

Consider the source used to be conventional wisdom. The internet allows people to project fake happiness and success and for some reason we're supposed to believe it from people spewing poison and bitterness.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (Ectld)

145 I have to say that I feel bad for the women in those videos. They want something more and aren't finding it. Not sure why but at least they acknowledge that they want a fulfilling relationship as part of their life.

Posted by: The Central Scrutinizer at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (KbCG3)

146 If only all of these women knew that the roots of "Feminism" come from bitter mentally ill women who either couldn't get a date to save their lives; were lesbians and thought other women should be, too; and/or had severe Daddy issues or abusive backgrounds.

--

Or that Gloria Steinem was a CIA agent.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (ICJ9S)

147 there's been a thing on tiktok for a while with dating influencers using "sprinkle sprinkle" to convince women

that they should expect men to pay for everything and give them gifts in order to earn their attention.


We know what you are. We're just trying to settle on the price.

Posted by: rickb223 at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (ofCHO)

148 Doof should love the first vid because she uses 'literally' often.
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (Zz0t1)


You know me well! Far too many instances of "like" as well.

Having said all of that. If I was younger -- she's still probably a 1. And a violation of Rule #1.

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (h0Z+I)

149 Holding out for the 3rd World Immigrant Hordes they are. It'll be like Green Card except instead of Gerard Depardieu they'll get Mnutubisi Mmetranasi and his Mother, Mother Mmetranasi, and his brothers, Minoso, Manganese, and Mmm-mmm-mmm-mmm, and they'll have a nice Lutheran wedding in Minneapolis.

Posted by: Big Fat Meanie at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (YIxO9)

150 All in all you're just another brick in the wall.
Posted by: Hatari somewhere on Ventura Highway at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (NtVYv)

Or, you're just another brick that hit the wall

Do it again

Posted by: Hatari somewhere on Ventura Highway at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (NtVYv)

151 Another look at arranged marriages?

I know a few Indians that went that route. It seems to have worked, at least for the ones with a good relationship with their parents.

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (ibTVg)

152
Another look at arranged marriages?
Posted by: Unknown Drip Under Pressure at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (iruKY)

This will be a sure sign Americans really don’t like me. Well, they don’t already, but…

Posted by: Freewill at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (xgbJW)

153 110 Jane Fonda's Pussy Strikers hardest hit.
Posted by: Big Fat Meanie at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM

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Literally not at all. Unless they're all mouth and no south.

Posted by: SloPitch Whiffer at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (wzAuc)

154 ...45% of prime working age women (ages 25-44) will be single by 2030...

Well, after all, they are at the prime age to work. All women should try to work harder.

Posted by: Tom Perry at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (MX0bI)

155 I'm guessing most of these single women are mentally ill or massive narcissists. Just the fact that they post videos of themselves crying and moaning about being single (I couldn't make it past :15 of video) is a cringe-inducing Danger! Danger! sign.

I feel sorry for young guys these days.
Posted by: Biergood at May 22, 2024 01:32 PM (PwgSL)

That's because we don't teach women to control their wild emotions or really any other female faults.

We go after men's characteristic faults (too cold, too willing to use violence, etc...) but never mention how women also need to learn self-control.

The whole "If you can't take me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best!" crap. No, my job as a partner is to help you STOP BEING YOUR WORST and learn to be more like your best. Same as your job.

Not just take it as a given that you're a horrible human being and just accept that women are like that.

Posted by: Formerly Virginian at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (JMAcK)

156 The material of society is Shoulds. Either you're pushing your Shoulds on other people or they are pushing theirs on you.

You *cannot* say "Society shouldn't put its Shoulds on me" because that is a should you'll put on everybody who represents that part of society to you.

We expect help in survival from fellow humans, that's what creates the first and primal Should/Expectation. Then they need to be trustworthy so you can expect that they will fill that expectation.

If you don't like Shoulds, retire from society, because you'll either participate or become a hypocrite who thinks that their expectations are fair, unlike everybody else.

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (krQz2)

157 I really felt bad for the girl in the second video, having to be pointed out like a freak by everyone in the lineup, including the organizers. Poor thing. She seems like a nice girl.

I wouldn't put it on the internet, though. People seem to think it's normal to bare their miserable souls on TikTok.

Posted by: Miley, okravangelist at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (w6EFb)

158 Off to a great start. Congrats.
Posted by: polynikes
___

Thanks. : )

Posted by: SMH at what's coming at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (ZabZM)

159 121 @Jim 112

She's pretty awful. I don't know how women like that even find a mate.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (Ectld)

When my wife was...
I'd do things and she'd do things. I worked outside the home, she stayed at home with the kids. I'd wash clothes and cook if it was needed. As she got more sick, I did more, and didn't begrudge doing it. Marriage is a team event...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (ynpvh)

160 Another thing that annoys me, women constantly calling me a commitment phobe and being a male ho for pumping and dumping

Yo, how about not being a fucking mental nutcase, that might have something to do with me being a little apprehensive about tying the knot, mkay sugar tits?

Also, never enter into a contract that the other party gets rewarded for breaking

Posted by: The Unvaxed and Unmasked Ranger - Esteemed Trump-Ho and Searcher of Wagshambas at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (VTu1l)

161 108 My eldest daughter is 35, and met a guy last year who seems like a godly man.

Will be meeting him next month when they come up here to visit.

He also asked the hubby for her hand in marriage, and will propose to her when they're here.

He was also baptized at the church they both attend.
Posted by: SMH
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Best wishes SMH.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (PkS4e)

162 I think a lot of people today, men and women, don’t understand that for the vast majority of us raising a family is your most important contribution to humanity. Unless you’re an Einstein or some other very rare person, nothing will be left of your “career” after you die.

Posted by: sniffybigtoe at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (JTwsP)

163 @89 The Central Scrutinizer-at this point getting a piece of ass nowadays is the easy part. Domesticating them......impossible in the current culture/climate. Age doesn't matter either. From 25 to 55 all the same. Older ones are full of emotional baggage and stubborn about current feminist views. Self professed "Trad Con" women will go from 0 to feminist in 2.4 seconds so no reprieve there either.

Posted by: JROD at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (IlL6s)

164 "Mental illness has descended on this nation like never before."

Most leftists have multiple overlapping psychoses. The climate change psychosis. The COVID psychosis. The Trump psychosis. The Russia psychosis. The gender psychosis. The white supremacy psychosis. Etc.

They no longer know what is real and what is not real.

Posted by: Anti-Faucist at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (qUkBO)

165 Abortion will save us.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (7aRnr)

--

Women are no-joke convinced that having men give them money for showing their privates on onlyfans (and giving some of that money to the male owner of Onlyfans) is empowering *them*

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (ICJ9S)

166 147 there's been a thing on tiktok for a while with dating (fake word) using "sprinkle sprinkle" to convince women

that they should expect men to pay for everything and give them gifts in order to earn their attention.


We know what you are. We're just trying to settle on the price.
Posted by: rickb223 at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (ofCHO)

If (fake word) describes you or worse you use it to describe yourself, the influence you wield is zero.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (xgbJW)

167 President Joe Biden will not appear on Ohio’s November presidential ballot, according to Secretary of State

Posted by: Mark1971 at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (xPl2J)

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Whoops.

Whoopsie!

"We're gonna need another 10 million pre-filled ballots, stat!"

Posted by: ShainS -- Blood-Bath-and-Beyond angel investor at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (kMJiH)

168 I'm a big fan of marriage - IF you do it right. Married 38 years. Wife is amazing. Has taken care of me well through 6 bouts of cancer (ongoing), among many other things. She's not a female Jesus, but we've learned and grown together as committed Christians who wouldn't countenance divorce.

But I can see how bad it is for guys today. I heard a pastor talking about counseling couples where the wife slept around with alphas, then settled for a beta provider, but held the latter in contempt for reminding her that she had to settle. Divorce r*pe ensues, and he loses massive amounts of money and time with his kids. Gee, what's not to like?

Posted by: Eternity Matters at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (MTm8X)

169 That's because we don't teach women to control their wild emotions or really any other female faults.

We go after men's characteristic faults (too cold, too willing to use violence, etc...) but never mention how women also need to learn self-control.

The whole "If you can't take me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best!" crap. No, my job as a partner is to help you STOP BEING YOUR WORST and learn to be more like your best. Same as your job.


Insightful.

Posted by: Archimedes at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (CsUN+)

170 "here's been a thing on tiktok for a while with dating influencers using "sprinkle sprinkle" to convince women that they should expect men to pay for everything and give them gifts in order to earn their attention. "

Probably cheaper to save up for an extended vacation in the Pacific Isles or South America to go wife hunting.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (Ectld)

171 129 Abortion will save us.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (7aRnr)

Yesss! Just like rape preserves virginity!

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (ynpvh)

172 they need to get them to a nunnery

that always worked in the 16c

Posted by: kallisto at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (dCxaZ)

173 Maybe not putting it in a crazy might be the root cause?

Posted by: Maj. Healey at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (aFNOf)

174 67 The first woman's problem? Weird little hands.

Y’all. I just…short people have small hands. And small feet. Otherwise we would look like hobbits, something I am guessing also hits the negative column for looks.

These posts crack me up, honestly.

Posted by: Piper at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (p4NUW)

175 I think the Hallmark style movies are a part of the problem

It is the mirror reflection perspective of "pron distorts male versions of women".

Except...*most* men understand they aren't going to find attractive women getting stuck in their clothes dryers begging for "help" but...many women I've talked with think the Hallmark thing is kind of real...

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (ibTVg)

176 When my wife was...
I'd do things and she'd do things. I worked outside the home, she stayed at home with the kids. I'd wash clothes and cook if it was needed. As she got more sick, I did more, and didn't begrudge doing it. Marriage is a team event...
Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia)
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Lot of people both men and women don't get that. Still sorry about your losses recently.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (PkS4e)

177 I'm so glad I don't have children or grandchildren or any DNA at all to leave behind on this farked up planet.

Posted by: kallisto at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (dCxaZ)

178 And the son of a friend of mine just had a child out of wedlock with a woman who already has two kids by two different men she never married. What a train wreck for everyone - especially the kids. We need to bring back shame.

Posted by: Eternity Matters at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (MTm8X)

179 The root cause of the problem seems pretty obvious. Feminists pushed hard for women to be men's equals in the workplace and their delusional view of men in society (sleep around with everyone, do what they want without accountability, etc). They wanted the modern lifestyle, but still expected to marry a traditional man that has a better paying job, education, etc that will fully provide for her.

Unfortunately, with women taking over a large chunk of good paying jobs, there are few men in those finite jobs, and more women with higher expectations. Women either need to step back from the workforce, or change expectations to often being the primary breadwinner in the relationship and "marrying down".

Posted by: Moron Analyst at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (JCZqz)

180 Just the punchline

You've reached the top floor. The men you are shopping for are not in stock.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (0CsDL)

181 "These shifting lifestyle norms are enabling more women, with or without children, to work full time, which should continue to raise the labor force participation rate among single females," says Zentner. Rising labor-force participation rates should put upward pressure on women's wages and help increase overall consumer spending.
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None of which will matter one whit to demography. It will be good for companies, I suppose - but those same companies are eating their seed grain. No kids means no customers, but it's worse than that in fact. Humans are the basic, fundamental input in everything.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (d04cU)

182 135 Another element is when a woman dates someone with wealth or status and she is permanently stuck at that level.

Another look at arranged marriages?

Posted by: Unknown Drip Under Pressure at May 22, 2024 01:41 PM (iruKY)

If the pool around you is polluted, look outside. My brother's current wife is a good woman about his age, and I think this'll be his last one. He even adopted her daughter. She stood with him when he took care of Dad. That's a good woman.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (ynpvh)

183 Modern love.

A man was arrested last month after he tried to ram an adult film star's motorcycle and bludgeon the victim with a golf club, according to Los Angeles police.

James Gosselin, 26, allegedly attempted to run over an adult film actor identified in an LAPD search warrant affidavit as "Hamilton" while Hamilton rode his motorcycle April 2. Gosselin was jealous because Hamilton had made an adult film with his ex-girlfriend "Gia," according to the warrant's statement of probable cause.

Posted by: Anonosaurus Wrecks, I've Been Through the Desert On a Horse With No Shame at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (L/fGl)

184 "President Joe Biden will not appear on Ohio’s November presidential ballot, according to Secretary of State "

There will be a last-minute save by the Rep. House I'm sure. It's been done before. I'm fine with him being on the ballot. I don't want Ohio to be like Colorado or Maine.

Posted by: cheshirecat at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (TwA+r)

185 Biden made some weird comment about marrying into a family with a lot of sisters so that at least one of them will always be willing to "love" you.


Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (ibTVg)

186 Vivek Ramaswamy bought a 7.7% stake in Buzzfeed.

Hmm...

Posted by: Meade Lux Lewis, Domestic Terrorist at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (woPEM)

187 Another look at arranged marriages?
Posted by: Unknown Drip Under Pressure


Nope. My folks would have hooked me up with the wrong girl for sure.

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (v6JzV)

188 Sorry, girls, you can't have everything on your terms. It just is not the way the world works.

Posted by: huerfano at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (VGOMa)

189 Risking my life saying this, but every time a song comes across the playlist from it, I'm reminded just how damn good Operation: Mindcrime is.

Talk about staying power......

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (Zz0t1)

190 170 "here's been a thing on tiktok for a while with dating influencers using "sprinkle sprinkle" to convince women that they should expect men to pay for everything and give them gifts in order to earn their attention. "

Probably cheaper to save up for an extended vacation in the Pacific Isles or South America to go wife hunting.


that's called "passport bros", which is another thing entirely.

Posted by: anachronda at May 22, 2024 01:47 PM (sGtp+)

191 Maybe lots of men today are just losers and idiots and not like us baby boomers that had our head on straight about Marriage and Family. Guys today try to get in touch with their "Feminine" Side and maybe women really don't want this deep inside. Nothing wrong with the man being a breadwinner and the wife raising the kids. It has worked for thousand's of years.....

Posted by: Franklin Stein at May 22, 2024 01:47 PM (EZjX9)

192 American women - present company excepted - almost uniformly suck. Entitlement off the charts. Coddled, uptight, miserable, humorless. And that's the good points.

Talk to women from other countries. Whole different vibe, sorry.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 01:47 PM (7aRnr)

193 Most of these women have long lists of attributes a man must have, while offering very little in return. And they reject a man rudely and humiliate him in public without a second thought. It ain't rocket science. And when you have a body count, which most of them do, the value goes down quickly.

Posted by: Xipe Totec at May 22, 2024 01:47 PM (pohLc)

194 be left of your “career” after you die.
Posted by: sniffybigtoe at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (JTwsP)


What about all those empty liquor bottles ?

Posted by: Hatari somewhere on Ventura Highway at May 22, 2024 01:47 PM (NtVYv)

195 Listen to how these "grown ass" women whine. "I can't find someone worthy of MY time" right out the gate.

Well, for one, you're recording yourself crying which is symptom number one of onset AWFUL. Who TF wants to be in a relationship somebody like that? Where everything is a lecture, and men as a whole have been dehumanized merely for being straight men. You labelled them "toxic" and then have the audacity to question why the well water tastes like penis repellent? Generation Twitter learning that their little dome they lived under is no longer.

Posted by: melodicmetal1 at May 22, 2024 01:47 PM (XLfSN)

196 Thanks, whig. : )



Posted by: SMH at what's coming at May 22, 2024 01:47 PM (ZabZM)

197 Mrs Meanie celebrated 20 years a few months ago. As a GenXer who lived thru my parents' divorce (and they were both married twice), I was a hard sell on marriage. It took 10 head of oxen, a bag of silver ducats, and one fine pig to finally seal the deal.

Posted by: Big Fat Meanie at May 22, 2024 01:47 PM (YIxO9)

198 @Jim "Marriage is a team event..."

Agreed. Most women seem to want to treat it like a competition these days.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:47 PM (Ectld)

199 We need to bring back shame.
Posted by: Eternity Matters at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (MTm8X)

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I have been saying this for years!

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (DRSnL)

200 These young TikTok complainers can thank their moms and their grannies for enabling and celebrating and promoting this sh!te.
Every 60+ woman I've encountered in the professional world still thinks and acts like it's 1950 and women are restricted to the beauty parlor and the kitchen.

I'm so over it

Posted by: kallisto at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (dCxaZ)

201 Just the punchline

You've reached the top floor. The men you are shopping for are not in stock.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (0CsDL)
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Yes, the Man Store joke.

I've not met an honest woman who'll deny the truth of that illustration.

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (krQz2)

202 *most* men understand they aren't going to find attractive women getting stuck in their clothes dryers begging for "help"

Disconcerting.

Posted by: Archimedes at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (CsUN+)

203 there's been a thing on tiktok for a while with dating influencers using "sprinkle sprinkle" to convince women that they should expect men to pay for everything and give them gifts in order to earn their attention. it's a play on that, with men using "drizzle drizzle" and saying the same things to show how silly it is.

Posted by: anachronda at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM

The drizzle drizzle trend has been popular mainly because the sprinkle sprinkle women, and women in general, are getting offended by the drizzle drizzle men saying what they are saying, not even realizing the men are simply repeating the exact same things the sprinkle sprinkle women are saying... mocking them.

The mocking is going right over women's heads. Instead of taking a step back and realizing "oh, I see what you're doing... I can see how the sprinkle sprinkle trend is pretty stupid now"... they are taking the drizzle drizzle statements at face value and criticizing men over it.

Good one here explaining this from Emily W King:

Drizzle Drizzle; why men aren't stopping

https://bit.ly/3KbGiOb

Posted by: Clyde Shelton at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (P5BPp)

204 Feminists pushed hard for women to be men's equals in the workplace and their delusional view of men in societ

There is also this weird hyperfocus on the top echelons in the working world.

If you aren't a VP you failed. What? Most people who spend their whole lives in the corporate cube farms will never get that far....

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (ibTVg)

205 Regard to jobs, men are screwing up too. That's why immigrants are a significant percentage of the trades. We need more trade High Schools and less college prep High Schools.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (0CsDL)

206 140 The last time a woman indicated serious interest in me, she was:

1) mid
2) older
3) THE DEAL BREAKER (and she could not figure out why): married.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (xgbJW)

Hah! Yeah, that's a deal-breaker. Had a brother who dated a woman; one evening, guy breaks into the 2nd floor bedroom where they were staying, and my brother made him go out the window the way he came in...
Turned out he was the estranged husband, and the woman my brother was dating NEVER told him. He ended the relationship right then and there.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (ynpvh)

207 I was lucky. In my 20s, I met a woman who was low drama. It wasn't even what attracted me to her ("Drama queen" wasn't even a term back then) but it has made marriage so easy over the decades.
Now we live in a society that promotes excessive drama and shrieking emotions in women. No man should have to tolerate that.

Posted by: Wally at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (hqVaF)

208 www.youtube.com/watch?v=acgjLx1hD48



There's a word for women like that.

Starts with a C and ends with a T and there may or may not be an umlaut in there somewhere.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (Zz0t1)

209 President Joe Biden will not appear on Ohio’s November presidential ballot, according to Secretary of State
Posted by: Mark1971

LOL...I'm in Ohio. That's hilarious. Do you have a link?

Posted by: Biergood at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (PwgSL)

210 I worked with a guy that had an arranged marriage. He lived here and she lived in some other state. Sounded pretty good to me.

Posted by: sniffybigtoe at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (JTwsP)

211 Korean single women appear to be off the charts rotten.

Posted by: mr tmz at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (rJ48h)

212 @Ranger

If every woman you date is crazy, that's not coincidence. It's a type. Turns out women who allow pump and dump trend towards crazy over time.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (Ectld)

213 Women are no-joke convinced that having men give them money for showing their privates on onlyfans (and giving some of that money to the male owner of Onlyfans) is empowering *them*
Posted by: Moron Robbie
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It is what happens when a culture is dying. People are out for whatever they can grab now and to hell with future consequences.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (PkS4e)

214 It's neat to think of the big picture, too.

Women get priority in academics, scholarships, hiring, promotions, etc. And they won't consider dating men that aren't doing better than them. But women get priority in hiring and promotions...

Gosh, i wonder where this is going to go?

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:49 PM (ICJ9S)

215 Don't forget trying out being a lesbian.
Posted by: Disgusted at May 22, 2024 01:29 PM


Do they have well-formed elbows and are willing to be videoed?

Asking for a browser tab.

Posted by: J. Random Single 'Ron at May 22, 2024 01:49 PM (a3Q+t)

216 164 "Mental illness has descended on this nation like never before."

Most leftists have multiple overlapping psychoses. The climate change psychosis. The COVID psychosis. The Trump psychosis. The Russia psychosis. The gender psychosis. The white supremacy psychosis. Etc.

They no longer know what is real and what is not real.
Posted by: Anti-Faucist

They need to develop a hot lead psychosis.

Posted by: Maj. Healey at May 22, 2024 01:49 PM (aFNOf)

217 "If the pool around you is polluted, look outside. My brother's current wife is a good woman about his age, and I think this'll be his last one. He even adopted her daughter. She stood with him when he took care of Dad. That's a good woman."

And that brings us to the phenomenon of the "passport bros" who have decided western women aren't worth the effort and travel elsewhere to meet more traditional women. Sort of the reverse "mail-order" bride. Naturally, the feminists (who didn't want them in the first place) now are saying they are only going to get easy sex and stupid uneducated backwater women. So, insulting both the men and women at the same time.

Posted by: cheshirecat at May 22, 2024 01:49 PM (TwA+r)

218 To the second chick I say, "Tzeitel, why won't you just listen to the Matchmaker."

Posted by: SloPitch Whiffer at May 22, 2024 01:49 PM (wzAuc)

219 I wouldn't put it on the internet, though. People seem to think it's normal to bare their miserable souls on TikTok.
Posted by: Miley, okravangelist at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (w6EFb)

That lady has, as she said, struck out consistently on the dating apps and in meatspace, and can't find a man, and is super pissed about it. I suspect she's hoping some nice man will see that video and take pity on her and come rescue her.

It might be one of the single worst strategies ever devised by the mind of woman, but I think that's the play she's running here.

Posted by: Yudhishthira's Dice at May 22, 2024 01:49 PM (0FoWg)

220 And now these young women are coming up against Gen Z and Millenial males who are also over it and refuse to be feminized so I guess that's why they are venting on TikTok because the tactics that worked on their dads are not gaining traction on their male peers

sux to be them

Posted by: kallisto at May 22, 2024 01:49 PM (dCxaZ)

221 "If a woman is interested in relationship or marriage she can find a relationship or marriage."

I suppose that marrying the excuse-making loser because he's the only option that has presented himself certainly does qualify as "finding a relationship or marriage".

And then when she's poor and miserable because she married an excuse making loser, everyone around her will says "Well, you knew he was an excuse-making loser when you married him, so you brought this in yourself."

The idea that "a woman can find a relationship or marriage if she wants one" assumes a) that all potential mates are equally wise and compatible choices, b) that a man has no preferences in the matter, and c) that the man is willing to have the same kind of relation ship the woman is.

If a woman wants a f*ck-buddy, sure, any man will do, and most men might be willing.

If a woman wants a husband, she needs to be a little more discerning, and has to find a man who is willing to marry her.

So the problems of "finding a relationship" and "finding a marriage" are two different ones that really shouldn't be conflated.

Posted by: FeatherBlade at May 22, 2024 01:49 PM (ou9hh)

222 189 Risking my life saying this, but every time a song comes across the playlist from it, I'm reminded just how damn good Operation: Mindcrime is.

Talk about staying power......
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (Zz0t1)

(Phone rings)

“Hello?”
“(Music in background) “MINDCRIME.”
hangs up
(Shudders)

(Phone rings)

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (xgbJW)

223 Marriage is a team event...
Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (ynpvh)

Amen.

Posted by: Nova Local at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (exHjb)

224 there's been a thing on tiktok for a while with dating influencers using "sprinkle sprinkle" to convince women that they should expect men to pay for everything and give them gifts in order to earn their attention. it's a play on that, with men using "drizzle drizzle" and saying the same things to show how silly it is.

Posted by: anachronda at May 22, 2024 01:36 PM



Talked to a waitress once where she said she went on a date with a guy who brought her flowers then got completely bent out of shape when she didn't have a gift for him in return.

I'm SOO glad I'm not one of the younger generations, or single currently.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (Zz0t1)

225 Drizzle Drizzle; men have flipped the script but women DON'T GET IT

Emily W King: https://bit.ly/4brGIfD

Posted by: Clyde Shelton at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (P5BPp)

226 176 As she got more sick, I did more, and didn't begrudge doing it. Marriage is a team event...
Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia

Jim, you are a solid human and you have your priorities in order. You are managing through grief right now in an amazing way and have a thing or two to teach about strength, humility, love and family.

Posted by: Piper at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (p4NUW)

227 At some point they may realize they've been sold a lie their entire lives, but I doubt it.
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I suspect many do. One thing to be careful of that social media is self-selecting. Nobody has ever made money or acquired popularity and accolades for telling people they've made an unfixable mistake based on bad premises and that they are screwed forever and can best serve as an object lesson to those who come next. Add into that the fact of social media being psychogenic in the first place and no, there will be no acceptance or accountability in these kinds of productions.

The real question here is not whether the kinds of middle-aged single and embittered women on social media will continue to rationalize their conditions and histories, but whether younger women will *see* those mistakes and adjust accordingly. Time will tell on that, but we may be out of that particular commodity.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (d04cU)

228 So is asking the father's permission before proposing to the daughter a thing again? That was done with two of my nieces.

If I had asked her father's permission first (which he would have gladly given), my wife would've smacked me.

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (v6JzV)

229 Risking my life saying this, but every time a song comes across the playlist from it, I'm reminded just how damn good Operation: Mindcrime is.

Talk about staying power......
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (Zz0t1)


Just don't quote any lyrics and you should be ok!

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (h0Z+I)

230 I could teach these girls a little something.

Posted by: Jackie Mackey Paisley Passey at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (woPEM)

231 "the feminists now are saying they are only going to get easy sex and stupid uneducated backwater women. So, insulting both the men and women at the same time."

Sour grapes aren't insulting. They're hilarious.

Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (Ectld)

232 Coddled, uptight, miserable, humorless. And that's the good points.

Talk to women from other countries. Whole different vibe, sorry.
Posted by: ...
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Joyless is my go to descriptor.

Posted by: scampydog at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (2bFN5)

233 (Phone rings)

“Hello?”
“(Music in background) “MINDCRIME.”
hangs up
(Shudders)

(Phone rings)
Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (xgbJW)



"HEY!"

"HEY!!!"

"LISTEN TO ME!!!!!"

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (Zz0t1)

234 151 Another look at arranged marriages?

I know a few Indians that went that route. It seems to have worked, at least for the ones with a good relationship with their parents.

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (ibTVg)

There was an episode of the Simpsons where Apu was arranged to marry, and fretted that 1 out of 12 arranged marriages fail...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (ynpvh)

235 I watched the video with first woman above yesterday and my first thought was the woman's saying that her therapist telling her what to do is a definite tell. It's telling me "warning Will Robinson, danger, danger"

Posted by: Smell the Glove at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (enVpg)

236 The material of society is Shoulds. Either you're pushing your Shoulds on other people or they are pushing theirs on you.

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Something a therapist told me in my young adult and very angry/depressed/anxious stage: "Stop shoulding all over yourself."

Posted by: ShainS -- Blood-Bath-and-Beyond angel investor at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (kMJiH)

237 223 Marriage is a team event...
Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM (ynpvh)

Like baseball? Pitcher and catcher?

Posted by: Auspex at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (j4U/Z)

238 I'm SOO glad I'm not one of the younger generations, or single currently.
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM (Zz0t1)

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Amen

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (DRSnL)

239 I worked with a guy that had an arranged marriage. He lived here and she lived in some other state. Sounded pretty good to me.

A Jordanian friend of mine had a cousin that was a "refugee" in Sweden.

Got an apartment from the government and a check. He shacked up with a Swedish woman and rented out the apartment.

When she found out he was married back in Jordan and going back to perform his husbandly duties she dumped him.

But...he found another woman in Italy (isn't free travel across national borders great?) that doesn't mind his wifey back home. Still has the apartment and check from Sweden though too...

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (ibTVg)

240 "I've been trying to meet anybody worth my time for years".
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I think I see the problem.

Posted by: Braenyard at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (E78bp)

241 170 Probably cheaper to save up for an extended vacation in the Pacific Isles or South America to go wife hunting.
Posted by: Ribbed at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (Ectld)


At 29++, I'm pretty much convinced that'd be the only way I could meet a single woman who isn't tatted and pierced.

Posted by: antisocial justice beatnik at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (DTX3h)

242 Turned out he was the estranged husband, and the woman my brother was dating NEVER told him. He ended the relationship right then and there.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (ynpvh)


lol so much drama

Posted by: kallisto at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (dCxaZ)

243 I'm smiling next to you...in silent lucidity.

Great album, definitely.

Posted by: Big Fat Meanie at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (YIxO9)

244 >>There's a word for women like that.

Starts with a C and ends with a T and there may or may not be an umlaut in there somewhere.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM

I use an asterisk, much like you.

Posted by: C*ntessa Brewer, former tv star at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (VGOMa)

245 seen at althouse, gotta share this: a comment about aoc:

She always seems to me to look like a confused horse eating an apple.

Posted by: gnats local 678 at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (B1FKF)

246 WRT second lament video: 20 seconds in and she says, "I've been trying to find somebody - anybody - worth my time..."

I think I spotted the problem and need no more video.

Posted by: AnonybotymousDrivel at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (aXxgO)

247 I feel the same about these women as I do about "elite" college faculty and administrators: You wanted this, you got this. Enjoy it.

Posted by: goatexchange at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (0s1Rh)

248 The idea that "a woman can find a relationship or marriage if she wants one" assumes a) that all potential mates are equally wise and compatible choices, b) that a man has no preferences in the matter, and c) that the man is willing to have the same kind of relation ship the woman is.

If a woman wants a f*ck-buddy, sure, any man will do, and most men might be willing.

If a woman wants a husband, she needs to be a little more discerning, and has to find a man who is willing to marry her.

So the problems of "finding a relationship" and "finding a marriage" are two different ones that really shouldn't be conflated.
Posted by: FeatherBlade at May 22, 2024 01:49 PM (ou9hh)

If talking about quantity passed on though, the answer is usually a very large number. It's very easy for women to get attention, though they're often poor at sorting and have a poor sense of their own relative value(which is highly important as to whether the man would consider marrying her). Women frequently aim for men who wouldn't marry them, because the man is the most attractive(by whatever criteria) one giving her attention. Thing is, that biases towards well above them.

Posted by: Red Turban Someguy - The Republic is already dead! at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (eYoxG)

249
Sorry, my level of sympathy is 0.000 to the 174th decimal place.

There was a scene in "Margin Call" where Demi Moore and Stanley Tucci are in a rubber room to keep them in well-conpensated isolation while the apocalypse is going on. Demi asks Stanley if he has any children, to which he replies he has two. Clearly, she gave up that to climb the ladder, which has collapsed under her. Now she has no hope. Poignant.

Posted by: Hadrian the Seventh at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (MoZTd)

250 I remember what I guess I'll call Donahue-ism back when Phil Donahue had his talk show.

People pushed the idea that could be summed up that somebody who "puts expectations" on you is WRONG to do so. Exterior expectations are wrong and mean.

You should be allowed to be you. And others just have to appreciate you for who you are.

This "perfection" has done a lot of damage over time in this society. And has created expectations that cannot be fulfilled, but only reconciled by a lack of notice.

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (krQz2)

251 Guys today try to get in touch with their "Feminine" Side and maybe women really don't want this deep inside. Nothing wrong with the man being a breadwinner and the wife raising the kids. It has worked for thousand's of years.....
Posted by: Franklin Stein

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You make a great point.

Women insisted they wanted men to be in touch with their feminine side. Fine, men said. They did it and became less masculine overall and less capable of doing masculine things.

Women then complained because men held the doors and they #MeToo'd and insisted men leave them alone and not talk to them at the grocery store and didn't compliment their looks, and men said "fine" and did what women asked.

It's almost like... Well, nevermind.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (ICJ9S)

252 I suspect she's hoping some nice man will see that video and take pity on her and come rescue her.

It might be one of the single worst strategies ever devised by the mind of woman, but I think that's the play she's running here.


She'll doubtless attract lots of men who know she's desperate and is likely to put out. I doubt she will be happy with them.

Posted by: Archimedes at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (CsUN+)

253 195 Listen to how these "grown ass" women whine. "I can't find someone worthy of MY time" right out the gate.

Well, for one, you're recording yourself crying which is symptom number one of onset AWFUL. Who TF wants to be in a relationship somebody like that? Where everything is a lecture, and men as a whole have been dehumanized merely for being straight men. You labelled them "toxic" and then have the audacity to question why the well water tastes like penis repellent? Generation Twitter learning that their little dome they lived under is no longer.
Posted by: melodicmetal1
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People in general have always bitched and moaned, said inappropriate things, and so on. The only difference now is that YT, Tik Tok, Fakebook, etc. have sold personal dramas as a substitute for soap operas online.

But, like people on Only Fans, etc. are finding out, the Internet is pretty much forever.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (PkS4e)

254 You've reached the top floor. The men you are shopping for are not in stock.

Posted by: polynikes

The midgets in the basement are half off.

Posted by: Anonosaurus Wrecks, I've Been Through the Desert On a Horse With No Shame at May 22, 2024 01:53 PM (L/fGl)

255 That lady has, as she said, struck out consistently on the dating apps and in meatspace, and can't find a man, and is super pissed about it. I suspect she's hoping some nice man will see that video and take pity on her and come rescue her.

She would reject him out of hand for lack of 6 figures, 6+feet, and 6-pack.

Posted by: Xipe Totec at May 22, 2024 01:53 PM (pohLc)

256 That's because we don't teach women to control their wild emotions or really any other female faults.

We go after men's characteristic faults (too cold, too willing to use violence, etc...) but never mention how women also need to learn self-control.

Posted by: Formerly Virginian
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Back in youthful dating days I used this line frequently. You have no risk of getting punched in the face by your words or actions. I do not have that luxury.

Posted by: scampydog at May 22, 2024 01:53 PM (2bFN5)

257 @249 -- great movie...but I thought her character had a kid. Should have done a better job at risk assessment.

Posted by: Big Fat Meanie at May 22, 2024 01:53 PM (YIxO9)

258 205 Regard to jobs, men are screwing up too. That's why immigrants are a significant percentage of the trades. We need more trade High Schools and less college prep High Schools.
Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM (0CsDL)

Or high schools with trade options.

I’m going to be very unpopular with my colleagues: I have already let it be known that college is not for everybody. Back in my day it was assumed than everyone in HS was going to go to college. Bad thinking.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:53 PM (xgbJW)

259 David Spade tells a funny anecdote ,at the height of his success , about a first time date he had with a beautiful girl who moved to LA to become an actress but as with most just ended up working a lot of dead end jobs. The gist of it was he felt like he was the one being interviewed and judged if he was successful enough for her time.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 01:54 PM (0CsDL)

260 It's simple!

Just marry a broad with 4 or 5 sisters. If you're lucky, you'll bang all of them!

Posted by: Joe Biden - Marriage Counselor at May 22, 2024 01:54 PM (Zz0t1)

261 "I want love in my life so badly.
It's not about anyone else it's about me".
-----------------------

I think I see the problem.

Posted by: Braenyard at May 22, 2024 01:54 PM (E78bp)

262
Women get priority in academics, scholarships, hiring, promotions, etc. And they won't consider dating men that aren't doing better than them. But women get priority in hiring and promotions...

Gosh, i wonder where this is going to go?

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging


Toward the end of my working career I had two women bosses. Guys, take my advice, get into the trades and start your own business. You do not want to compete against these women. First, the cards are stacked against you. Second, they're miserable people. Fauci has better ethics and he wanted to kill a large percentage of humanity.

Posted by: Divide by Zero at May 22, 2024 01:54 PM (RKVpM)

263 *most* men understand they aren't going to find attractive women getting stuck in their clothes dryers begging for "help"
---
Are you saying that rabbit I found in my dryer one day *wasn't* a princess under an enchantment from an evil step-mother?

I'm not sure I want to live in that world...

Posted by: "Perfessor" Squirrel at May 22, 2024 01:54 PM (si1C0)

264 She would reject him out of hand for lack of 6 figures, 6+feet, and 6-pack.
Posted by: Xipe Totec at May 22, 2024 01:53 PM (pohLc)

=====

Bingo. Although I thought the last 6 wasn't six-pack.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 01:54 PM (DRSnL)

265 Marriage is a team event...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia)

Undeniably true. And dating is the negotiation phase where you come to terms with what you can accept and what you can change, because everyone has their flaws and some days we can all be hard to live with.

Young women approaching the dating phase like terrorists, with a list of demands, or like merchants looking to barter goods and services don't seem likely to find happiness.

Posted by: Grudge Harbor at May 22, 2024 01:54 PM (hCzfy)

266 One of my brothers did not marry until he was in his late 30s. He married a woman who is a couple of years older than he is who had also never been married. They've been together for more than 25 years. For both of them, it was a matter of finding the right person.

Posted by: huerfano at May 22, 2024 01:54 PM (VGOMa)

267 That first video turned me off that woman immediately. If you can't get your first sentence out without a cliche and an f bomb, you're an entitled idiot.
Posted by: Archimedes at May 22, 2024


***
That, and her whiny voice. She's attractive enough (though there's more than a hint of flab around the waistline that she could work on), but . . .

Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at May 22, 2024 01:55 PM (J2vNu)

268 "If a woman is interested in relationship or marriage she can find a relationship or marriage."

I suppose that marrying the excuse-making loser because he's the only option that has presented himself certainly does qualify as "finding a relationship or marriage".

And then when she's poor and miserable because she married an excuse making loser, everyone around her will says "Well, you knew he was an excuse-making loser when you married him, so you brought this in yourself."

-

I wasn't trying to make anything personal and still won't engage in a way that creates that environment.

but yes, this:

"If a woman is interested in relationship or marriage she can find a relationship or marriage."

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:55 PM (ICJ9S)

269 I feel the same about these women as I do about "elite" college faculty and administrators: You wanted this, you got this. Enjoy it.

Posted by: goatexchange at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (0s1Rh)


Slightly reworded -- "You got what you asked for. Not my fault it's not what you wanted."

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 01:55 PM (h0Z+I)

270 This "perfection" has done a lot of damage over time in this society. And has created expectations that cannot be fulfilled, but only reconciled by a lack of notice.
Posted by: Axeman
------
Yes, kinda diametrically opposed to a certain religion that posits we are all sinners in need of divine Grace. Few people are natural saints--even Mother Theresa apparently grumbled about some of her clients out of their earshot.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 01:55 PM (PkS4e)

271 Does Harrison Butker have an available brother?

Posted by: Lars at May 22, 2024 01:55 PM (kJH1Z)

272 Finding dudes is so difficult that my girlfriend's daughter is now dating a transgender "woman." I believe he is trying to convert her to a "man" so that he can finally satisfy his latent homosexuality. But girlfriend's daughter says she's in a lesbian relationship. Clownworld.

Posted by: Anti-Faucist at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (qUkBO)

273 Wait, so women are looking for a 666?

Posted by: sniffybigtoe at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (JTwsP)

274 There are rumbles outside.......

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (Zz0t1)

275 IMO; both those gals in the videos appear mentally unstable. The slapping of the hands, the crying, the demanding recognition for who they believe they are. Life is hard and raising a family is harder. What would those 2 loons bring to the table other than demands and angst? I guess some guys are saying no thanks.

Posted by: Crusader Rabbit at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (Jpaxf)

276 People in general have always bitched and moaned, said inappropriate things, and so on. The only difference now is that YT, Tik Tok, Fakebook, etc. have sold personal dramas as a substitute for soap operas online.

But, like people on Only Fans, etc. are finding out, the Internet is pretty much forever.
Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (PkS4e)

Also, this 1000X.

The other difference is that it skews everyone's perceptions. Most women and men are normal - but they don't think the others are. B/c the internet tells them they aren't...and they never get out in their neighborhoods and communities to see otherwise.

Posted by: Nova Local at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (exHjb)

277 Some of this is driven by click-bait.

Posted by: m at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (hyRRf)

278 Guys today try to get in touch with their "Feminine" Side and maybe women really don't want this deep inside.

Posted by: Franklin Stein

---

They needn't worry. It doesn't go deep inside.

Posted by: Guy Whose Feminine Side is Front and Center at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (wzAuc)

279 Except...*most* men understand they aren't going to find attractive women getting stuck in their clothes dryers begging for "help"
Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM


What? It happens to me several times every week. The odd part is they never seem to have money to pay for my service call.

Posted by: Big Sausage Appliance Repair at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (a3Q+t)

280 She would reject him out of hand for lack of 6 figures, 6+feet, and 6-pack.
Posted by: Xipe Totec at May 22, 2024 01:53 PM (pohLc)

=====

Bingo. Although I thought the last 6 wasn't six-pack.
Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 01:54 PM (DRSnL)


6 shooter??

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (h0Z+I)

281 177 I'm so glad I don't have children or grandchildren or any DNA at all to leave behind on this farked up planet.

Posted by: kallisto at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (dCxaZ)

Looking at all my parents' grandchildren...
maybe a few will marry and have kids. I know of at least a few of them that definitely won't (female->male trans, another cut off her breasts, others don't want to have kids for various reasons).
So yeah, even if I have kids, no guarantee of a generation beyond that. Hey, I did my part (mostly finding my wife). Not up to me for the rest.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (ynpvh)

282 This thread needs a busty bikini brunette.

Posted by: wth at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (v0R5T)

283 "HEY!"

"HEY!!!"

"LISTEN TO ME!!!!!"
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (Zz0t1)

(Lowering of car window)
“Kill her. That’s all you have to do.”
“Kill Mary?”
“She’s a risk. And get the priest as well.”
(Car window rises, drives away, thunder, rain)

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (xgbJW)

284 My son highly recommends Tijuana.

Mexican gals are sweet and domesticated.

The Guess Who had a great song about "American Woman."

Posted by: No one of any consequence. at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (VuZH8)

285 Have yet to see a poll that shows T far enough ahead to beat the cheat.

I remain below the layer in Gault mode.

Going deep. Out.

Posted by: Queequeg the Harpooner at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (vt7xw)

286 178 And the son of a friend of mine just had a child out of wedlock with a woman who already has two kids by two different men she never married. What a train wreck for everyone - especially the kids. We need to bring back shame.

Posted by: Eternity Matters at May 22, 2024 01:45 PM (MTm8X)

Next week on "Who's Yo Daddy..."...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (ynpvh)

287 If you want two feminine sides in a marriage go be a lesbian. Men are men not your girlfriend.

Posted by: Ben HaduButker made the speech at a CATHOLIC at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (s7CNV)

288 Although I thought the last 6 wasn't six-pack.
Posted by: Jordan61
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hahaha

Posted by: scampydog at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (2bFN5)

289 To find a "mate", you enter into a relationships where there is a whole level more expectation and a more sizable role to fill.

This is why the other person treats you so special in this relationship is that they now will invest a *good* chunk of their time and energy on you.

There are a lot of parts to fulfilling this role in a relationship that aren't just you being who you are.

(It's a little embarrassing how long it's taken to get my head unscrewed from the Talk Show Gospels of the 20th century. Even while not investing that strong of belief in it.)

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (krQz2)

290 The Moronable Judge Juan Merchan is making Haitians look smart.

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (RHGPo)

291
'33 yr old woman, that's been single for 7 yrs crying about being single.'

What does that mean?
She was married until 26?
Needs a comma after 'single'? or needs one after 'yrs'?

Posted by: Ciampino - don't marry a feminist at May 22, 2024 01:58 PM (qfLjt)

292 Remember the airplane crazy lady? She is lovely, and will never have a lasting marriage. And she demonstrated why on video for all to see.

Posted by: Xipe Totec at May 22, 2024 01:58 PM (pohLc)

293 President Joe Biden will not appear on Ohio’s November presidential ballot, according to Secretary of State
Posted by: Mark1971

Lol...just wait until I rule on the appeal.

Posted by: Hawaiian Judge Mal'iki-maki' at May 22, 2024 01:58 PM (JCZqz)

294 I got a six pack, it’s under this keg hanging over my belt.

Posted by: sniffybigtoe at May 22, 2024 01:58 PM (JTwsP)

295 Uh oh......the forbidden lyric has been posted.

May God have mercy on us all.......

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:58 PM (Zz0t1)

296 183
...
James Gosselin, 26, allegedly attempted to run over an adult film actor identified in an LAPD search warrant affidavit as "Hamilton" while Hamilton rode his motorcycle April 2. Gosselin was jealous because Hamilton had made an adult film with his ex-girlfriend "Gia," according to the warrant's statement of probable cause.

Posted by: Anonosaurus Wrecks, I've Been Through the Desert On a Horse With No Shame at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (L/fGl)

Was she his ex-girlfriend BEFORE or AFTER the porn?

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:58 PM (ynpvh)

297 Modernity is a lie and has not the culture well.

Posted by: Spiff the Spaceman at May 22, 2024 01:58 PM (evaxF)

298 How many of them lost their minds after that speech by the Chiefs kicker?

Posted by: Last Days of the Republic at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (perM6)

299 TBH society should encourage women to marry and have children young, THEN enter college or the working world.

It is a lot easier to have a baby at 20 then at 35, and if you want more then one...

That would mean structuring society so

1) Women and men have different life paths
2) Women marry somewhat older men
3) The government/taxes/regulations are reduced to the extent that a young man can again earn enough to pay to support a family

Pretty sure this is all rank heresy to modern feminism but...this is also what Heritage America looked like

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (ibTVg)

300 273 Wait, so women are looking for a 666?

sounds vaguely sinister if you say it like that.

Posted by: anachronda at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (sGtp+)

301 184 "President Joe Biden will not appear on Ohio’s November presidential ballot, according to Secretary of State "

There will be a last-minute save by the Rep. House I'm sure. It's been done before. I'm fine with him being on the ballot. I don't want Ohio to be like Colorado or Maine.

Posted by: cheshirecat at May 22, 2024 01:46 PM (TwA+r)

Different issue. The Ohio one has to do with the Dem Conv. happening too late to make the cut-off for a candidate to be added to the ballot. Not Ohio's fault, but the Dems.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (ynpvh)

302 Even though this is fun to watch harpies being miserable, we all pay the price. Nuclear family is important to society and single women never leave the Democrat plantation.

Posted by: Blago at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (GGZN1)

303 Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:48 PM

I use an asterisk, much like you.
Posted by: C*ntessa Brewer, former tv star at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (VGOMa)

She was hot! Then she started talking….

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (xgbJW)

304 291
'33 yr old woman, that's been single for 7 yrs crying about being single.'

What does that mean?
She was married until 26?
Needs a comma after 'single'? or needs one after 'yrs'?
Posted by: Ciampino - don't marry a feminist at May 22, 2024 01:58 PM (qfLjt)

Presumably no boyfriend for the last 7 years.

Posted by: Red Turban Someguy - The Republic is already dead! at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (eYoxG)

305 This thread needs a busty bikini brunette.
Posted by: wth at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (v0R5T)




https://is.gd/Ado81k

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (Zz0t1)

306 Regard to jobs, men are screwing up too. That's why immigrants are a significant percentage of the trades. We need more trade High Schools and less college prep High Schools.
Posted by: polynikes

-

?

I've lived in the South my entire life. I watched the illegals take over because they'll work for nothing until they get control of the trade and then it costs the same as hiring Americans. "Screwing up" is not why illegals have taken over drywall, roofing, etc.

"Screwing up" is not why mills have closed and industry has been shipped overseas.

It turns out that American men working and trying to raise families aren't really represented in our country. Which is probably part of why Trump was so hated.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (ICJ9S)

307 I HAVE A MASTER'S DEGREE IN SOCIOLOGY!

NO MAN IS WORTHY OF ME!

Posted by: Typical "Educated" Female! at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (uxCna)

308 Single women should reconsider the guys in their friend zone . You definitely need to like each other as friends more than just the flash falling in 'love' if you want a relationship to last.

At least that's my opinion based on my experience.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (0CsDL)

309 If a woman wants a husband, she needs to be a little more discerning, and has to find a man who is willing to marry her.

There is this thing called "Church". People who are motivated to become better people go there, occasionally several times a week to learn, develop and hone their civilizational skills. Men learn to be godly men and women learn to be godly women. This means people jettison their carnal, selfish ways and develop an 'agapé love for others.

If being a good person was natural, there would be no need to undergo what ends up being a life long transformation.

Those two videos demonstrate that these characters had zero interest in becoming Proverbs 31 women. And likely there are very few men who want to be disciplined godly men.

So, of course, their will be sinful conflicts, friction and discord.

The bulk of our culture long ago abandoned training up our children to be responsible partners and parents.

Posted by: Unknown Drip Under Pressure at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (iruKY)

310 6 shooter??
Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 01:56 PM (h0Z+I)

=====

Umm...nope.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (DRSnL)

311 There was an old joke about Heaven and hell.

Heaven was :

English butler,
french cook,...
and a Japanese wife.

Hell was:

English cook,...

and an American wife.

Posted by: No one of any consequence. at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (VuZH8)

312
Roles define reality. My father lived until he was 93 and never cooked a meal for himself because his mom, sisters, wife and daughters did that for him. Insisted, in fact.

He gave a lot more out of deal than he got, but it was still an even deal.

Posted by: Auspex at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (j4U/Z)

313 235 I watched the video with first woman above yesterday and my first thought was the woman's saying that her therapist telling her what to do is a definite tell. It's telling me "warning Will Robinson, danger, danger"
Posted by: Smell the Glove at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (enVpg)

Seem to have read somewhere about never sticking something into crazy.

Posted by: Our Country is Screwed at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (N39Ws)

314 That second "woman" is a man.

Posted by: nurse ratched at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (c4Miv)

315 >>James Gosselin, 26, allegedly attempted to run over an adult film actor identified in an LAPD search warrant affidavit as "Hamilton" while Hamilton rode his motorcycle April 2. Gosselin was jealous because Hamilton had made an adult film with his ex-girlfriend "Gia,"


I bet that dude had a loooong list of people to run over next.

Posted by: garrett at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (gmlRP)

316 Joyless is my go to descriptor.
Posted by: scampydog at May 22, 2024 01:51 PM (2bFN5)

Yep in a nutshell!!!

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (7aRnr)

317 WRT second lament video: 20 seconds in and she says, "I've been trying to find somebody - anybody - worth my time..."

I think I spotted the problem and need no more video.
Posted by: AnonybotymousDrivel at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (aXxgO)

It's probable that she drastically overestimates the value of her time.

It's also probable that the men she meets aren't worth the real value of it.

Mollycoddled, half-a-fag blue city man-children who swipe at dating apps between rounds of videogames and delay dates because of monkeypox flareups aren't a real prize.

And G-d forbid she needs something repaired by someone who knows the difference between a 24 and 32 thread machine screw. These boys can only work a cell phone.

Posted by: Yudhishthira's Dice at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (0FoWg)

318 The Guess Who had a great song about "American Woman."
Posted by: No one of any consequence.

That song had a profound impact on me when it first came out during my youth...

Posted by: Admiral Rachel Levine at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (JCZqz)

319 Wonder if the Rhubarb Lady is back on the market.

I could go for her pie if you know what I mean.

Posted by: Big Fat Meanie at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (YIxO9)

320
So is asking the father's permission before proposing to the daughter a thing again? That was done with two of my nieces.

If I had asked her father's permission first (which he would have gladly given), my wife would've smacked me.

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 01:50 PM


Personally I was offended and thought this son of immigrants was bringing an 'old school' concept of her as being a possession to be turned over. I raised my daughter to be fiercely independent.

But that's me, and maybe I was wrong. But it did rub me the wrong way.

Posted by: Divide by Zero at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (RKVpM)

321 Are you staring me down right now?

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (RHGPo)

322 There was a scene in "Margin Call" where Demi Moore and Stanley Tucci are in a rubber room to keep them in well-conpensated isolation while the apocalypse is going on. Demi asks Stanley if he has any children, to which he replies he has two. Clearly, she gave up that to climb the ladder, which has collapsed under her. Now she has no hope. Poignant.

Posted by: Hadrian the Seventh at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM

Just recently watched that. Great movie.

I liked how some of the high management types were trying to bullshit the CEO at the emergency meeting and he told them to just shut up and asked for the guy who discovered the emergency to speak to it. And asked for him to just tell him the facts, no bullshit. And he did and the CEO respected him for it.

I saw myself in that situation, as that happens all the time in my area of work. Where the managers want to peddle BS to not look bad, while I always wanted to just put out all the facts so we could actually, you know, FIX the problem.

Posted by: Clyde Shelton at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (P5BPp)

323 Is this counting Trannies?

Posted by: Skip at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (j093G)

324 And all these unmarried women will vote to turn the United States into a Leftist dictatorship.

Posted by: The ARC of History! at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (uxCna)

325 >>>She'll doubtless attract lots of men who know she's desperate and is likely to put out. I doubt she will be happy with them.
Posted by: Archimedes
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I doubt that she's a good lay.

Posted by: Braenyard at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (E78bp)

326 It's kind of funny when I hear women like the first video talk about being successful.

Men do not care about that. They care that you're not a slug. Oh, you've been stuck at the same job for years? Cool. Are you fun to be around? Do you elevate the enjoyment of life when you're around? Can you be chill? Is everything a crisis with you? Are your friends tolerable? Are you willing to laugh at my stupid jokes?

Posted by: The Central Scrutinizer at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (KbCG3)

327 74 46 Pierce your nostril area and put something large and metal thru it.
Guys go crazy for that..
(not really)

Posted by: gourmand du jour at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (MeG8a)

Leads for a 12v car battery.

Posted by: Our Country is Screwed at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (N39Ws)

328 That would mean structuring society so

1) Women and men have different life paths
2) Women marry somewhat older men
3) The government/taxes/regulations are reduced to the extent that a young man can again earn enough to pay to support a family

--

End no-fault divorce so that men have an incentive to get married.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (ICJ9S)

329 If talking about quantity passed on though, the answer is usually a very large number. It's very easy for women to get attention, though they're often poor at sorting and have a poor sense of their own relative value(which is highly important as to whether the man would consider marrying her). Women frequently aim for men who wouldn't marry them, because the man is the most attractive(by whatever criteria) one giving her attention. Thing is, that biases towards well above them.
Posted by: Red Turban Someguy - The Republic is already dead! at May 22, 2024 01:52 PM (eYoxG)
++++
And they can land those men easily when they're young. They can't keep one, but they can bed one a few times. Then that becomes the baseline. "I got Mr. 95%, so Mr. 75% isn't good enough because I am Miss 100%, not not Miss 70%."

It's a serious problem.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (d04cU)

330 OT: The Catholic Church Has Made Changes...
https://youtu.be/RDkDcc5IMSA

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (ynpvh)

331 That's because we don't teach women to control their wild emotions or really any other female faults.
Posted by: Formerly Virginian at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM


Pffft. Simply telling them to "Calm down." works in the vast majority of instances.

Posted by: HordeSource (tm), your One Stop Advice Shop at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (a3Q+t)

332 Meanwhile, women are earning bachelor's degrees at a higher rate than men,

Oh. So to be successful all a person needs is a bachelor's degree. It doesn't matter in what discipline, just possessing one.

...

In a decade when men's earning levels are still above women's because men have found the wage earning jobs despite not having degrees, the collective head explosion will make Krakatoa look like a firecracker.

Posted by: TexasDan at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (z/ifB)

333 3) The government/taxes/regulations are reduced to the extent that a young man can again earn enough to pay to support a family

Quit.

You CAN do this even now (though I agree with reducing taxes). But it requires budgeting and hard decisions, something people don’t want to do in large part because of an entitlement mentality. Your #3 exists because Americans are essentially spoiled brats.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (xgbJW)

334 https://is.gd/Ado81k
Posted by: Sponge


Thanks, bro.

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (v6JzV)

335 229 One of the best heavy metal albums ever made.

Doof! * double finger pistols *

Posted by: callsign claymore at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (JcnCJ)

336 Sour grapes aren't insulting. They're hilarious.
Posted by: Ribbed
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For the HL Mencken sort. I simply find it tragic because it is far more serious for people's lives than Mr. Fox not getting some grapes to eat.

Unhappy people in society create unstable societies which in turn creates unstable politics. Not a virtuous cycle going on.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (PkS4e)

337 Pierce your nostril area and put something large and metal thru it.
Guys go crazy for that..
(not really)

Posted by: gourmand du jour at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (MeG8a)

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Who can say no when a metal bugger is staring you in the face?

I mean...besides me.

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (krQz2)

338 "Why are so many 29 yr old boss girls from Tiktok having public meltdowns about failing to find a man?"

She's pretty enough, but never mentions anything about politics. She wants someone to be her equal, which can be fine, unless it is the feminist version of "equal", which demands constant affirmation of her Strength and Power (or whatever).

Since she's spewing on TikTok, good chance she's a Karen and wants a male version of "Karen", because MAGA is gross and misogynist and white supremacist.

And in the divorce, she'd want (and probably get) everything, since she is the "weaker sex", and male judges seem to like to white knight for these sweet young thangs.

Posted by: illiniwek at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (Cus5s)

339 Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (ICJ9S)

You can use that excuse if you want but there are demands for all kinds of high paying trade jobs that can't be filled .

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (0CsDL)

340 They ride the cock carousel through their 20s then think a 6-6-6 man will make them his princess.

But hey, at least you always voted to keep abortion legal, so you can hug that at night instead.

Posted by: People's Hippo Voice at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (g9W3m)

341 Trump is an entrepreneur who loves America and could not be bought at any price.

Essentially the devil incarnate to these demons.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (7aRnr)

342 Demi asks Stanley if he has any children, to which he replies he has two. Clearly, she gave up that to climb the ladder, which has collapsed under her. Now she has no hope. Poignant.

I've seen smarter feminists pointing out that to rise up the corporate ladder you really need a spouse/assistant.

They don't quite understand their complaint though when they note that women on the corporate ladder can't find male spouse/assistant types. And...knowing a few of these women not a single one is going to try and have a relationship with a guy like that. I'm a director I'm dating/marrying a director or above!

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (ibTVg)

343 286
Next week on "Who's Yo Daddy..."...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (ynpvh)
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I read that to the beat of "Move Your Body" by Eiffel 65.
https://youtu.be/zQ6HBbyJR34
Yes I am well into 29.

Posted by: Ciampino - don't marry a feminist! at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (qfLjt)

344 "There is this thing called "Church". People who are motivated to become better people go there, occasionally several times a week to learn, develop and hone their civilizational skills. Men learn to be godly men and women learn to be godly women. This means people jettison their carnal, selfish ways and develop an 'agapé love for others."

And it still doesn't make someone miraculously interested in marrying any other available person.

Posted by: FeatherBlade at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (ou9hh)

345 It's kind of funny when I hear women like the first video talk about being successful.

Men do not care about that...

-

This.

Do I think you're pretty, will you smooch on me, and will you not complain all the time?

The end. That's all guys care about. Anyone telling you differently is lying to you.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (ICJ9S)

346 And they can land those men easily when they're young. They can't keep one, but they can bed one a few times. Then that becomes the baseline. "I got Mr. 95%, so Mr. 75% isn't good enough because I am Miss 100%, not not Miss 70%."

It's a serious problem.
Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (d04cU)

...
Also maybe maybe sleeping with people is a bad way to initiate and/or develop relationships.

Posted by: TexasDan at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (z/ifB)

347
Thanks, bro.
Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (v6JzV)



I help where I can.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (Zz0t1)

348 The Guess Who had a great song about "American Woman."
Posted by: No one of any consequence. at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (VuZH

Canadian communist cocksuckers; their song was a hate piece about the United States, not women.

Posted by: Auspex at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (j4U/Z)

349 Men; You are hiking through the woods. Which would you rather run into? A woman or a bear?

Posted by: JROD at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (IlL6s)

350 I notice that they are usually white women. This is on purpose.

Posted by: Blast Hardcheese at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (PWI4f)

351 '33 yr old woman, that's been single for 7 yrs crying about being single.'

What does that mean?
She was married until 26?
Needs a comma after 'single'? or needs one after 'yrs'?
Posted by: Ciampino - don't marry a feminist at May 22, 2024 01:58 PM (qfLjt)
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It means nothing. "Single" is almost never what you think it means. The "Single Girl Era" is the "fuck around" period. "I'm single" means simply "I have no committed boyfriend," not "I am abstinent" or "I don't date."

See also: "situationship," which means, "I regularly see a guy and bang and all, but we haven't defined our relationship, largely because he doesn't want to." "Situationship" is to women what "friend zone" is to men - except that the women get sex. Neither get commitment or a relationship. It used to be called "fuck buddies" or "friends with benefits."

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (d04cU)

352 When can we start calling these women incels or something equally disparaging?

Posted by: Octochicken at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (oCS0o)

353 >>Pffft. Simply telling them to "Calm down." works in the vast majority of instances.


"My Doctor / Therapist says it is best to ignore them when they acvt out."

Posted by: garrett at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (gmlRP)

354 This thread needs a busty bikini brunette.
Posted by: wth at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (v0R5T)

https://is.gd/Ado81k
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden
.......

Phew. Feel better now.

Posted by: wth at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (v0R5T)

355 The Clintons and Kennedys are murdering philandering lying cheaters and we were told all our lives to worship their feet.

Then Trump came along and the Left found their supposed morals all over again.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (7aRnr)

356 I've lived in the South my entire life. I watched the illegals take over because they'll work for nothing until they get control of the trade and then it costs the same as hiring Americans. "Screwing up" is not why illegals have taken over drywall, roofing, etc.
-

You can use that excuse if you want but there are demands for all kinds of high paying trade jobs that can't be filled .
Posted by: polynikes

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What excuse? I'm pointing out what happened in the South. And what is going to be happening in yankee cities in less than a generation.

Shame no one cared when it was happening down here.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (ICJ9S)

357 I liked how some of the high management types were trying to bullshit the CEO at the emergency meeting and he told them to just shut up and asked for the guy who discovered the emergency to speak to it. And asked for him to just tell him the facts, no bullshit. And he did and the CEO respected him for it.

Posted by: Clyde Shelton at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (P5BPp)

.. I did that (at least) once. This guy had screwed up a design. Simply, he used the index of refraction of a vaccum instead of air in an optics design. They asked me to cover it over with software. I figured it was impossible to do. Told the truth in front of the President of the company in the next meeting. Another guy fixed the optics with an additional lens.

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (RHGPo)

358 Your #3 exists because Americans are essentially spoiled brats.

Can it be done?

Yes...but not easily.

In 1964 it was the norm.

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (ibTVg)

359 "At some point they may realize they've been sold a lie their entire lives, but I doubt it."

---

So what you're saying is they're used to it.

Alright then, I'm a heir, my grandfather invented the staple puller. I'm worth billions.

Come see me, gals.

Posted by: BurtTC at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (dGCAG)

360 Doof! * double finger pistols *
Posted by: callsign claymore at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (JcnCJ)


Yo! Double C!

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (h0Z+I)

361 Personally I was offended and thought this son of immigrants was bringing an 'old school' concept of her as being a possession to be turned over. I raised my daughter to be fiercely independent.

But that's me, and maybe I was wrong. But it did rub me the wrong way.
Posted by: Divide by Zero
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People marry into family relationships and it always has an effect. Smart suitors want to know if the family will accept or reject them because that can often be the source of marital problems down the road.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (PkS4e)

362 But that's me, and maybe I was wrong. But it did rub me the wrong way.
Posted by: Divide by Zero at May 22, 2024 02:00 PM (RKVpM)

Did you walk your daughter down the aisle and hand her over to your future son in law?

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (0CsDL)

363 In a decade when men's earning levels are still above women's because men have found the wage earning jobs despite not having degrees, the collective head explosion will make Krakatoa look like a firecracker.
Posted by: TexasDan at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (z/ifB)

Oh, it still does. Eventually the media will revisit the “wage gap” without exploring that men will take harder, more dangerous jobs at all sorts of hours.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (xgbJW)

364 ----
I read that to the beat of "Move Your Body" by Eiffel 65.
https://youtu.be/zQ6HBbyJR34
Yes I am well into 29.
Posted by: Ciampino - don't marry a feminist! at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (qfLjt)



Oh lord that's awful.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (Zz0t1)

365 Harrison Butker to the white courtesy phone.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (7aRnr)

366 And you can guarantee there is one place none of these women are looking for a husband:
Church.

Posted by: People's Hippo Voice at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (g9W3m)

367 349 Men; You are hiking through the woods. Which would you rather run into? A woman or a bear?
Posted by: JROD at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (IlL6s)

A bear. Better chance of getting away from it and keeping all my stuff.

Posted by: Our Country is Screwed at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (N39Ws)

368 349 Men; You are hiking through the woods. Which would you rather run into? A woman or a bear?
Posted by: JROD at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (IlL6s)


Oh, easy question.

Posted by: Leo DiCaprio at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (PiwSw)

369 So is asking the father's permission before proposing to the daughter a thing again? That was done with two of my nieces.
___

Yeah, it kinda surprised us also, but in a good way.

Granted, it was over the phone, but still...

Posted by: SMH at what's coming at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (ZabZM)

370 I wonder how many of these Girl Bosses would date a plumber or HVAC tech.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (ICJ9S)

371 I’m, rising labor force participation rates most definitely does not put upward pressure on wages. More workers = lower wages. Whoever wrote that is an idiot.

Posted by: sniffybigtoe at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (JTwsP)
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Noticed that - was idiotic. But the entire labor pool is shrinking, which will drive wage increases for everyone.

Women are in the most vulnerable white color jobs to the AI explosion, and while they most definitely get most of the degrees, they don't get most of the degrees in the subjects that really matter and pay well. They get a white collar admin job that when our parents were working was classified as "blank" Clerk, that pays around $50K if they are lucky, even with a masters and an accumulated school debt of over $50K.

This part of the population will die out because while Darwin has some holes in his thesis, acting stupidly is always a good way to become extinct. But the damage they can inflict on the way out could be substantial.

Posted by: Black JEM at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM (GZYu7)

372 It's kind of funny when I hear women like the first video talk about being successful.

Men do not care about that...


Saw a video with a woman laying out all the things she needed to have in a man - money, status, etc etc. Then it cut to a guy who had all those things walking into a fast food restaurant, seeing the hot cashier, and getting all doe eyed...

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM (ibTVg)

373 Women then complained because men held the doors and they #MeToo'd and insisted men leave them alone and not talk to them at the grocery store and didn't compliment their looks, and men said "fine" and did what women asked.

It's almost like... Well, nevermind.
Posted by: Moron Robbie



It's almost like they're fucking neurotic and don't know what they want.

Posted by: rickb223 at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM (ofCHO)

374 366 And you can guarantee there is one place none of these women are looking for a husband:
Church.
Posted by: People's Hippo Voice at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM (g9W3m)

So laying in bed on Sunday mornings with the legs pointing to the sky shouting "O God!, O God!" doesn't count?

Posted by: Our Country is Screwed at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM (N39Ws)

375 End no-fault divorce so that men have an incentive to get married.
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (ICJ9S)
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That's a part of it. The arbitrary divorce lottery has to end.

But there's a bigger part. If you want both men *and* women to seriously reconsider their actions in the moment, end the "Tender Years Doctrine." Default male custody, as was the norm in many places before the late 19th century. A major point of marriage is to ensure paternity.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM (d04cU)

376 Thanks, bro.
Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (v6JzV)


I help where I can.
Posted by: Sponge

You have now prevented one fist-shaking.

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM (v6JzV)

377 336 There will be legions of bitter, box wine spinsters not long from now. And they won't be voting for smaller government.

Posted by: callsign claymore at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM (JcnCJ)

378 Men; You are hiking through the woods. Which would you rather run into? A woman or a bear?

-

I'm cheating because I heard this answer and thought it was hilarious:

The bear, because I'd be in big trouble if my wife found out I was in the woods with another woman.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (ICJ9S)

379 Well, give the younger generations credit. They recognize that they are incapable of taking care of themselves, so posit that families are out of the question.

(Disclaimer: Immigrants are reproducing incessantly and the Muslim community is actually encouraging it so as to create more political control...which was actually admitted to me by a neighbor who happens to be a local Cleric)

Posted by: Orson at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (dIske)

380 What excuse?

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (ICJ9S)

Blaming immigrants for the lack of white male candidates for in demand trade jobs right now.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (0CsDL)

381 Well, that first vid for one raised an obvious red flag...
spent most of the time talking about how great her life is for her...

that's what we call in the business... a tell.

Posted by: Inogame at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (53oGX)

382 Pffft. Simply telling them to "Calm down." works in the vast majority of instances.

---------
"My Doctor / Therapist says it is best to ignore them when they acvt out."
Posted by: garrett at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (gmlRP)

It's like training a dog sometimes, a smack on the nose with a wet newspaper lets them know you mean business.

In the end, they appreciate the clarity regarding who is boss.

Posted by: BurtTC at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (dGCAG)

383 What excuse? I'm pointing out what happened in the South. And what is going to be happening in yankee cities in less than a generation.

Shame no one cared when it was happening down here.
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (ICJ9S)

Ted Cruz's comment about if it were doctors and teachers crossing the border is evergreen.

Posted by: TexasDan at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (z/ifB)

384 "Talk to women from other countries. Whole different vibe, sorry.
Posted by: ..."

Lived in South America for a few years. I never enjoyed dancing at clubs/parties here because it was stressful getting women to dance. There it was wild, fun and almost never got a no, even from total strangers. It was low pressure and good times and not always about trying to pick somebody up, just enjoying the evening.

American women should take some notes and learn to relax when asked to dance. Might even allow some physical contact instead of just bobbing around each other. It is a lot more fun.

Posted by: Ripley at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (JojsZ)

385 ok, woman in first video sounds like a moderate loon. i know all the curse words but don't use them nearly that much. pass

Posted by: gnats local 678 at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (B1FKF)

386 When EVERYONE else is the asshole.....

Posted by: nurse ratched at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (WXvh7)

387 337 Pierce your nostril area and put something large and metal thru it.
Guys go crazy for that..
(not really)

Posted by: gourmand du jour at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (MeG8a)

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Who can say no when a metal bugger is staring you in the face?

I mean...besides me.
Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (krQz2)

It's amazing to me how many reasonably attractive women think they're doing themselves a favor by hanging a large ring from their septum.

Posted by: Octochicken at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (oCS0o)

388 Can it be done?

Yes...but not easily.

In 1964 it was the norm.
Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (ibTVg)

…and in 1964 it wasn’t easy either.

It’s Leftist talk. The employer isn’t to pay you what the going rate is. No, no, no. You make demands of the employer and demand he pay you because you want to have a stay-at-home mom, instead of you get paid the going rate and you budget.

That last part requires responsibility (respected in 1964, despised in 2024). Americans don’t want to be responsible anymore and ache for a no fault existence,

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (xgbJW)

389 Men; You are hiking through the woods. Which would you rather run into? A woman or a bear?
Posted by: JROD at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (IlL6s)

A bear. Better chance of getting away from it and keeping all my stuff.
Posted by: Our Country is Screwed


Worst case: shooting the bear and not getting in near the amount of trouble.

Posted by: rickb223 at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (ofCHO)

390 Mike Yanagita Syndrome

Posted by: Lars at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (kJH1Z)

391 Men; You are hiking through the woods. Which would you rather run into? A woman or a bear?
Posted by: JROD
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Have run into a bear in the woods - added some unnecessary and unwanted heart rate increase. I could escape from a woman... I think. Thankfully the bear took one look at me and ran like hell - away from me. Much like women.

Posted by: scampydog at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (2bFN5)

392 The biggest lie these women are told is that the “right man” will be there when they are ready. No. He is probably already taken.

Posted by: Nick in Tallahassee at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (7PziG)

393 Harris Butker does not have brother. He does, however, have a sister but she is married.

Posted by: FenelonSpoke at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (XkYcA)

394 343 286
Next week on "Who's Yo Daddy..."...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 01:57 PM (ynpvh)
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I read that to the beat of "Move Your Body" by Eiffel 65.
https://youtu.be/zQ6HBbyJR34
Yes I am well into 29.

Posted by: Ciampino - don't marry a feminist! at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (qfLjt)

I'm so deep into 29 I had to look them up and realize they were after my time...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (ynpvh)

395 Do I think you're pretty, will you smooch on me, and will you not complain all the time?

The end. That's all guys care about. Anyone telling you differently is lying to you.
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (ICJ9S)

If my wife didn't have a sense of humor I'd have had little to no use for her. If you don't have humor in marriage you are doomed.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (7aRnr)

396 Due to both social media addiction and TV 'Reality' shows, these women have ingested a very distorted view of relationships that is not based in reality and end up hurting them. Distortion and manipulation for those women who either don't have a good model at home or lack critical thinking skills.

Posted by: Cheri at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (oiNtH)

397 Your saying fish do need bicycles?

Posted by: Dempsey at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (DkMka)

398 Blaming immigrants for the lack of white male candidates for in demand trade jobs right now.
Posted by: polynikes

-

Ah, gotcha. I see the confusion now. No, I was addressing this comment, not something about specific high demand trade jobs:

Regard to jobs, men are screwing up too. That's why immigrants are a significant percentage of the trades. We need more trade High Schools and less college prep High Schools.
Posted by: polynikes

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (ICJ9S)

399 Bud was dating a chick that he really liked and they were good together.

Then he didn't call her back immediately and she responded with "my therapist said I shouldn't settle for anything less than being the center of a man's attention."


Your therapist sucks.......

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (Zz0t1)

400 >>Drizzle Drizzle.


Someone explain this to me, please. Been seeing it all over in the past 72 hours. No idea what it is ref'ing.
Posted by: garrett at May 22, 2024 01:27 PM (gmlRP)

There was a video of a woman talking about how she demands that her dates and men pay for everything and pay her bills while dating and she used the phrase "Sprinkle Sprinkle". It had a small ripple but increasingly a group of dudes are creating gender flipped versions of the supposed "Soft Man" movement mocking that video and modern women's general attitude using the tag "Drizzle Drizzle". These are doing better because all men and many women think they are very funny but the "modern women" don't seem to understand the joke.

Posted by: Oldcat at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (eoQWY)

401 The families of five female Israeli soldiers still being held hostage by Hamas in Gaza released a three-minute video of the women’s abduction during the October 7 attack, with footage recovered from body cameras and smartphones.
In the heavily-edited video, the women are seen with their hands bound, standing and then sitting by a concrete wall, presumably at the Nahal Oz military base in Israel, which was overrun for several hours on the morning of October 7.
There are also hints of sexual abuse. One of the terrorists says, according to the subtitles, that the Israeli captives are women “who can get pregnant.” Another says to a bloodied, battered female Israeli hostage: “You are so beautiful.”

We thought hard and really tried to find the words to describe how heartbroken, shocked, and enraged we are in light of the new abduction video of the five female observers. There truly are no words to describe what they did or how they did it. The sadistic, diabolical, barbaric torment that our women endured while treating them like prizes and trophies, just plain objects to do with as they please. All the while praising themselves for their inhumane and monstrous accomplishments.

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (RHGPo)

402 When EVERYONE else is the asshole.....
Posted by: nurse ratched at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (WXvh7)


A paraphrase of one of the best Raylan Givens lines!!

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (h0Z+I)

403 The bear, for sure.

If I'm wandering through a forest alone, it's probably because I'm dragging a dead body, and I don't need to be dragging a second one.

Posted by: Yudhishthira's Dice at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (0FoWg)

404
…and in 1964 it wasn’t easy either.


Hard disagree. Housing and the basics of life were MUCH cheaper in both absolute and relative terms in 1964.

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (ibTVg)

405 Your saying fish do need bicycles?
Posted by: Dempsey at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (DkMka)



"Then you're a gay fish."

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:11 PM (Zz0t1)

406 But there's a bigger part. If you want both men *and* women to seriously reconsider their actions in the moment, end the "Tender Years Doctrine." Default male custody, as was the norm in many places before the late 19th century. A major point of marriage is to ensure paternity.
Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM (d04cU)

Sinatra was arrested for seduction in the 30's. Used to be if you slept with a woman under the pretense of marrying her and didn't follow through (with the marriage) that was frowned upon in the legal sense.

Posted by: TexasDan at May 22, 2024 02:11 PM (z/ifB)

407 I've lived in the South my entire life. I watched the illegals take over because they'll work for nothing until they get control of the trade and then it costs the same as hiring Americans. "Screwing up" is not why illegals have taken over drywall, roofing, etc.

"Screwing up" is not why mills have closed and industry has been shipped overseas.

It turns out that American men working and trying to raise families aren't really represented in our country. Which is probably part of why Trump was so hated.
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:59 PM (ICJ9S)

———-

Agree. And let’s be real, companies found they can dangle citizenship or permanent residency as part of the compensation package and so pay less in cash.

If you are an illegal or even on a work visa you will take that cut rate pay to eventually get that golden ticket that may be dangled in front of you.

Posted by: MAGA_Ken at May 22, 2024 02:11 PM (tXFoB)

408 Family women in the main will vote to protect their families. Girl Bosses will vote for the cause du jour.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (7aRnr)

409 Men; You are hiking through the woods. Which would you rather run into? A woman or a bear?
Posted by: JROD at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM (IlL6s)

The bear. Nobody's going to be testing everything for my DNA if it's a bear.

Posted by: BurtTC at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (dGCAG)

410 You have now prevented one fist-shaking.
Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM (v6JzV)


Because your fist is busy doing something else after Sponge posted the link to a busty bikini brunette???

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (h0Z+I)

411 395 Do I think you're pretty, will you smooch on me, and will you not complain all the time?

The end. That's all guys care about. Anyone telling you differently is lying to you.
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (ICJ9S)

If my wife didn't have a sense of humor I'd have had little to no use for her. If you don't have humor in marriage you are doomed.
Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (7aRnr)

Sense of humor and the ability to roll with the punches. If everything is the end of the world, you're a waste of space.

Posted by: The Central Scrutinizer at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (KbCG3)

412 And Harris Butker's parents are still married-to each other.

Posted by: FenelonSpoke at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (XkYcA)

413
“Women are in the most vulnerable white color jobs to the AI explosion, and”

Women were also the most vulnerable when all the teaching jobs were replaced by computers in 2000.

(Oh wait, that didn’t happen, though this was a given in 1985.)

The AI “explosion” is pure hype. Unpopular opinion, I know, but we lived through headlines such as what I cited above, and the VR craze, and…

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (xgbJW)

414 Also maybe maybe sleeping with people is a bad way to initiate and/or develop relationships.
Posted by: TexasDan at May 22, 2024 02:03 PM (z/ifB)
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Entirely, which is why survivable civilizations regulate the sexual market.

Because it isn't good or solid, but it *is* fun, especially if you're a woman (universal access from about age 16 at the inside and 32 at the outside) or a top ~20% man. All fun and games. Euphoric. Addicting. Then it collapses like a dying star and you have wreckage in the wake.

The other way - abstinence, basically, until marriage as the expectation, which moderates behavior - is not anything like so much fun. It's downright boring, and you might have to settle.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (d04cU)

415 With all due respect, these things are impossibilities. If a woman is interested in relationship or marriage she can find a relationship or marriage.

If she doesn't it's her choice. Or her actions, I suppose.
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:40 PM (ICJ9S)

Not necessarily. My potential pool of second husbands in small-town Missouri either had been through messy divorces or were on Disability. I was 36.
Moving to a big town in Texas didn't make it better. Thank God for the HQ and MMOs.

Posted by: Polliwog the 'Ette at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (XjtdB)

416 357 I liked how some of the high management types were trying to bullshit the CEO at the emergency meeting and he told them to just shut up and asked for the guy who discovered the emergency to speak to it. And asked for him to just tell him the facts, no bullshit. And he did and the CEO respected him for it.

Posted by: Clyde Shelton at May 22, 2024 02:01 PM (P5BPp)

.. I did that (at least) once. This guy had screwed up a design. Simply, he used the index of refraction of a vaccum instead of air in an optics design. They asked me to cover it over with software. I figured it was impossible to do. Told the truth in front of the President of the company in the next meeting. Another guy fixed the optics with an additional lens.

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 02:05 PM (RHGPo)

I always owed up to my mistakes. In design review, I want the reviews to tear the design apart; it means a better design and we all get kudos. I think it's one of the reasons why the company liked me.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (ynpvh)

417 What excuse? I'm pointing out what happened in the South. And what is going to be happening in yankee cities in less than a generation.

Shame no one cared when it was happening down here.
Posted by: Moron Robbie
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Already has. Knew some construction guys from Minneapolis Minnesota in the 90's via Air Force civil engineering--they were driven out of the masonry trade by illegals undercutting them way back then.

Far too many college educated people have exalted views of their own relative worth and too little of those people sweating, groaning, and breaking their backs because they 'only' have a high school diploma or GED. So essentially, if Juan or Achmed will do their lawncare, tree service, Uber, table bussing, or whatever service cheaper than Mr. John Doe, then they deride John Doe as being lazy, tell him to learn to code, etc. Many are Democrats but quite a few are in the GOP and compose its donor and officeholding class.

Kevin Williamson is an exemplar of this nasty tendency.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (PkS4e)

418 When can we start calling these women incels or something equally disparaging?
Posted by: Octochicken at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM


Spinster? Old maid? Sometimes the classics are best.

Posted by: RedMindBlueState at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (ZANHd)

419 owned not owed. geesh.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (ynpvh)

420 Family women in the main will vote to protect their families. Girl Bosses will vote for the cause du jour.

The data backs that up pretty well.

Married women vote much closer to men. Unmarried women vote for whoever and whatever the FNM tells them to

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (ibTVg)

421 second vid at about 2:45: she said she was like a piranha. literate, too

Posted by: gnats local 678 at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (B1FKF)

422 If you don't have humor in marriage you are doomed.
Posted by: ...


Generally, yes. Except in those when the spouses have different senses of humor. My puns, for example. I think they're hilarious, but she...

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (v6JzV)

423 418 When can we start calling these women incels or something equally disparaging?
Posted by: Octochicken at May 22, 2024 02:04 PM

Spinster? Old maid? Sometimes the classics are best.

Posted by: RedMindBlueState at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (ZANHd)

Old Maid? I remember that card game...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (ynpvh)

424 Because your fist is busy doing something else after Sponge posted the link to a busty bikini brunette???
Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 02:12 PM (h0Z+I)




If it takes 2 fists, you are blessed in ways I cannot imagine.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (Zz0t1)

425 "Screwing up" is not why mills have closed and industry has been shipped overseas.

About industry that has been shipped here: I hear stone silence.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (xgbJW)

426
Did you walk your daughter down the aisle and hand her over to your future son in law?

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 02:06 PM


That was not permitted in *his* church. My daughter had to fight for that. Like I said, old school stuff.

Now her husband is a 300 pound piece of crap, who abuses their children out of site of my daughter. I know the end is near for them, either massive coronary for him or their two youngest finishing school. I'll welcome her home of course.

Posted by: Divide by Zero at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (RKVpM)

427 Men do not care about that. They care that you're not a slug. Oh, you've been stuck at the same job for years? Cool. Are you fun to be around? Do you elevate the enjoyment of life when you're around? Can you be chill? Is everything a crisis with you? Are your friends tolerable? Are you willing to laugh at my stupid jokes?
Posted by: The Central Scrutinizer at May 22, 2024


***
The ex-Mrs. Wolfus No. 2 did not have a bachelor's or any advanced degree. I did not care. Yes, she was hot -- but she was also fun, elevated my "enjoyment of life" outside the bedroom as well as in, laughed at my witticisms, loved animals. If she'd been a 7 instead of a 9, those items would have lifted her that last two levels.

Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (J2vNu)

428 If my wife didn't have a sense of humor I'd have had little to no use for her. If you don't have humor in marriage you are doomed.
Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (7aRnr)

=====

I was watching Air Disasters the other day, and the episode was about some plane that crashed because of the weather, namely microbursts. My husband turned to me and said, "oh I'll show you a microburst" and I about died laughing.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (DRSnL)

429 SMOD: "Social Media has diminished the value of physical presence.

Without a physical presence, there is no relationship"


Good point. Technology has been replacing organic relationships at an ever increasing rate. Person-to-person contact while not exclusively essential is practically exclusively essential. At least as far as lasting, committed relationships go and the potential of it.

Posted by: AnonybotymousDrivel at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (aXxgO)

430 331 That's because we don't teach women to control their wild emotions or really any other female faults.
Posted by: Formerly Virginian at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM

Pffft. Simply telling them to "Calm down." works in the vast majority of instances.
Posted by: HordeSource (tm), your One Stop Advice Shop at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (a3Q+t)

I believe the magic phrase is "Calm your tits"

Posted by: Inogame at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (53oGX)

431 The bear, for sure.

If I'm wandering through a forest alone, it's probably because I'm dragging a dead body, and I don't need to be dragging a second one.
Posted by: Yudhishthira's Dice at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (0FoWg)

That's true, I never thought of that. If you encounter a bear, you can feed the body to the bear. You can't feed a bear's body to a woman.

She's probably vegan. Just like the one you're dragging. Which is why she had to go.

Posted by: BurtTC at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (dGCAG)

432 Anything that cannot go on forever will end.

There are a lot of young women rejecting the advice.


My daughter (13) sees this family life and also sees the lives of people with two parents working. Even at that age, she knows which works out better for her and the family.

So there is hope.
Posted by: Formerly Virginian at May 22, 2024 01:30 PM (JMAcK)

Be careful, there was a thing going around a year or so ago showing normal seeming girls before college and tatted up manhaters or sex changed men after college.

The psychological pressure out there is strong, I hope she can hold out.

Posted by: Oldcat at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (eoQWY)

433 "336 There will be legions of bitter, box wine spinsters not long from now. And they won't be voting for smaller government.
Posted by: callsign claymore"

Dunno about that. When you are entirely responsible for your own life and death, and depend on your own earned income to ensure you have more life, the government taking any of it away to enlarge itself becomes enormously important.

Posted by: FeatherBlade at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (ou9hh)

434 The hook up culture is to blame for much of this. These women crying, how many different sexual partners do you think they've had? You think men want to "make an honest woman" of someone when they're the 40th partner they've banged?

Also, guys are way more aware of the legal ramifications of what happens when a marriage goes south. I know so many that have gone through nasty divorces that will never marry again despite easily being able to do so. You're basically signing up to get financially destroyed and women file for divorce like 70-80% of the time versus the man.

"Not marrying" hurts women way more than men, but I still say we all suffer having a huge, angry demographic of bitchy women.

Posted by: Blago at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (2E+DV)

435 401
Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (RHGPo)

And that further strengthens my argument that there are no innocent people in Gaza. The fact that Gaza doesn't look like the field in which I grow my "fucks" saddens me. And Netanyahu is the war criminal.

Posted by: Our Country is Screwed at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (N39Ws)

436 Online and broadcast media have sold young women a total bill of goods...that there a thousands upon thousands of super wealthy movie star looking liberal males out there who will emote with your feelings! Just wait and they'll come!

Yeah, that fantasy is now leaving the video chick 1 far behind...she'll be 40 soon, no man and her looks gone. Good luck with life after that...invest in cats.

Posted by: Boswell at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (K+UlC)

437 This "woman or bear" question is so cisbucolic.

A better question is "Would you rather meet a pup or a bear in the bar?"

Posted by: Atomic Pup Handler at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (a3Q+t)

438 also second vid, she looks like she has a wedding and an engagement ring on her index finger. maybe she was married.

Posted by: gnats local 678 at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (B1FKF)

439 The biggest lie these women are told is that the “right man” will be there when they are ready. No. He is probably already taken.
Posted by: Nick in Tallahassee at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (7PziG)
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Jordan Petersen said that like the top 80% of women line themselves up with the top 20% of men.

So, yeah, some men are being pussyhounds, but plenty of women are making it easy to be pussyhounds.

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (krQz2)

440 Not necessarily. My potential pool of second husbands in small-town Missouri either had been through messy divorces or were on Disability. I was 36.
Moving to a big town in Texas didn't make it better. Thank God for the HQ and MMOs.
Posted by: Polliwog the 'Ette

-

The bolded part is important.

I'll say again that I wasn't trying to make anything personal and still won't engage in a way that creates that environment.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:15 PM (ICJ9S)

441 The biggest lie these women are told is that the “right man” will be there when they are ready. No. He is probably already taken.
Posted by: Nick in Tallahassee at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (7PziG)
++++
Or he *is* there, but doesn't want her. If she already "got it out of her system" or is "ready to settle down with a good man," what's the incentive for that good man? What's left in her "system" for him? Why didn't she want the "good" man back when it mattered?

"You're my Nth choice, baby" doesn't go over well.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:15 PM (d04cU)

442 The Ohio SOS has instructed the Democrat party to announce their candidate by Aug 5th. If they don't, then whoever that candidate is will not be on the ballot

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 02:15 PM (RHGPo)

443 On the Whatever podcast a male guest mentioned that female fertility starts to drop at 28. None of the young female guests would believe him. One mentioned some celebrity that had given birth at 40 and they all decided that meant it was trivial to have a kid at that age if you wanted.

When the male guest asked why the celeb hadn't told anyone about the pregnancy until some time after birth none of the young female guests could understand his point...

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 02:16 PM (ibTVg)

444 The Ohio SOS has instructed the Democrat party to announce their candidate by Aug 5th. If they don't, then whoever that candidate is will not be on the ballot
Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 02:15 PM (RHGPo)



LULZ.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:16 PM (Zz0t1)

445 I believe the magic phrase is "Calm your tits"

Posted by: Inogame at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (53oGX)
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We are also concerned about uncomfortable panties.

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 02:16 PM (krQz2)

446 No one would choose a bear. The bear vs man question is mainly for modern women to virtue signal and remind men that they're neither liked nor trusted.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:16 PM (ICJ9S)

447 If I had asked her father's permission first (which he would have gladly given), my wife would've smacked me.

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus

When I asked my father-in-law for his daughter's hand, he said:

"Why not? You've had the rest of her!"


Hey Ohhhhhh!!!

Posted by: Tonypete at May 22, 2024 02:17 PM (WXNFJ)

448 "Screwing up" is not why mills have closed and industry has been shipped overseas.

About industry that has been shipped here: I hear stone silence.
Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33

-

Lots of textile and steel mills popping up around you?

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:17 PM (ICJ9S)

449 No one would choose a bear. The bear vs man question is mainly for modern women to virtue signal and remind men that they're neither liked nor trusted.
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:16 PM (ICJ9S)



Well, then enjoy spinsterdome.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:17 PM (Zz0t1)

450 Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (DRSnL)

That is funny.

Bastard.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:17 PM (7aRnr)

451 408 +1 Single biggest indicator of how a woman will vote is whether or not she's married.

Posted by: callsign claymore at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (JcnCJ)

452 Sinatra was arrested for seduction in the 30's. Used to be if you slept with a woman under the pretense of marrying her and didn't follow through (with the marriage) that was frowned upon in the legal sense.
Posted by: TexasDan at May 22, 2024 02:11 PM (z/ifB)
++++
"Heart balm" cases were egregiously abused and are one of the distal causes of what we have today. Comparatively minor, but "heart balm" fraud was a serious problem.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (d04cU)

453 Sinatra was arrested for seduction in the 30's. Used to be if you slept with a woman under the pretense of marrying her and didn't follow through (with the marriage) that was frowned upon in the legal sense.
Posted by: TexasDan
---------
Alienation of affection was a tort in North Carolina and five other states up to now. You could sue a seducer of a married women (or man I suppose) for damages.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (PkS4e)

454 When EVERYONE else is the asshole.....
Posted by: nurse ratched at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM


There is much iron in nurse's words.

Posted by: RedMindBlueState at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (ZANHd)

455 These women all want 6' tall millionaires whose only job is to entertain them.

Posted by: TC at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (cHOHf)

456 When I asked my father-in-law for his daughter's hand, he said:

"Why not? You've had the rest of her!"


Hey Ohhhhhh!!!
Posted by: Tonypete at May 22, 2024 02:17 PM (WXNFJ)




After dating his daughter for 7 years, my future FiL gave me the "shit or get off the pot" speech.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (Zz0t1)

457 428 If my wife didn't have a sense of humor I'd have had little to no use for her. If you don't have humor in marriage you are doomed.
Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (7aRnr)

=====

I was watching Air Disasters the other day, and the episode was about some plane that crashed because of the weather, namely microbursts. My husband turned to me and said, "oh I'll show you a microburst" and I about died laughing.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (DRSnL)

Oh yes, I made all sorts of comments during TV shows and movies that would make my wife laugh, sometimes in theaters at the most inappropriate moments in the movie...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (ynpvh)

458 Which would you rather meet in a forest, a woman you don't know or a bear?

Tip: The bear's name is Karen.

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (krQz2)

459 Women are no-joke convinced that having men give them money for showing their privates on onlyfans (and giving some of that money to the male owner of Onlyfans) is empowering *them*
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 01:44 PM (ICJ9S)

I keep having this suspicion that someone (probably some men) are working OF and pumping money into some of these gals to act as judas goats for the normies who will make 50 bucks a month and have to up the ante and go into hard core streetwalking. Too many of fairly plain looking OFs report huge results, and even online it isn't trivial to get a following and make a success.

Posted by: Oldcat at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (eoQWY)

460 Did Strong Successful Male from YouTube post this?

Posted by: Crazy at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (cMxpE)

461 A better question is "Would you rather meet a pup or a bear in the bar?"
Posted by: Atomic Pup Handler at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (a3Q+t)

If I'm in a bar, I'm just looking for a one night stand.

So... you know, the answer's obvious.

Posted by: BurtTC at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (dGCAG)

462 451 408 +1 Single biggest indicator of how a woman will vote is whether or not she's married.

Posted by: callsign claymore
=======
Very true and bring children into the game it becomes even stronger in effect.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (PkS4e)

463 I believe the magic phrase is "Calm your tits"

Posted by: Inogame at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (53oGX)
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We are also concerned about uncomfortable panties.
Posted by: Axeman

Something about a certain time of the month.

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (v6JzV)

464 All these wymynses grew up idolizing Carrie Bradshaw and her whore friends. How’s that working out for ya ladies?

Posted by: Montec at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (Y6Wgg)

465 349 Men; You are hiking through the woods. Which would you rather run into? A woman or a bear?
Posted by: JROD

If the bear pisses me off, I can shoot it and I'll be believed when I tell authorities I was defending myself.

Posted by: Moron Analyst...always carry when hiking in bear country at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (JCZqz)

466 I enjoy watching these old broads bitch and moan about how no one wants to be with them.

More Please.

Posted by: Hairyback Guy at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (R/m4+)

467 430 331 That's because we don't teach women to control their wild emotions or really any other female faults.
Posted by: Formerly Virginian at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM

Pffft. Simply telling them to "Calm down." works in the vast majority of instances.
Posted by: HordeSource (tm), your One Stop Advice Shop at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (a3Q+t)

I believe the magic phrase is "Calm your tits"

Posted by: Inogame at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (53oGX)

or "Don't get yer panties in a bunch". I've never used that one, but I hear it works.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (ynpvh)

468 Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:10 PM (ICJ9S)

Okay any trade jobs which are also in demand. Didn't think I needed to drill down. The fact is white or black kids in general aren't pursuing how to be HVAC techs, plumbers , electricians, carpenters much less the specialized trades as heavy equipment operators, welders , airplane mechanics, etc . Not every trade job is paying under the table .

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (0CsDL)

469 Pffft. Simply telling them to "Calm down." works in the vast majority of instances.
Posted by: HordeSource (tm), your One Stop Advice Shop at May 22, 2024 02:02 PM (a3Q+t)

I believe the magic phrase is "Calm your tits"
Posted by: Inogame at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM


That's the 2nd-tier help-desk escalation, if the first-level intervention doesn't work.

Posted by: HordeSource (tm), your One Stop Advice Shop at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (a3Q+t)

470 After dating his daughter for 7 years, my future FiL gave me the "shit or get off the pot" speech.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (Zz0t1)
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I'm sure his daughter could appreciate the flattery in that analogy.

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (krQz2)

471 Oh yes, I made all sorts of comments during TV shows and movies that would make my wife laugh, sometimes in theaters at the most inappropriate moments in the movie...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (ynpvh)

Most of the time it's funnier when they don't laugh but instead laugh at you.

Ask me how I know...

Posted by: The Central Scrutinizer at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (KbCG3)

472 I was watching Air Disasters the other day, and the episode was about some plane that crashed because of the weather, namely microbursts. My husband turned to me and said, "oh I'll show you a microburst" and I about died laughing.
Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (DRSnL)


20 bucks to the first guy who calls him Mr. Microburst at the next MoMe!!

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (h0Z+I)

473 or "Don't get yer panties in a bunch". I've never used that one, but I hear it works.

The joke is on you buddy...

Posted by: Sandra Fluke enjoying a cool breeze at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (ibTVg)

474 Single biggest indicator of how a woman will vote is whether or not she's married.



Race is the number 1. Black women vote nearly 100% D, regardless of age or martial status.

Posted by: Montec at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (Y6Wgg)

475 OT-I get sent these articles and stills from MSNBC. I have never seen a picture of Joe Behar smiling, and I have to say and people can disagree-but I think that if you're 81 you look sort of silly with flaming red fake hair color.

Posted by: FenelonSpoke at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (XkYcA)

476 Single biggest indicator of how a woman will vote is whether or not she's married.

Posted by: callsign claymore at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (JcnCJ)

So now you know why the commies want all these unmarried childless women.

Skeletor will be back tomorrow with another life lesson.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (7aRnr)

477 I was watching Air Disasters the other day, and the episode was about some plane that crashed because of the weather, namely microbursts. My husband turned to me and said, "oh I'll show you a microburst" and I about died laughing.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (DRSnL)




Old enough for the microdribble.......

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (Zz0t1)

478 Rising labor-force participation rates should put upward pressure on women's wages and help increase overall consumer spending.
-
This is retarded.
More laborers = more supply for "work"
That means the value of the laborer, wages, must decrease.
Posted by: Methos


Ah, but the wage gap is caused by the evil Patriarchy. More women working, less patriarchy, higher wages for women. QED.

Posted by: mikeski at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (6oTbB)

479 >>>You CAN do this even now (though I agree with reducing taxes). But it requires budgeting and hard decisions, something people don’t want to do in large part because of an entitlement mentality. Your #3 exists because Americans are essentially spoiled brats.
Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33
---------------------

Right. The family has no social value. It's not reinforced or encouraged by society in any way. There was a time when a man being married was a bonus on the job application.

Posted by: Braenyard at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (E78bp)

480 437 This "woman or bear" question is so cisbucolic.

A better question is "Would you rather meet a pup or a bear in the bar?"

Posted by: Atomic Pup Handler at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (a3Q+t)

A bear is a hairy gay guy...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (ynpvh)

481 Too many of fairly plain looking OFs report huge results, and even online it isn't trivial to get a following and make a success.
Posted by: Oldcat

People lie alot online. I got a kick outta the commercial where the camera shows an apparently perfect life for a guy but when asked how he could afford it--the guy said he was in debt up to his eyeballs.

Social media is a funhouse mirror of actual society.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (PkS4e)

482 That's because we don't teach women to control their wild emotions or really any other female faults.
Posted by: Formerly Virginian at May 22, 2024 01:43 PM
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Best advice I've ever heard:
"Feelings are like having children in the car. You can't stuff them in the trunk, but that doesn't mean you should ever let them drive."

Solid advice, in my opinion, on how one should attempt to handle it.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM (d04cU)

483 Oh yes, I made all sorts of comments during TV shows and movies that would make my wife laugh, sometimes in theaters at the most inappropriate moments in the movie...
Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia)

Whereas other couples have a song, my wife and I have a show -- MST3K. We still quote the quips from that show to each other.

Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at May 22, 2024 02:21 PM (v6JzV)

484 how many guys did she pass on to get to this point?
..............................

How many, indeed.

Posted by: Puddleglum, cheer up for the worst is yet to come at May 22, 2024 02:21 PM (sAmhv)

485 After dating his daughter for 7 years, my future FiL gave me the "shit or get off the pot" speech.

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:18 PM (Zz0t1)


"I got a little change in pocket going jing-a-ling-a-LING!"

Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 02:21 PM (h0Z+I)

486 I keep having this suspicion that someone (probably some men) are working OF and pumping money into some of these gals to act as judas goats for the normies who will make 50 bucks a month and have to up the ante and go into hard core streetwalking. Too many of fairly plain looking OFs report huge results, and even online it isn't trivial to get a following and make a success.
Posted by: Oldcat

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You're not wrong. It's a pyramid scheme, or something very similar:

"Essentially, it’s a sex work pyramid scheme. I sent one woman who claims to be in the top 7% of all creators £20 to promote my profile..."

https://tinyurl.com/2422kwcg

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:21 PM (ICJ9S)

487 I always owed up to my mistakes. In design review, I want the reviews to tear the design apart; it means a better design and we all get kudos. I think it's one of the reasons why the company liked me.
Posted by: jim

You are clearly NOT cut out for Congress.

Posted by: Tonypete at May 22, 2024 02:21 PM (WXNFJ)

488 441 The biggest lie these women are told is that the “right man” will be there when they are ready. No. He is probably already taken.
Posted by: Nick in Tallahassee at May 22, 2024 02:09 PM (7PziG)
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Or he *is* there, but doesn't want her. If she already "got it out of her system" or is "ready to settle down with a good man," what's the incentive for that good man? What's left in her "system" for him? Why didn't she want the "good" man back when it mattered?

"You're my Nth choice, baby" doesn't go over well.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:15 PM (d04cU)

When my brother was joking about being on his xth wife...his xth wife got pissed...

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:21 PM (ynpvh)

489 I have two daughters under the age of 10. Every day that goes by I get closer to sincerely advising them to get married as soon as they leave high school, have a bunch of kids, and stay at home with them.

The amount of toxic feminism in the world is just astounding. These women have been sold a bill of goods and when they get to be around 30 and hit the wall looks-wise after having gone through 25 miles of dick they realize no decent man wants anything do do with them.

Posted by: ballistic at May 22, 2024 02:22 PM (oqH4h)

490 "You're my Nth choice, baby" doesn't go over well.
Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:15 PM (d04cU)

...

Wife's friend sang a song to her husband at the receiption of their wedding.

"I've saved the best for last".

Uh.

Posted by: TexasDan at May 22, 2024 02:22 PM (z/ifB)

491 Feelings are like children.

If you can't beat them, then make them disappear.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:22 PM (7aRnr)

492 442 The Ohio SOS has instructed the Democrat party to announce their candidate by Aug 5th. If they don't, then whoever that candidate is will not be on the ballot

Posted by: SMOD at May 22, 2024 02:15 PM (RHGPo)

As I wrote, not Ohio's fault the DNC can't get their shit together.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:22 PM (ynpvh)

493 I have two daughters under the age of 10. Every day that goes by I get closer to sincerely advising them to get married as soon as they leave high school, have a bunch of kids, and stay at home with them.


If you really want the life of a corporate drone you can enter at 30 just as easily as at 23...

No you probably won't get to VP but that's true for everyone.

Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (ibTVg)

494 I have two daughters under the age of 10.



That's hot.

Posted by: Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (Zz0t1)

495 Wife's friend sang a song to her husband at the receiption of their wedding.

"I've saved the best for last".

Uh.
Posted by: TexasDan at May 22, 2024 02:22 PM (z/ifB)
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Oy. I don't know what I would have done. Glad it didn't happen to me.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (d04cU)

496 Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:15 PM (ICJ9S)

I had edited out the part about my first husband having died and forgot to put it back in.

Posted by: Polliwog the 'Ette at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (XjtdB)

497 On the Whatever podcast a male guest mentioned that female fertility starts to drop at 28. None of the young female guests would believe him. One mentioned some celebrity that had given birth at 40 and they all decided that meant it was trivial to have a kid at that age if you wanted.

When the male guest asked why the celeb hadn't told anyone about the pregnancy until some time after birth none of the young female guests could understand his point...
Posted by: 18-1 at May 22, 2024 02:16 PM (ibTVg)

my late sister had a child well after 40 without extreme measures I ever heard about. It can happen. Poor fellow had a condition that developed tumors around the optic nerve and brain that used to blind them, but these days he just had to have major surgery before he was 4. And yes, this condition becomes much more common in older mothers.

Posted by: Oldcat at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (eoQWY)

498 Both these women could have a man in 5 minutes. This is just narcissism.

Posted by: Ted Torgerson DeSantis/Lake 2024 at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (wGerL)

499 454 Ten Bears for the win.

Posted by: callsign claymore at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (JcnCJ)

500 Lots of textile and steel mills popping up around you?
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:17 PM (ICJ9S)

Ever been to SC?

I can’t throw a rock without hitting a manufacturing facility built there by someone else outside the country.

Toyota is expanding its facilities in San Antonio.

Among other examples. No one will utter a peep about that.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (xgbJW)

501 489 I have two daughters under the age of 10. Every day that goes by I get closer to sincerely advising them to get married as soon as they leave high school, have a bunch of kids, and stay at home with them.



That’s the other extreme of never get married.
If my daughter said she wanted to get married at 18 or 19 and start popping out kids I’d be very upset with her decision.

Posted by: Montec at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (Y6Wgg)

502 Both these women could have a man in 5 minutes. This is just narcissism.
Posted by: Ted Torgerson DeSantis/Lake 2024 at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (wGerL)



That's all fine and dandy till the guy gets to know them......

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (Zz0t1)

503 Okay any trade jobs which are also in demand. Didn't think I needed to drill down. The fact is white or black kids in general aren't pursuing how to be HVAC techs, plumbers , electricians, carpenters much less the specialized trades as heavy equipment operators, welders , airplane mechanics, etc . Not every trade job is paying under the table .
Posted by: polynikes

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Fair enough.

I fully support trade jobs. Realistically, would the hottie up top consider dating a plumber?

I'm not saying that's the main reason men are looking at college, but I bet it's a big part of it. The men might not articulate it as such, but a degree vs HVAC tech when introducing yourself at the bar or dating app would undeniably make a difference to the hotties.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (ICJ9S)

504 "I got a little change in pocket going jing-a-ling-a-LING!"
Posted by: Doof at May 22, 2024 02:21 PM (h0Z+I)

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Damn you, Doof! That's going to be stuck in my head all afternoon.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (DRSnL)

505 Feelings are like children.

If you can't beat them, then make them disappear.
Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:22 PM (7aRnr)
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You can always try to drown your sorrows.

Posted by: Susan Smith at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (krQz2)

506 108 My eldest daughter is 35, and met a guy last year who seems like a godly man.

Will be meeting him next month when they come up here to visit.

He also asked the hubby for her hand in marriage, and will propose to her when they're here.

He was also baptized at the church they both attend.
Posted by: SMH at what's coming at May 22, 2024 01:39 PM (ZabZM)

Blessings on all of you!

Posted by: m at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (hyRRf)

507 437 A better question is "Would you rather meet a pup or a bear in the bar?" Posted by: Atomic Pup Handler

Furrys are gay, so...

Posted by: Auspex at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (j4U/Z)

508 But... but... as my 33 year old Son told me yesterday, us Men are not supposed to comment on what Womenz do... even if it affects us directly.

(we were talking about the blowback from what the Chiefs Kicker said).

I told him, that is cowardice speaking... he was not amused.

Posted by: Romeo13 at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (xaFKb)

509 Damn you, Doof! That's going to be stuck in my head all afternoon.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (DRSnL)



Baby shark........

Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (Zz0t1)

510 That’s the other extreme of never get married.
If my daughter said she wanted to get married at 18 or 19 and start popping out kids I’d be very upset with her decision.
Posted by: Montec at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (Y6Wgg)

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I got married at 19. Just saying.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (DRSnL)

511 502 Both these women could have a man in 5 minutes. This is just narcissism.
Posted by: Ted Torgerson DeSantis/Lake 2024 at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (wGerL)


That's all fine and dandy till the guy gets to know them......
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (Zz0t1)

"What's the most important part of a relationship?"

"Trust? Respect? Open communication?"

"Wrong. It's me."

Posted by: The Central Scrutinizer at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (KbCG3)

512 Best advice I've ever heard:
"Feelings are like having children in the car. You can't stuff them in the trunk, but that doesn't mean you should ever let them drive."

Solid advice, in my opinion, on how one should attempt to handle it.
Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:20 PM


Stealing that.

Posted by: RedMindBlueState at May 22, 2024 02:26 PM (ZANHd)

513
or "Don't get yer panties in a bunch". I've never used that one, but I hear it works.
Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:19 PM (ynpvh)

Old favorite: Dont git yer tit in a wringer.

Posted by: Xipe Totec at May 22, 2024 02:26 PM (pohLc)

514 my late sister had a child well after 40 without extreme measures I ever heard about. It can happen. Poor fellow had a condition that developed tumors around the optic nerve and brain that used to blind them, but these days he just had to have major surgery before he was 4. And yes, this condition becomes much more common in older mothers.
Posted by: Oldcat at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (eoQWY)
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I was born to a middle-aged woman. I wasn't planned. I'm also fine. It isn't even all that unusual.

It isn't that you can't get pregnant after 35, it's just that it's an ever-worsening combination of "unlikely" and "risky." Probability falls and risks increase simultaneously. Pregnancies after 35 are considered "geriatric" for a reason.

Posted by: Joe Mannix (Not a cop!) at May 22, 2024 02:26 PM (d04cU)

515 Posted by: Divide by Zero at May 22, 2024 02:13 PM (RKVpM)

I was more asking about the 'give away the bride' tradition compared to the tradition of asking the father for his daughter's hand in marriage. I would have thought that would also make you feel uneasy.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 02:26 PM (0CsDL)

516 Damn you, Doof! That's going to be stuck in my head all afternoon.
Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (DRSnL)

That's what she said.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:26 PM (7aRnr)

517 Both these women could have a man in 5 minutes. This is just narcissism.

Posted by: Ted Torgerson DeSantis/Lake 2024 at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (wGerL)
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Narcissism is an epidemic of the times.

And I wouldn't claim to be free of it.

Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 02:26 PM (krQz2)

518 Nood.

Posted by: Flyguy at May 22, 2024 02:27 PM (OYxA4)

519 Both these women could have a man in 5 minutes. This is just narcissism.
Posted by: Ted Torgerson DeSantis/Lake 2024 at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (wGerL)

That's all fine and dandy till the guy gets to know them......
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (Zz0t1)

That's where the narcissism comes in. At first she's the perfect woman, then her "issues" start coming out, and when you respond with... whatever, treating her like she's an adult, she overreacts, and tells you how horrible you are. Because introspection is not possible for her.

Posted by: BurtTC at May 22, 2024 02:27 PM (dGCAG)

520 Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (Zz0t1)

Honestly, I found the younger one kind of endearing. Of course I am old enough to be her grandfather, but she talks about praying for a man for a long time. I think she would be a good wife. The other one too. I just know I would hate to be a single.

Posted by: Ted Torgerson DeSantis/Lake 2024 at May 22, 2024 02:27 PM (wGerL)

521 502 Both these women could have a man in 5 minutes. This is just narcissism.
Posted by: Ted Torgerson DeSantis/Lake 2024 at May 22, 2024 02:23 PM (wGerL)


That's all fine and dandy till the guy gets to know them......
Posted by: Sponge - F*ck Joe Biden at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (Zz0t1)
_______________

They're incredibly self-absorbed, which is desperately off-putting.

Posted by: Deplorable Jay Guevara at May 22, 2024 02:27 PM (YqDXo)

522 386 When EVERYONE else is the asshole.....
Posted by: nurse ratched at May 22, 2024 02:08 PM (WXvh7)


Ha!

Posted by: Inogame at May 22, 2024 02:27 PM (53oGX)

523 Ever been to SC?

I can’t throw a rock without hitting a manufacturing facility built there by someone else outside the country.

Toyota is expanding its facilities in San Antonio.

Among other examples. No one will utter a peep about that.
Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33

--

Fair enough. So after the loss of industry in the 70s and 80s for 40 years (and back when the population was 200M or so) putting us here with a few places opening up now that the population is 320M+...

It's a good thing, don't misunderstand. I'm just not sure it has maintained pace.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:27 PM (ICJ9S)

524 Or he *is* there, but doesn't want her. If she already "got it out of her system" or is "ready to settle down with a good man," what's the incentive for that good man? What's left in her "system" for him? Why didn't she want the "good" man back when it mattered?

"You're my Nth choice, baby" doesn't go over well.
Posted by: Joe Mannix

That is one of the common sense notions that actually has significant support from research. Notch counts for both men and women affect future marriage prospects and the longevity of any ensuing marriages. Basically screwing around becomes a sort of grass is always greener mantra for the higher notch count individuals. Part of infidelity always comes from considering the idea in the first place as acceptable and depending on the individual--they will adopt conscious or unconscious means to keep their options open.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:28 PM (PkS4e)

525 Build your feelings a fire and they'll be warm for a night. Set yourself on fire and they'll be warm for the rest of your life.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:28 PM (7aRnr)

526 I got married at 19. Just saying.
Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (DRSnL)

Same. John was also 19. Although the first couple if years were actually pretty awful for several reasons, I was glad we'd had the time together when he died at 35.

Posted by: Polliwog the 'Ette at May 22, 2024 02:29 PM (XjtdB)

527 Gotta go for a bit, y'all have fun.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:29 PM (ICJ9S)

528 'men aren't avoiding marriage, they're avoiding divorce '.

Whoever posted this. Yes. Exactly.

Posted by: Puddleglum, cheer up for the worst is yet to come at May 22, 2024 02:29 PM (sAmhv)

529 510 That’s the other extreme of never get married.
If my daughter said she wanted to get married at 18 or 19 and start popping out kids I’d be very upset with her decision.
Posted by: Montec at May 22, 2024 02:24 PM (Y6Wgg)

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I got married at 19. Just saying.

Posted by: Jordan61 at May 22, 2024 02:25 PM (DRSnL)

A g-Gma of mine married at 15...she said she was 16. Her Husband was 23.

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:29 PM (ynpvh)

530 NOOD Toricelli

Posted by: jim (in Kalifornia) at May 22, 2024 02:30 PM (ynpvh)

531 Jordan Petersen said that like the top 80% of women line themselves up with the top 20% of men.

So, yeah, some men are being pussyhounds, but plenty of women are making it easy to be pussyhounds.
Posted by: Axeman at May 22, 2024 02:14 PM (krQz2)

I don't think it was men that invented the term "situationships" for the idea of women having regular sex with some dude for long terms while he does not commit to her. They would describe it as not being into you.

Posted by: Oldcat at May 22, 2024 02:30 PM (eoQWY)

532 462 476 Statistician John Lott did a fascinating deep dive on women getting the vote and the growth of government. Yeah, they're connected.

Posted by: callsign claymore at May 22, 2024 02:30 PM (JcnCJ)

533 With my kids there’s always been a wide range of parent ages with their classmates. It would be like 25 year olds and 52 year olds showing up for school plays and shit.

Posted by: Montec at May 22, 2024 02:30 PM (Y6Wgg)

534 It's a good thing, don't misunderstand. I'm just not sure it has maintained pace.
Posted by: Moron Robbie
========
It hasn't. Often it is cheaper to build new factories with incentives than to repurpose old factories. Even better is to glom onto subsidies like Rivian and then never build a new factory.

There is actually quite a bit of interest in the trades for males now as 4 yr colleges have become very inhospitable to males and loading graduates with a lot of debt.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:31 PM (PkS4e)

535 Posted by: Polliwog the 'Ette at May 22, 2024 02:29 PM (XjtdB)

So young.

Posted by: ... at May 22, 2024 02:31 PM (7aRnr)

536 "And then when she's poor and miserable because she married an excuse making loser, everyone around her will says "Well, you knew he was an excuse-making loser when you married him, so you brought this in yourself."

FeatherBlade

-I wasn't trying to make anything personal and still won't engage in a way that creates that environment.

but yes, this:

"If a woman is interested in relationship or marriage she can find a relationship or marriage."
Posted by: Moron Robbie"

Alright, sauce for the gander time. Your contention applies equally well to men. If a man is interested in a marriage or relationship, he can find one. Discernment need not apply. He needs to shut up and take whatever is available, regardless of her suitability.

Posted by: FeatherBlade at May 22, 2024 02:32 PM (ou9hh)

537 I don't think it was men that invented the term "situationships" for the idea of women having regular sex with some dude for long terms while he does not commit to her. They would describe it as not being into you.
Posted by: Oldcat
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Ottomans called that a harem if wives and the fwb women were called concubines.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:32 PM (PkS4e)

538 Or he *is* there, but doesn't want her. If she already "got it out of her system" or is "ready to settle down with a good man," what's the incentive for that good man? What's left in her "system" for him? Why didn't she want the "good" man back when it mattered?

"You're my Nth choice, baby" doesn't go over well.
Posted by: Joe Mannix

Research shows that if the woman is a virgin at marriage the chance that she reports being happy some year later is something around 80 percent. If she has had as few as 5 different sexual partners at marriage it drops to 20-30 percent. Men have a decline but it is not as severe.

Posted by: Oldcat at May 22, 2024 02:33 PM (eoQWY)

539 There is actually quite a bit of interest in the trades for males now as 4 yr colleges have become very inhospitable to males and loading graduates with a lot of debt.
Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:31 PM (PkS4e)

Son and Son-in-law have both become HVaC/plumber guys. Both really liked the getting paid to learn part. Even with them though, there are down times when jobs aren't coming in fast enough to pay the bills.

Posted by: Polliwog the 'Ette at May 22, 2024 02:34 PM (XjtdB)

540 That first one is completely psycho. You'd have to be really brave or desperate to date her. The second one seemed pretty sympathetic. Going out to a singles group like that can be very intimidating. I did it and eventually it worked out great! And most of the good ones are taken by 30, She's getting into the divorcee pool now and it's a fickle lot.

Posted by: Tom at May 22, 2024 02:34 PM (tAkxj)

541 Alright, sauce for the gander time. Your contention applies equally well to men. If a man is interested in a marriage or relationship, he can find one. Discernment need not apply. He needs to shut up and take whatever is available, regardless of her suitability.
Posted by: FeatherBlade
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That is pretty much what a lot of churches have been telling men in their congregations. Result is congregations becoming more and more female in attendance.

Humans are pretty similar---treat them like shit and some will tolerate it but most will find better things to do with the rest of their life. That goes for males or females---the bits are usually the least interesting thing about people.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:35 PM (PkS4e)

542 Posted by: FeatherBlade at May 22, 2024 02:32 PM (ou9hh

Done all the time. Men have no problem marrying down. ( hate that term though because it's not your station in life that makes you good or bad) .

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 02:35 PM (0CsDL)

543 I don't think it was men that invented the term "situationships" for the idea of women having regular sex with some dude for long terms while he does not commit to her. They would describe it as not being into you.
Posted by: Oldcat
======
Ottomans called that a harem if wives and the fwb women were called concubines.
Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:32 PM (PkS4e)

The Ottoman husband had made a commitment to his wife of some sort. Situationships are when you aren't even dating, just hooking up.

Posted by: Oldcat at May 22, 2024 02:35 PM (eoQWY)

544 Son and Son-in-law have both become HVaC/plumber guys. Both really liked the getting paid to learn part. Even with them though, there are down times when jobs aren't coming in fast enough to pay the bills.
Posted by: Polliwog the 'Ette
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True, but is also even more true if you take out student loans for a 4 yr or greater degree. There is never a perfect world but one can get by with a lot less if one has to than what society tells them is necessary for a good life.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:37 PM (PkS4e)

545 Fair enough. So after the loss of industry in the 70s and 80s for 40 years (and back when the population was 200M or so) putting us here with a few places opening up now that the population is 320M+...

It's a good thing, don't misunderstand. I'm just not sure it has maintained pace.

Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:27 PM (ICJ9S)
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It's coming fast and hard - and manufacturing wages are going to spike because of it. The amount of industrial plant being installed in the US right now is amazing.

Posted by: Black JEM at May 22, 2024 02:40 PM (GZYu7)

546 143 Hallmark style movies ... Mrs. Wrecks was watching one the other night in which pretty boy wanted to watch a five hour Golden Girls marathon with protagonist.
Posted by: Anonosaurus Wrecks, I've Been Through the Desert On a Horse With No Shame at May 22, 2024 01:42 PM (L/fGl)

!!!

Posted by: m at May 22, 2024 02:41 PM (hyRRf)

547 Yes HVAC is a seasonal secure job in Houston . During the summer not nearly enough techs. During the winter companies can't keep the same staffing. Plumbing though is a good living here.

Posted by: polynikes at May 22, 2024 02:41 PM (0CsDL)

548 491 Feelings are like children.

If you can't beat them, then make them disappear.
Posted by: ...
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"Feelings are like having children in the car. You can't stuff them in the trunk, but that doesn't mean you should ever let them drive."

Posted by: Braenyard at May 22, 2024 02:43 PM (E78bp)

549 The Ottoman husband had made a commitment to his wife of some sort. Situationships are when you aren't even dating, just hooking up.
Posted by: Oldcat
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Divorce for males was pretty casual in most Ottoman Islamic schools of law with minimal consequences. Concubinage had little or no expectations for the relationship---only for any kids that resulted. Notice that I included both circumstances.

Posted by: whig at May 22, 2024 02:44 PM (PkS4e)

550 Featherblade

How many cats do you have?

Posted by: Blanco at May 22, 2024 02:44 PM (guMc0)

551 I have two cats myself.

Posted by: Blanco at May 22, 2024 02:48 PM (guMc0)

552 Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:27 PM (ICJ9S)
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Being a full time wife, house manager, and mother is not easy.

Posted by: Braenyard at May 22, 2024 02:50 PM (E78bp)

553 I’m, rising labor force participation rates most definitely does not put upward pressure on wages. More workers = lower wages. Whoever wrote that is an idiot.

Posted by: sniffybigtoe at May 22, 2024 01:34 PM (JTwsP)
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Noticed that - was idiotic. But the entire labor pool is shrinking, which will drive wage increases for everyone.


Posted by: Black JEM at May 22, 2024 02:07 PM

In automotive industry, at least in engineering sector, the labor force is increasing, but not with American workers. It is increasing because of all the outsourcing of engineering positions since the Plandemic of 2020 pushed a lot of those jobs to remote work.

My department used to be 100% American workers, in office. After the Plandemic was executed and 100% remote work started, they fired all the contract workers and went with skeleton crew of remaining direct employees. Then after 2021 merger, they started replacing all direct engineer employees in my department with 2-3 low cost "engineers" (LCE) from Mexico, India, Canada and Brazil.

FF to Jan '24. Record profits announced. Feb '24, CEO gets massive $14mil bonus. Mar '24, 400 American engineers fired. April 2024, each replaced with 2-3 LCE.

Posted by: Clyde Shelton at May 22, 2024 02:54 PM (P5BPp)

554 The Ottoman husband had made a commitment to his wife of some sort. Situationships are when you aren't even dating, just hooking up.

Posted by: Oldcat at May 22, 2024 02:35 PM

That was one of the themes in the movie "That Awkward Moment". The 20-something guys in the movie talked about adding and removing women from their "roster" of girls they would hook up with.

https://imdb.to/3KbMOo7

Posted by: Clyde Shelton at May 22, 2024 02:59 PM (P5BPp)

555 Fair enough. So after the loss of industry in the 70s and 80s for 40 years (and back when the population was 200M or so) putting us here with a few places opening up now that the population is 320M+...

It's a good thing, don't misunderstand. I'm just not sure it has maintained pace.
Posted by: Moron Robbie - Men don't care about women's accomplishments, only looks and not nagging at May 22, 2024 02:27 PM (ICJ9S)

I am just one of those weirdos who love to look at the whole picture. Absolutely, Pittsburgh and Birmingham, AL aren’t what they were. I spent quite a bit of time hanging out at Youngstown and it is a post industrial hellhole. At the same time, I also see where industry is going here. Hyundais built at Montgomery, AL, or BMWs at Spartanburg, SC, and much else besides.

A country with 330 million people with the natural resources and human capital like what we have is big enough to do a little bit of everything, and we should focus on that. Just my 0.02.

Posted by: Clay Travis and Buck Sexton at May 22, 2024 02:59 PM (xgbJW)

556
Being a reproductive cul-de-sac is worth crying over.

Posted by: Frank Barone at May 22, 2024 02:59 PM (+oR7L)

557 Away with the political novices sock.

Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at May 22, 2024 03:00 PM (xgbJW)

558 My two cents: few people know what marriage is; fewer people know it's a sacrament.

The man I wanted to marry who wanted to marry me died suddenly. When I reentered the dating scene, I found men who didn't want a wife. They wanted a friend with benefits, a live-in girlfriend, or (when I got a mortgage) to move in with me. Tried Match.com and other ways, but found "single" men with attachments, "Christian" men who didn't believe in the Resurrection, and "Catholic" men who didn't believe in the Real Presence. Sure believed in premarital sex, though!)

One of my single male cousins is unmarried. He has had a similar experience, but with the added "bonus" of lots of single mothers who were raised by divorced or never-married mothers.

I have two "successfully" married friends without children. One slept with every man she ever dated until finally one wanted to marry her. She didn't want kids; he didn't care. Another lived with her boyfriend for about 10 years until a life-altering event. She couldn't carry a baby to term; he didn't want to adopt.

I couldn't do what they did.

Posted by: NaughtyPine at May 22, 2024 03:06 PM (fxCK2)

559 nood kamala

Posted by: m at May 22, 2024 03:07 PM (hyRRf)

560 Gosh, I forgot to put a sock on it. Guess my dirty laundry is out in the open.

Posted by: NaughtyPine at May 22, 2024 03:08 PM (fxCK2)

561 100 Mass media gradually ended all of this, until everyone was watching the Beatles on Ed Sullivan or the Super Bowl at the same time.

Posted by: TheLowerDepths at May 22, 2024 01:38 PM (Dg7ng)


In his Democracy in America, De Tocqueville marveled at the cultural diversity he observed among the many Americans he visited, and how it strengthened the nation. Upon reading that (c. 1975), I couldn't help but think that the Age of Television was destroying it.

Posted by: LCMS Rulz! at May 22, 2024 03:11 PM (TOe+Q)

562 Intelligent
Emotionally Stable
Attractive


You only get two so the attractive ones need to contain their deficiency.

Posted by: Pick Two at May 22, 2024 03:26 PM (T3x1f)

563 So cum dumpsters are angry that nobody wants them in their 30s? How very odd.

Posted by: Nom de Blog at May 22, 2024 03:28 PM (FPBDR)

564 Never give a cunt an even break. Send them pills for Valentine's day.

Posted by: JoshO at May 22, 2024 03:53 PM (LmUpe)

565 Well, the whole “here to find My Person” says a lot.
It is nuanced just enough to, I dunno, come across as admitting one is selfish, controlling, possessive, Queen of Life Coaching crazy. Red flag shit right there. CHANGE, YOU TOXIC MAN YOU! REEEEEEEEE! First vid was a great demonstration of the ME ME ME ME MYSELF NEED shit that is pervading the general female mindset these days.

Posted by: Carl Spackler at May 22, 2024 04:03 PM (4rclc)

566 Second vid, I got past the whiny voice and as far as “someone worth my time”. How arrogant. It went on for six minutes after that? Yikes.

Posted by: Carl Spackler at May 22, 2024 04:07 PM (4rclc)

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