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aceofspadeshq at gee mail.com CBD: cbd at cutjibnewsletter.com Buck: buck.throckmorton at protonmail.com joe mannix: mannix2024 at proton.me MisHum: petmorons at gee mail.com J.J. Sefton: sefton at cutjibnewsletter.com | Hobby Thread Redux - July 20, 2024 [TRex]Welcome hobbyists! Pull up a chair and a beverage and sit a spell with the horde. Do not adjust your interweb. You've seen this thread (or at least one that looked a lot like this one) before. We're making a second attempt at a genealogy theme. Last week's thread was rudely interrupted by the developments in Butler, Pennsylvania. If events warrant, we'll pivot and adapt. The horde was just starting to get rolling last week with tales of family history, so let's try it again. I put my thumb on the Ace of Spades wheel of hobbies and made sure it would come up with a theme of family history and genealogy again. So here we are...Who am I? Where did I come from? How did I get here? Have you traced your family's history? How far back does your knowledge go? Do you have famous (or infamous) ancestors? Have you done research on the web or books? How has family history been passed down to you (i.e., photographs, old family bibles, etc.)? Have you physically visited towns and places in your heritage? Where are your ancestors laid to rest? Do you have favorite sources or techniques for finding family history? Do you have stories of finding unexpected things in your family line? Has anyone unexpectedly contacted you in their family history search? Do you save and scan old photos? Do you have boxes of photos or family papers that need sorting, labeling, scanning, etc.? Do you have old family photos, but no idea who is in them? Have you assembled and published your history? Did anyone get inspired and find anything interesting after last week's thread? Let's not make a mess of the place by turning the thread into a Jerry Springer episode with crazy family stories. We can also leave aside comments on Mormon theology or marriage practices. We're here to talk about family records and research and history. Politics and current events seem to be infused in everything at the moment, but we can attempt to talk a little bit about hobbies. Play nice in the sandbox and don't feed the trolls. Click on the cartoon at the top for family-themed music to enhance your hobby thread enjoyment... I guess we can't call it a secret click if I'm telling you it exists but we'll go with mystery click because you have to click to find out what it is. Dead people are easy to love. It's the living ones who are hard. ~ Laurence Overmire Genealogy - It's like hide and seek with dead people. You know you're a genealogist if the highlight if your last trip was a cemetery visit. If you can't get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance. Why waste your money looking into your family tree? Go into politics and your opponents will do it for you. Genealogy is chasing your own tale.There is a lot to be said for going deep down the rabbit hole of boat passenger lists, census records, military service files, old maps, birth and death certificates, and old newspaper databases. In the era of technology and access to computers, more and more data is being digitized and recorded. On-line databases allow access to treasure troves of information from the comfort of your living room. Another element involves the exact opposite - researching family history can be an excuse to go places and meet people you would never have been and met otherwise. We've met lovely people (not just family relations), walked numerous graveyards, met caretakers, been invited into homes, shuttled around farmland in a personal car by someone we just met, found charming villages and churches, and traced military unit movements. We like history and appreciate knowing more about our ancestors but genealogy has been a gateway to places and people.Why Is Genealogy Important to Mormons? Mormons, Genetics, & Digitized Data Search resources for those not sure where to start: Do you have an ancestor that came through Ellis Island? Check out the free Ellis Island Passenger Search database. It has 65 million records of passengers arriving to the Port of New York from 1820 to 1957. The Find-a-Grave website has an enormous database of cemeteries and those resting comfortably in those cemeteries. There are photos of many headstones and family information about other relatives. FamilySearch is the free equivalent to Ancestry.com. It is run by the Mormon church. A free account is required to dig beneath the surface, but it can be a resource if you're looking for an easy place to start. National Archives website on military records Most modern records are not available online but the site has information on ways to request records. The Civil War Soldiers and Sailors System (CWSS) is a database on the National Park Service page with information about those who served in the Union and Confederate armies during the Civil War. The NPS page also has search pages for units, battles, prisoners, and more. Top tip: if you're doing research, find primary sources - and validate where possible. If you're copying the results of others, you may be repeating and perpetuating mistakes. US census records can be a valuable source of information. Handwritten information included names, ages, relationships, location, birthplaces and occupations. Many pages have been scanned and are available, but the 1890 records were unfortunately lost in a fire in 1921. Read more history here. Weird wild stuff I did not know but thanks to the horde for sharing knowledge from last week's thread: Modern technology - amirite? “A modern family: 20-plus sperm donor siblings find each other. “When we’re all in a group together, you definitely feel like you’re with your people,” Ryan Kramer said.Sperm donor who fathered 550 children ordered to stop Netflix's 'Man With 1000 Kids' puts a spotlight on the lack of international regulations for sperm donors Words of wisdom: "Because despite all our troubles, when things are grim out in that wide round world of ours, that's when it's really important to have a good hobby." Posted by: tankascribe at June 22, 2024 07:41 PM (HWxAD). If family history is not your thing and you have trouble finding something in the content or comments that resonates with you, you may be beyond redemption. In any case, hijack the thread for your hobbying as you see fit. We will feature a different hobby next time around (caveat: I said that last week too). Send thoughts or suggestions to moronhobbies at protonmail dot com. Ace of Spades is not responsible for skeletons in your closet. Consult Project 2025 for further guidance. Comments(Jump to bottom of comments)1
Hi
Posted by: kactus at July 20, 2024 05:34 PM (twS2i) 2
Afternoon, hobby folken!
Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 05:36 PM (omVj0) 3
Dang rookie. Here I am messing around, reading content. Not a sole (fish puns are a horde hobby, right?) down here and jump to bottom/top right next to each other.
Posted by: BifBewakski at July 20, 2024 05:36 PM (MsrgL) 4
Nooded
Posted by: kactus at July 20, 2024 05:36 PM (twS2i) 5
In my hobby project I learned something important: when trying out Rustoleum Appliance Epoxy in a spray can, when it says recoat within 30 minutes, or after 7 days, they mean it. So, on the advice of knowledgeable people, the partial tryout hit I sprayed on, will have to wait 6 days before I can finish the job. Also, Original Gorilla Glue does not stick to copper.
Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 05:38 PM (bFId9) 6
My family tree, or me
Posted by: kactus at July 20, 2024 05:38 PM (twS2i) 7
Welcome Hobbiests from Historicon war gaming in Lancaster
https://tinyurl.com/23hj3j7y This was a Waterloo game played yesterday tinyurl.com/y4efxy8w This is from a Wars of Oz playing right now Running the Quadlings on the Munchkin side Posted by: Skip at July 20, 2024 05:39 PM (M7fwC) Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:40 PM (+H2BX) 9
I used some original Super Glue, in the little tube, to repair (I hope) my favorite synthetic shaving brush. It came loose once before, the brush part from the handle, and I glued it, but I don;t know if I used this same stuff. Anyway, I scraped out as much of the residue as I could from the receptacle in the handle and from the base of the brush, followed instructions with the glue, and am letting it set until tomorrow.
I have other brushes, but none feel quite the same way. And the site I bought it from does not have ones exactly like it any more. Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 05:41 PM (omVj0) 10
Can you have skeletons in your closet and keep dogs?
Posted by: Ciampino - Crazy Casa of Cats #12 at July 20, 2024 05:42 PM (qfLjt) 11
Just bought a Sodastream selzer machine. I'm starting to get the hang of it. Organic apple juice +selzer water is pretty darn good on the rocks.
Posted by: mrp at July 20, 2024 05:45 PM (rj6Yv) 12
3 Dang rookie. Here I am messing around, reading content. Not a sole (fish puns are a horde hobby, right?) down here and jump to bottom/top right next to each other.
Posted by: BifBewakski at July 20, 2024 05:36 PM (MsrgL) ---- Are you sure you're not in the wrong plaice? Posted by: Ciampino - Crazy Casa of Cats #13 at July 20, 2024 05:45 PM (qfLjt) 13
My sister was in Arkansas looking for grave markers. She was in a small town and thought about asking someone in a Realtor's office. "Sure." They said Billy will take you there. My niece is telling my sister "We may never be seen alive."
They get in the guy's car and off they go. He stops in the middle of nowhere. He beckons them to get out of the car. After they do, he points to some headstones lined up against a fence. When then put in the road or widened, the graves were covered over. But the grave markers were kept. Sure enough, our ancestors were buried there. Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:45 PM (+H2BX) 14
Who am I? Where did I come from? How did I get here? I joke about coming from a long line of illiterate rednecks. I really come from a long line of hard scrabble bond servants straight out of ye olde Georgia penal colony circa late 1700s. Grandpa (maternal side) ran 'shine all over Louisiana until he got horny enough to settle down so that Grandma would marry him. Grandma's maiden name was "Bond", and she played with Bonnie Parker (1st cousins) when they were both little. Grandpa is a cypher enigma. He changed his name in the 1906 census and became a 13 year old. He had already been working LA timber since the age of 7 to support his family as his daddy had skipped town to avoid livestock theft charges. Man knew every trail, backroad, and shortcut throughout LA from his 'shine days. Posted by: BifBewakski at July 20, 2024 05:46 PM (MsrgL) 15
Family History:
Work at a hospice center, where dying people will tell you the craziest stuff that will haunt you your entire life, and swear you to secrecy. Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 05:46 PM (bFId9) 16
I sent this to Perfessor Squirrel for the Book Thread tomorrow, but in case he can't get it in: The Raconteur Press fantasy anthology All Will Burn: At All Costs is out on Amazon, both Kindle and paperback: https://tinyurl.com/3kkunxcb The anthology theme: family, aka "If your kids were in danger, what would you do? Here are tales of parents willing to endure whatever perils they must to ensure the safety of their kids, at all costs."
My short story "Ant Farm" is in there as by "P.L. Sundeson." When I read the call for submissions earlier this year, I said to myself, "Self, when have you ever written about families?" (Especially seeing as mine was quite dysfunctional.) But then I looked over my short stories again. It seems I've done a lot of tales with family at the core. Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 05:47 PM (omVj0) 17
Mom is watching "Finding Your Roots" in the next room.
Professor Gates must be in heaven because BOTH guests had slave holders in their family trees. "How does that make you feel?" Posted by: All Hail Eris at July 20, 2024 05:49 PM (kpS4V) 18
All happy families are the same. Every unhappy family is unique.
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:49 PM (+H2BX) 19
When I was 8 years old my mother blurted out to me in the kitchen that she had sex with her high school boyfriend, and lied to my dad that she was a virgin when they got married.
I can't say I was wholly surprised even then... Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 05:49 PM (bFId9) 20
Congrats Wolfus!
Posted by: vmom stabby stabby stabby stabby stabamillion at July 20, 2024 05:50 PM (Ka3bZ) 21
Did this really happen, Len, or did you write this?
Posted by: All Hail Eris at July 20, 2024 05:50 PM (kpS4V) 22
Years ago my Dad collected all of our ancestor info he could find into Family Tree Maker for Windows. I think that was under Windows 98, but I have the program and data now and it still works with Win 7 at least.
I've printed out some of the family trees on a big plotter If I print my whole ancestor tree I can fit it in about 3' wide and 18" high. My ancestors were English and French, the oldest I know of from about 1500. They arrived here mostly in Virginia, and North and South Carolina and then spread West. Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 05:51 PM (vFG9F) 23
LOL. The State Archives have a copy of the record of the tax that was paid for my great-great-great grandmother's slaves. It's a matter of public record.
She didn't leave me anything because there was a generation of wasters that spent everything. Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:52 PM (+H2BX) 24
There was a standard migration pattern. VA-NC-SC-GA-AL-MS-AR-TX
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:53 PM (+H2BX) 25
Paternal side, was even more crooked. Papaw didn't show on any census until adult aged working the Biloxi shipyards in ww2. His spouse, was (quoting here) a nasty gypsy piece of work that left the kids and papaw when Dad was maybe 6. Papaw is maye 3rd cousin to Alabama senator Tom Bevill, but all documentation was destroyed in a county courthouse fire back in the 20s so who knows whether or not he really was. Probably just rumors used for convenience when he poofed into census existence as an adult.
I suspect my family tree is full of horse thieves, murderers, bank robbers (hello cousin Bonnie), and basic criminals. Posted by: BifBewakski at July 20, 2024 05:53 PM (MsrgL) 26
Oh no, this happened. She then acted like nothing had been said and nobody said anything about it ever again. It did explain the high school yearbooks on our shelves, with Craig the Quarterback. He was a handsome, well built dude.
No my mom fucked my dad in college later and swore she was chaste and he believed her. Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 05:54 PM (bFId9) 27
Then of course there was the OKLA-CA in the 1930s
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:54 PM (+H2BX) 28
And we won capturing 2 of 3 towns and contesting the 3rd
Posted by: Skip at July 20, 2024 05:55 PM (M7fwC) 29
13 Sure enough, our ancestors were buried there.
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:45 PM (+H2BX) *** Great story. We've had total strangers show amazing generosity in our family history travels and look back in awe and appreciation. Thanks for sharing. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 05:56 PM (IQ6Gq) 30
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I suspect my family tree is full of horse thieves, murderers, bank robbers (hello cousin Bonnie), and basic criminals. Posted by: BifBewakski at July 20, 2024 05:53 PM (MsrgL) ---- So, people trying to make ends meet or politicians? Posted by: Ciampino - Crazy Casa of Cats #14 at July 20, 2024 05:56 PM (qfLjt) 31
The hospice center? Yes, did that. 17 years old. Dying people would ask me my advice, a punk kid.
I told a bunch of people fucked up stuff because I had no idea what to say. Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 05:56 PM (bFId9) 32
Did he really believe her or was he just delighted that she married him and he was a solid guy that wouldn't tarnish her image?
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:56 PM (+H2BX) 33
One of our kids did a dna test for genealogy's and we did get a surprise - found out my grandpa was Jewish.
Posted by: vmom stabby stabby stabby stabby stabamillion at July 20, 2024 05:56 PM (Ka3bZ) 34
From Bill Cosby's "Slow Class":
"The kids in the class were all going to end up as murderers or priests." Posted by: Ciampino - Crazy Casa of Cats #15 at July 20, 2024 05:58 PM (qfLjt) 35
22 I've printed out some of the family trees on a big plotter If I print my whole ancestor tree I can fit it in about 3' wide and 18" high. My ancestors were English and French, the oldest I know of from about 1500.
Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 05:51 PM (vFG9F) *** Wow. Love a paper copy of an extensive family tree. Great visual - more than scrolling on the computer. 1500 is WAY back! Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:00 PM (IQ6Gq) 36
In May I went to Montenegro to spend a weekend and ended up in a Finding Your Past with my Balkan brother and that was fucked. UP.
Turned out he had not returned since his tragedy, nobody knew who I am, thought I was some Rasputin character, wholly crazy and Montenegro is like Arkansas Territory back in The Day Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:01 PM (bFId9) 37
There are sometimes hidden clues as to how discrepancies in the family tree can occur. For the longest time we thought my great great grandmother's first name was Amelia. That's what was in the census records. Even though Christian, rather an odd name for a Lebanese woman. Her actual name was Jemali. Why the error? Then we looked at the name of the census taker at the top of the page: a very Irish name and given the time and place he was probably right off the boat. Her brothers would have been at work when the census taker came by and her heavily accented and limited English clashed with his own Irish lilt, so he wrote down his best guess at what she told him.
Problem solved and a bit of humor thrown in. Posted by: JTB at July 20, 2024 06:01 PM (zudum) 38
Y'all don't have the room for all of it, but far simplified my dad came here 12 years old, alone, from China, just before the Depression. Believe it or not [and it has been confirmed by geneologists], my mother's ancestors literally came over on the Mayflower. Specifically, one Mary Chilton who was the first female to land on Plymouth Rock.
It makes me primarily Chinese, but with English, German, Welsh, and Cornish. And that is not even mentioning the step-family. I figure both sides of the family tree would be bemused by the mixture. Subotai Bahadur Posted by: Subotai Bahadur at July 20, 2024 06:01 PM (A75st) 39
My great-great grampa was Jewish and his wife was half Jewish. But when their parents came over from southern Germany in 1820, they claimed to be Catholic and raised the children Catholic. Mobile. They "crossed over." And once you cross over, you don't go back. That accounts for me being 9% Jewish.
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:02 PM (+H2BX) 40
If my parents aren't liars, which I'm not so sure of, I am Ukrainian, Irish and Cherokee.
My Irish ancestors came here as indentured servants because they broke the law back in the foreverago. What law you ask well, the British came over and burned all the farm houses and crops. Then they arrested everyone for being homeless beggars and sent them to America to work off their crime. At the end of their sentence they were told if they didn't have a place to go they would be arrested again... In conclusion, there was no "potato famine" (or multiple potato famines). The Irish (Celts) and Cherokee have been mixing genetics since before Columbus. My grandfather (dads side) got off of the reservation when he was a teen, I think he is 50%. I think my grandmother had some Cherokee blood as well. My mom's ancestors were Ukrainian farmers and they had a bakery. The Bolsheviks didn't like that so they killed all of the men and raped the women. What was left fled to Germany for a few years before Hitler rose to power. Then they got the hell out and went to the USA. Liberals think I owe some people reparations Posted by: Lemmiwinks at July 20, 2024 06:03 PM (b+QiS) 41
One of our kids did a dna test for genealogy's and we did get a surprise - found out my grandpa was Jewish.
Posted by: vmom stabby stabby stabby stabby stabamillion at July 20, 2024 05:56 PM (Ka3bZ) so is most of the Spanish nobility. I wouldn't give it much concern. Posted by: Kindltot at July 20, 2024 06:04 PM (D7oie) 42
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No my biological male parent was an abusive control freak piece of shit who treated his woman like garbage. Which I assume she thought she deserved due to her straying. I know for a fact that guy was a virgin when he met his future wife. Nah, all my biological family is so warped I said goodbye decades ago. Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:04 PM (bFId9) 43
My paternal grandmother was born in Cle Elum, WA in 1915, the fourth daughter of Croatian coal miners. Very large Croatian community out there
There's a Croatian family picnic in the center of town every summer and I was in the local butcher shop getting some dried meat for a camping trip and started chatting with the owner who happened to be the Mayor. Find out his wife and I are second cousins. I get an invite to the picnic and wore a tag with my grandmother's maiden name. I had all sorts of folks walking up and telling me stories of their parents and grandparents who knew and worked with my relatives. Pretty cool stories. Posted by: nurse ratched at July 20, 2024 06:05 PM (2n6Sf) 44
So, people trying to make ends meet or politicians?
Posted by: Ciampino Probably trying to make ends meet. My family was definitely part of the targeted reconstruction efforts after cw1 and embraced the wrong side of the law a little too firmly. The paternal side gets pee-ohed at siblings very easily and refuses to either speak to, or introduce the offspring to the rest of the family. "Don't want you getting ideas of poor behavior from those a-holes". I know I have family in the Amarillo region, but no idea whom hy are or how to contact them. Dad refused to speak about them when he was alive, and Mom pretends to not know anything at all. Wayward uncle that I've met twice in my 29+ years hints but won't say squat. Posted by: BifBewakski at July 20, 2024 06:05 PM (MsrgL) 45
why are you insisting on putting your personal misery on us? are you looking for someone to try to top you?
Posted by: Kindltot at July 20, 2024 06:06 PM (D7oie) 46
I admit I'm baffled why anybody cares about their background. The amazing thing about America is the clean slate.
Lean into it. Who cares about what went before. Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:06 PM (bFId9) 47
Yikes. Prayers up.
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:07 PM (+H2BX) 48
After the topic last week I took some time and reread the book about the family and then looked at the old photo album my mom put together. A real trip down memory lane.
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 06:07 PM (5MvGY) 49
Montenegro huh? I remember a girl in college saying that she went there and all the men were "tall, dark, and handsome."
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:07 PM (+H2BX) Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:09 PM (bFId9) 51
37 Her brothers would have been at work when the census taker came by and her heavily accented and limited English clashed with his own Irish lilt, so he wrote down his best guess at what she told him. Problem solved and a bit of humor thrown in.
Posted by: JTB at July 20, 2024 06:01 PM (zudum) *** I imagine a lot of that happened. Same with Ellis Island names and spellings. Thanks for sharing. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:10 PM (IQ6Gq) 52
Ben Had,
I hope you had a nice glass of red and some smoked meat and cheese and fruits while perusing. I bet it was lovely. Posted by: nurse ratched at July 20, 2024 06:10 PM (2n6Sf) 53
Leaving Lancaster, over hour drive home
Posted by: Skip at July 20, 2024 06:11 PM (M7fwC) 54
100 year old lies. My mom said that I was related to General Ben McCulloch. "Redoubtable frontiersman, Colonel of the Texas Rangers. Friend and neighbor of Davy Crockett." No. A guy named Joseph B. McCulloch. Where did she get that story? Aunt Sally, Joe's daughter?
My mom also said that her grandfather married an Indian (feather, not dot) princess and that I was 1/8th Indian. Cato tribe of the Choctaw nation. LOL. Complete bs. Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:11 PM (+H2BX) 55
No idea on my ancestry. I suspect Alpha Centauri.
Posted by: BeckoningChasm at July 20, 2024 06:11 PM (CHHv1) 56
53 Leaving Lancaster, over hour drive home
Posted by: Skip at July 20, 2024 06:11 PM (M7fwC) *** Happy travels Skip. Hope you had a good event. Thanks for checking in. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:12 PM (IQ6Gq) 57
Years ago, after my aunt and uncle died, my cousins were cleaning out the house. The eldest gave me a small picture frame with a photo of a "mystery ancestor" (her words). I of course, kept it....Now I have it, among others hanging on the wall because I was able to determine it is my great grandmother at about age 8 (certainly not a photograph, but a metal/tin daguerreotype) - her father died in CW1, and I don't believe he even knew his wife was expecting when he left....
Posted by: Grateful at July 20, 2024 06:12 PM (IQ6Gq) 58
I honestly don't comprehend why anybody even tries genetic percentages in Europe, it's a mix master and impossible to determine any kind of 'race'.
Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:12 PM (bFId9) 59
48 After the topic last week I took some time and reread the book about the family and then looked at the old photo album my mom put together. A real trip down memory lane.
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 06:07 PM (5MvGY) *** Happy to know that. Thank you. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:13 PM (IQ6Gq) 60
Her brothers would have been at work when the census taker came by and her heavily accented and limited English clashed with his own Irish lilt, so he wrote down his best guess at what she told him. Problem solved and a bit of humor thrown in.
Posted by: JTB at July 20, 2024 *** I imagine a lot of that happened. Same with Ellis Island names and spellings. Thanks for sharing. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 *** The story goes that when German families came to Lousy-ana, the French had no idea what they were saying. So "Zweig" (sounding like "twig") became LaBranche. Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 06:13 PM (omVj0) 61
55 No idea on my ancestry. I suspect Alpha Centauri.
Posted by: BeckoningChasm at July 20, 2024 06:11 PM (CHHv1) *** I checked out your YouTube site today. Alpha Centauri wouldn't surprise me. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:14 PM (IQ6Gq) 62
Did you know that when you become a naturalized U.S. citizen you can choose a new name? A colleague was granted citizenship and before the official swearing-in was asked if he wanted to change his name.
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:14 PM (+H2BX) 63
Congrats Wolfus!
Posted by: vmom stabby stabby stabby stabby stabamillion at July 20, 2024 *** Thanks, Vmom. This is the second story I've placed in an anthology through hearing about the editor or the press via AoSHQ. Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 06:15 PM (omVj0) 64
2 story time:
Dad's side: A guy left money to his brother's nephews. We think he was trying to leave the money to his immediate brother's children and his own children. The legal beagles looked at that and said "no", you have to take that back as far as you can to find *all* the nephews. They traced it back to sometime in the 1500s in Northern France and then forward to the '60s. Dad got a $1000 bucks. Mom's side: A women came over as an indentured servant to a robber baron. The robber baron adopted her and when he died he left her $250,000 (as near as I can tell in about 1900) if she married a catholic by the time she was 21. As she approached 21 her guardian, a widower, told her she was going to lose her inheritance if she didn't marry soon. Who could he contact for her. She said I've always loved you. They were married. On one of their 4 trips to Europe the met Madam Curie, she asked my grandmother who was pregnant at the time to name the child after her. One of my uncles. One their last return to the States as they were about to board a coach pulled up and the couple *had to onto the ship immediately*. My grandparents waited for the next ship, the Lusitania sailed and was sunk. Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 06:15 PM (JV1rp) 65
Long time historian and genealogist. Sometimes it gives you a different perspective on time and makes historical events not as long ago as they may seem. I was working on my wife's genealogy and found that her 92 year old dad's great uncle died at Andersonville prison during the Civil War. Makes things seem much closer....
I've had a bunch of interesting experiences, but the most interesting was figuring out who was my paternal grandfather. Dad was adopted and reconnected with his biological mother. She mentioned a name to him that was supposedly his biological father. I had the Ancestry DNA test done as did my mother. Dad and his biological mother have passed. In reviewing my paternal matches, I found that they were all related to one group or another (being his father's relatives or his mother's). I know some of my paternal grandmother's relatives and was able to quickly figure out which group was related to her. Looking at the posted family trees of the remaining group all linked together under two family names. Using those trees and the common elements, I was able to figure out my paternal grandfather's parents, and as a result, him. Posted by: ERF at July 20, 2024 06:16 PM (qqD/x) 66
During Ellis Island customs, many got new names only because the officers had no idea how to spell the migrant's name, because Polish or Czech or Wales. LOL
Posted by: gourmand du jour at July 20, 2024 06:17 PM (MeG8a) 67
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Hence my all time favorite immigrant joke! Guy comes before a judge after immigration, says he wants to change his name. Judge asks What is your name now? "Abraham Fucker." Judge says, "Oh my yes of course, what would you like your name to be?" "Isaac Fucker!" Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:18 PM (bFId9) 68
Someone here last week (before The News broke) said he was possibly the whitest person on the planet. I dunno, I think I'm in the running. German and a little Irish on paternal side, Swedish and Ruthenian (now part of Ukraine, I think) on the maternal.
Miss Linda bought me the Ancestry thing and has found out plenty of stuff about my parents that I never knew, and now in some cases wish I still didn't. Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 06:19 PM (omVj0) 69
My favorite Ancestor is Niall Noígíallach.
Then Edward the Black Prince then Richard the colonist Austin. Who sailed to the new world on The Bevis along with the last lady to die as a result of the Salem Witch Trials. Not from burning at the stake but in prison waiting for her appeal on her second accusation and trial by thye three little shits. Of wearing clothing not of her status. A veil of silk. My journey started as an idea for a Christmas present to my nieces and nephews of their (my side) family history. Still hasn't ended 10 years later. One side of my moms family consumed me. Which saved me from having to do one side of my dad. Posted by: Reforger at July 20, 2024 06:19 PM (xcIvR) 70
I've learned that on my father's side (Mom and Dad), the ancestors who came over from Ireland and Germany did very very well for themselves. It was the next generation of both sides that squandered it all....and subsequently none of the descendants were able to restore what was lost. Nothing we can do about it, but it is interesting to know.
Posted by: Grateful at July 20, 2024 06:20 PM (IQ6Gq) 71
Lots of family secrets.
Luckily I got dna tests on Mrs. Red’s parents before they passed. MIL clearly belongs to a different family line than the records show. And one of her sisters does not share the same father with her. Austria Hungary families came over to the coal mines of Pennsylvania. Often orphaned kids ended up with relatives. Lots of second wives after first died in childbirth. European government records didn’t make it through lots of wars, but the church records did. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 06:20 PM (2tKzk) Posted by: Joe Biden at July 20, 2024 06:20 PM (Q4IgG) 73
64 2 story time:
Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 06:15 PM (JV1rp) *** Wow. Just wow. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:21 PM (IQ6Gq) 74
AZ deplorable, what a fantastic tale. Thank you.
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 06:22 PM (5MvGY) 75
My wife's great grandmother'a first name was Alojzija (minus the diacritical marks). She became Louise.
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:24 PM (+H2BX) 76
These stories are all excellent. Apologies if I don't acknowledge each one, but wow. Thanks much for sharing. Reality often makes a better story than fiction.
Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:24 PM (IQ6Gq) 77
An addendum: the fortune evaporated in the crash of '29.
Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 06:25 PM (JV1rp) 78
I am glad this was reposted. I found my mama last week, she came over from France on the Liberte. Seeing her name was more emotional than expected.
Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 06:26 PM (aT5K/) 79
71 European government records didn’t make it through lots of wars, but the church records did.
Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 06:20 PM (2tKzk) *** We've found that, in many cases, the churches kept the records instead of governments. Not sure when that started to change, but that's probably the only reason that many records survived. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:27 PM (IQ6Gq) 80
Genealogy records can show some surprising results, odd but not consequential. In the 1930s my relatives put together a book of all the records of all the family starting in 1639 when my ancestors helped establish Quebec City and the area around it. And it was thorough using all existing records from church and municipality. That's 300 years of Catholic Quebec farmers and some loggers. Although families of 12 or more were common (with the same husband and wife) there isn't one record of still births or childhood deaths. Talk about beating the odds. I guess farming in Quebec must make for tough people.
Note: two teenage brothers went missing in the 1650s and the book notes they were kidnapped by Indians, not unheard of for the time and place. Posted by: JTB at July 20, 2024 06:27 PM (zudum) Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:27 PM (+H2BX) 82
Some people have good ancestors. My Balkan brother's father was a for real hero, a bad ass and a stand up guy. I have tons of stories of S's bravery and selflessness and they are all true.
My ancestors are criminals, weaklings, and psychopaths. I just don't have any good ancestors, the best thing any of us did was mind our own fucking business. Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:28 PM (bFId9) Posted by: JackStraw at July 20, 2024 06:28 PM (LkLld) 84
Wolff’s, I may be even more white bread than you.
Irish Scottish English back to 1066 Norman invasion. Came to Ipswich Mass in 1629. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 06:28 PM (2tKzk) 85
IMO, it's a tragedy to let the older generations disappear without recording as much detail as poss re genealogy. Tried getting my older family to help compile but apparently wasn't worth the time for them. Maybe in the next life.....
Posted by: Son of Dad at July 20, 2024 06:29 PM (8JB5s) 86
Posted by: Ben Had
Cool. We had a box of old photos, one of my sisters cut them all up and made a collage of them. Of course each photo was then without any references and a waste of paper. Sigh. Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 06:29 PM (JV1rp) 87
The first American Paco came to this country as an indentured servant in the early 18th century. His direct descendant fought in the Revolutionary War (on the winning side) and, for his service, was awarded a parcel of land in North Carolina. His direct ancestor fought in the Civil War for the side that came in second, and had the extraordinary bad luck of being captured in January of 1865 and dying in a POW camp in Elmira New York a couple of months later.
Posted by: Paco at July 20, 2024 06:29 PM (njExo) 88
That pic up on top is just mean!
Posted by: runner at July 20, 2024 06:30 PM (V13WU) 89
My sister did some sort of genealogy thing years ago. We always presumed our family was German.
Not so much. Mostly some other European trash. In the grand scheme of things it hardly matters. Posted by: Martini Farmer at July 20, 2024 06:30 PM (Q4IgG) 90
And in 1977, R2-D2 is like "WTF is camcorder and laser pointer?"
Posted by: Impudent Warwick at July 20, 2024 06:30 PM (f/6Wb) 91
LenNeal, Part of growing up is deciding what kind of person you want to be. I cannot speak for everyone here, but I admire and respect you. Be the man God wants you to be.
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:32 PM (+H2BX) 92
We are all going to find out we are related.
Posted by: Reforger at July 20, 2024 06:32 PM (xcIvR) 93
Guy with 1K kids got a big farm.
Posted by: Eromero at July 20, 2024 06:32 PM (o2ZRX) 94
I had a huge family. My mother was one of 10.
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 06:32 PM (5MvGY) 95
One of my ancestors may be Sir Bevis of Hampton. It gets sketchy that far back, to the 1300s. I've definitely got some Bevises in my tree though.
Sir Bevis was the subject of some a poem from about that time. His sword, Morglay, is hanging in the Arundel Castle in England. It's 5' 9" long. Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 06:32 PM (vFG9F) 96
85 IMO, it's a tragedy to let the older generations disappear without recording as much detail as poss re genealogy. Tried getting my older family to help compile but apparently wasn't worth the time for them. Maybe in the next life.....
Posted by: Son of Dad at July 20, 2024 06:29 PM (8JB5s) *** This is a brutal truth. Family history isn't as important to the young. When we're older and take an interest in such things, the generations that came before are gone or going. What we wouldn't give for an hour to ask questions of our elders. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:33 PM (IQ6Gq) 97
My Mexican friend/brother, you all should meet this guy he knows his entire family history almost back to Cortes. He talks about it all the time when I'm there, boring as fuck.
Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:33 PM (bFId9) 98
Ran out of room on 65
Turns out his father wasn't who she said, but another teenager who lived on the next farm. It was 1944 and they were both teens. Don't think he ever knew, but she was shipped away until she had the baby. He did end up with a broken arm from "messing around in a barn and fell' as I found in the newspaper articles at that time, oddly enough..... Posted by: ERF at July 20, 2024 06:34 PM (qqD/x) 99
Seeing her name was more emotional than expected.
Posted by: Piper That's very cool Piper. Congrats. Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 06:34 PM (JV1rp) 100
My sister wanted me to do a DNA test. We found out what we already knew. We are the descendants of English immigrants.
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:35 PM (+H2BX) 101
95 One of my ancestors may be Sir Bevis of Hampton.
Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 06:32 PM (vFG9F) *** I read this as "Sir Beavis" the first time through. Heh, heh, heh... Sorry/not sorry. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:35 PM (IQ6Gq) 102
My paternal grandma (MorMor, even tho she should have been DagMor to me) came from Copenhagen thru Ellis Island with her parents and 5 siblings when she was 2. I have the manifest and rendering of their ship . It's pretty amazing.
I also know some of my birth parents genealogy thru my kids doing Ancestry. I watch from a distance but it's an interesting connection, too. Posted by: LASue at July 20, 2024 06:36 PM (Kcw7x) 103
One of my ancestors may be Sir Bevis of Hampton. It gets sketchy that far back, to the 1300s. I've definitely got some Bevises in my tree though.
Sir Bevis was the subject of some a poem from about that time. His sword, Morglay, is hanging in the Arundel Castle in England. It's 5' 9" long. == Close enough ! Go over and claim it ! Posted by: runner at July 20, 2024 06:36 PM (V13WU) 104
Arturo in Mexico:
"So then me Great great grandfather Pablo went to Oaxaca, and then-" Me: Eyeroll, much alcohol consumption Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:36 PM (bFId9) 105
I’m in the minority in that I have no desire to research my family tree. You think I would as an only child that was raised 1500 miles from any relatives other than my mother and father. I have at least 20 first cousins that I’ve never met.
Posted by: polynikes at July 20, 2024 06:36 PM (B1dzx) 106
Yes, TRex, thank goodness for the church records. They even noted if the child was legitimate or not.
I think the best reason i do this is to realize how much we have in common regardless of heritage. The number of dirt poor immigrants from Europe who came over very often made good in that generation or the next. America was THE place to go. And even though I see all sorts of polish ,Ukrainian, etc. social clubs in the records, theyvery much realized that this was their country. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 06:37 PM (2tKzk) 107
Here is a link about my great great great grandfather, William Hedges https://tinyurl.com/ywvr96kc
Anyone shocked or surprised? 😂🤣 Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 06:37 PM (p4NUW) 108
."I was working on my wife's genealogy and found that her 92 year old dad's great uncle died at Andersonville prison during the Civil War. Makes things seem much closer..."
Wow, it sure does. I was looking at some property not 5 miles from there recently. One of my sisters is buried at Andersonville, and my parents will be. Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 06:37 PM (vFG9F) 109
My son recently got the Genealogy bug. He researched my grandfather and found interesting things. You ever take a girl out to watch a submarine race?
LOL. My grandfather won a submarine race. Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:37 PM (+H2BX) Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:38 PM (+H2BX) 111
There is a very large national cemetery at Andersonville in addition to the Civil War era graves.
Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 06:38 PM (vFG9F) 112
There was a standard migration pattern. VA-NC-SC-GA-AL-MS-AR-TX
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:53 PM (+H2BX) Take the first two and the last two and that was us. Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 06:38 PM (0eaVi) 113
IMO, it's a tragedy to let the older generations disappear without recording as much detail as poss re genealogy ***************
Agreed, but have to have an older relative who is willing. I couldn't trust anything my mother told me, she just made up stuff (recent research has confirmed all the stories as fantasy). If my father didn't remember the person, it just didn't mean anything to him. I recall trying to learn about Dad's fathers mother - my father insisted he never met the woman, knew nothing about her. BUT, when I was able to determine her name was Margaret, and told him, he seemed to zone out (I was concerned it was a medical event), yet he came out of it saying "Marcie." Seems he then recalled a little woman all dressed in black and Marcie was what everyone called her. That was a true gift. Posted by: Grateful at July 20, 2024 06:38 PM (IQ6Gq) 114
What we wouldn't give for an hour to ask questions of our elders.
Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:33 PM (IQ6Gq) Hear, hear! Boy, I wish I had listened harder when I was a child. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 06:38 PM (2tKzk) 115
78 Piper 🙂
Posted by: Bulgaroctonus at July 20, 2024 06:39 PM (v6JzV) 116
Then of course there was the OKLA-CA in the 1930s
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 05:54 PM (+H2BX) Us too. Except the 40s for war work. Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 06:40 PM (0eaVi) 117
"read this as "Sir Beavis" the first time through. Heh, heh, heh... Sorry/not sorry.
Posted by: TRex" Bevis and Butthead are hilariously stupid. I may actually be related. Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 06:40 PM (vFG9F) 118
Paco, my great great GranPappy was old when he enlisted in S.C. Militia. Same tiime as his son joined Second S.C Artillary GGP was captured in the low country and died at Elmira. His son fought on and survived to become my GreatGranPappy.
Posted by: Eromero at July 20, 2024 06:40 PM (o2ZRX) 119
I am theoretically half Slovak, quarter Irish, and quarter Polish.
My sister is theoretically Swedish, English and Polish. My parents are Croatian/Slovenian. My grandparents came from the old country about 100 years ago. Of course, I have no clue who my biological parents are, since Sis and I were adopted. Posted by: Deplorable Ian Galt at July 20, 2024 06:41 PM (ufFY8) 120
My mother grew up in western Canada -- Alberta or Sask., in a little hamlet that is still there. When she was twelve her father quit the railroad where he worked and they moved down to Florida, near Orlando. A big change in climate and everything. I'd always thought she was born in 1916; a snippet in a local paper she'd kept for years about the burglar who broke in to her apartment in 1946 said she was a 30-year-old nurse. But according to what Miss Linda has found, she was born in '15.
My father was also a year older than she'd told me, born in '06 instead of '07. I think he was born somewhere up the Miss. River from the city, and they moved down here when he was small. Until he was about fifteen they lived in the uptown area; then his father bought a rooming house not far from what is now part of the big medical complex outside the central business district. The rooming house is now an upscale apartment building. A newspaper item we found stated he was in a car accident when he was about twenty, flipped a Model T he was driving with some friends in it. (Nobody was injured, apparently.) I guess that's why he hated to drive over 30 mph. Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 06:42 PM (omVj0) 121
I do have a sweet Mexican story. My Mexican brothers grandparents eloped at 17 him and 16 her, and had to hide at a relatives house who was kind of like Yeah, Heart wants what it wants. So they bribed a priest to marry them, but horrors, nobody thought of a ring in all the commotion so Arturos grandfather took his last coins and ran to an ironmonger down the street and bought a threaded nut.
He brought it back to the church and they had to swap it back and forth to finalize the ceremony. Arturos grandmother insisted on being buried with that nut. Of course her husband bought her a much nicer gold ring but to her, she always kept it. Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:44 PM (bFId9) 122
One of our kids did a dna test for genealogy's and we did get a surprise - found out my grandpa was Jewish.
Posted by: vmom stabby stabby stabby stabby stabamillion at July 20, 2024 05:56 PM (Ka3bZ) so is most of the Spanish nobility. I wouldn't give it much concern. Posted by: Kindltot at July 20, 2024 06:04 PM (D7oie) We have quite a few "Jewish" family names, but as far as I can tell, no one was. Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 06:44 PM (0eaVi) 123
These stories are all excellent. Apologies if I don't acknowledge each one, but wow. Thanks much for sharing. Reality often makes a better story than fiction.
Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:24 PM (IQ6Gq) Im convinced every living person, no matter how mundane their lives appear, could have an interesting movie made about them and their family history. Particularly Americans. Plus, if we go back far enough, we're all related, which makes it extra interesting. Posted by: LASue at July 20, 2024 06:45 PM (Kcw7x) 124
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The Lusitania, wow! The father of one of my schoolmates in Nairobi (1960s) was a sailor in WW2. The batt;eship HMS Hood. When the fleet sailed to chase the Bismarck, he was in hospital with a broken leg. For those who don't know, HMS Hood was hit by Bismarck's second salvo, exploded and sunk in a few minutes. IIRC there were 3 survivors out of over 1400 sailors. Posted by: Ciampino - Crazy Casa of Cats #16 at July 20, 2024 06:45 PM (qfLjt) 125
One of the biggest kicks I get is comparing family lore to real life.
Mrs. Red’s Great Grandparents were supposedly a few years apart in age. Yeah. When they got married, he was 28 and she was 15. Cute little thing, too. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 06:46 PM (2tKzk) 126
Very large Croatian community out there
I will have to try and check that area to see if my surname exists out there. My home area (Gary, IN) has a large Croatian community also. I haver never seen my surname outside of my area. Posted by: Deplorable Ian Galt at July 20, 2024 06:46 PM (ufFY8) 127
My wife sent some of my saliva in to get it analyzed.
I'm basically a Viking with some neanderthal thrown in. Posted by: gourmand du jour at July 20, 2024 06:46 PM (MeG8a) 128
What we wouldn't give for an hour to ask questions of our elders.
Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:33 PM (IQ6Gq) Hear, hear! Boy, I wish I had listened harder when I was a child. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 *** I listened, but I didn't ask enough of the right questions. I'd have wanted to know what movies my mother went to see, what she liked and didn't (I know she liked Clark Gable); what the downtown part of NO looked like; what day-to-day life was like. She didn't know or care about cars, so I wouldn't have been able to ask about those. Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 06:46 PM (omVj0) 129
My grampa lied about his age to get into Annapolis. He was 15 when you needed to be 16. When he died, the insurance company didn't want to payout because they thought that he lied on the application for insurance.
My dad showed them his birth cert., which had the birthdate of his father which matched the life insurance co. They paid the benefit. Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:46 PM (+H2BX) 130
I was born in the same hospital as my dad's grandmother in Germany. Other part of that stream came from Poland. Mother's side is mix of German and Swiss.
Posted by: JackStraw at July 20, 2024 06:46 PM (LkLld) 131
I admit I'm baffled why anybody cares about their background. The amazing thing about America is the clean slate.
Lean into it. Who cares about what went before. Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:06 PM (bFId9) You're right, of course. I used to be interested, but, now I'm not really. I only care about the relatives I knew. The X times grandfather buried in Durham England never knew me, so it doesn't really matter that we're related. Everyone's related to each other, if some old book is to be believed. Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 06:47 PM (0eaVi) 132
Sir Bevis was the subject of some a poem from about that time. His sword, Morglay, is hanging in the Arundel Castle in England. It's 5' 9" long.
Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 06:32 PM (vFG9F) I found him looking for the source of the Bevis name on Richard Dummers ship. The Bevis. Posted by: Reforger at July 20, 2024 06:47 PM (xcIvR) 133
Wife is East African, pretty normal stuff. My Puritan dad is buried in a cemetery with my mom's German family in Clarence, NY, just outside Buffalo.
Posted by: Jamaica at July 20, 2024 06:47 PM (IG7T0) 134
My mom also said that her grandfather married an Indian (feather, not dot) princess and that I was 1/8th Indian. Cato tribe of the Choctaw nation. LOL. Complete bs.
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20 Ha! Your first clue was Princess. There were no Native American Princesses. I will say there are probably more descendants than we realize, only because you aren’t considered Native American unless you can find your ancestor on the Dawes Roll, and this didn’t include every tribe out there. Just the bigger ones. To get a tribe card, you have to be a provable percentage, and the Tribes very on what that percentage is. They don’t take dna as proof. The reason for that is there isn’t a lot of Native American participants, so matching is hard. You will show Native American, which is recent, but not specific tribes. Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 06:49 PM (pZEOD) 135
What we wouldn't give for an hour to ask questions of our elders.
Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:33 PM (IQ6Gq) Hear, hear! Boy, I wish I had listened harder when I was a child. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 06:38 PM (2tKzk) When my mom was 92, on the spur of the moment when I was visiting I sat down with her and my laptop and asked to interview her. I just asked her questions about the stories I had heard forever when I was growing up, but just took for granted and didn't really think about. Afterwards, I printed out what I had written and she edited it, adding a few details (and correcting some of my grammar!) . She died the following year, and I cherish that written memorial. Posted by: LASue at July 20, 2024 06:49 PM (Kcw7x) 136
16 ... Wolfus,
Congrats on the story being published. Just ordered a copy. Pipe tobacco note. Seattle Pipe Club has a new limited release: Hogshead. (There have been earlier versions.) This year it features aged Virginias of various types, aged in bourbon barrels and pressed into a crumble cake. I've only tried one bowlful so far but it is damn good. Slow burning with lots of flavor and some natural sweetness. It's pretty expensive but if you like Virginia tobacco it might be worth a try. The official release date is next Tuesday but my local tobacconist got some in this morning and gave me a heads up. Posted by: JTB at July 20, 2024 06:50 PM (zudum) 137
"What we wouldn't give for an hour to ask questions of our elders."
What makes you think that they would tell the truth? "Don't let the truth get in the way of a good story." - my Dad Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:51 PM (+H2BX) 138
"found him looking for the source of the Bevis name on Richard Dummers ship. The Bevis.
Posted by: Reforger" Yep. Puritan ship I think. I don't know if any of my ancestors were on it but I've heard of the ship. Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 06:51 PM (vFG9F) 139
LASue, that is a heart memory for sure
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 06:51 PM (5MvGY) 140
120 Until he was about fifteen they lived in the uptown area; then his father bought a rooming house not far from what is now part of the big medical complex outside the central business district. The rooming house is now an upscale apartment building.
Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 06:42 PM (omVj0) *** This is another angle of family history I find fascinating. It doesn't resonate with everyone, but standing on the ground that an ancestor trod a century or more ago makes the multi-generation journey a little more tangible. Yes, buildings change and disappear, and fields can become forests and visa versa, but still... Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 06:51 PM (IQ6Gq) 141
Orange Ent, the way I look at it, each of those ancestors is precious to me. Without them, I’m not here.
I don’t know them from Adam, yet each had a life that could be a movie, as noted above. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 06:51 PM (2tKzk) 142
There probably have been dozens of books written about my family genealogy going back to my multiple great gramps Johannes.
Posted by: Northernlurker , wondering where his phone is at July 20, 2024 06:52 PM (JLq/1) 143
In the Balkan Wars guys declared me Swedish. German was verboten.
Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:53 PM (bFId9) 144
To get a tribe card, you have to be a provable percentage, and the Tribes very on what that percentage is. They don’t take dna as proof. The reason for that is there isn’t a lot of Native American participants, so matching is hard. You will show Native American, which is recent, but not specific tribes.
Posted by: Piper I've got the card. Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 06:53 PM (JV1rp) 145
I think one person each generation gets assigned to be the keeper of the memories, and in my family, both sides, that was me. I'm the one with my grandfather's Shakespeare, and a great-great-etc. grandfather's wood needles from mending sails on a whaling ship, and the stool my grandfather built for my grandmother to sit on when she talked on the phone, and the child-size kitchen cupboard, and the horseshoe re-purposed as a mezzaluma.
Oh, and the sapphires. Posted by: Wenda at July 20, 2024 06:53 PM (ryt6Q) 146
I printed out what I had written and she edited it, adding a few details (and correcting some of my grammar!) . She died the following year, and I cherish that written memorial.
Posted by: LASue You're a lucky woman. Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 06:54 PM (JV1rp) 147
I printed out what I had written and she edited it, adding a few details (and correcting some of my grammar!) . She died the following year, and I cherish that written memorial.
Posted by: LASue I love this! Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 06:55 PM (p4NUW) 148
Watching Trump in Michigan. bye
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 06:55 PM (+H2BX) 149
TRex, very true, My grandmother 's brother lived in the apartment above the Nspa Valley Olive Oil Company and they still remember him to this day.
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 06:56 PM (5MvGY) Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 06:56 PM (p4NUW) 151
I admit I respect the house I reside in now, it was an original homestead of this subdivision back in 1846. I have all the paperwork. It's entirely hand-built over many years.
However nothing in it is straight or square... Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:56 PM (bFId9) 152
@61 - lol, thank you. I appreciate the views.
Posted by: BeckoningChasm at July 20, 2024 06:56 PM (CHHv1) 153
LASue, that is a heart memory for sure
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 06:51 PM (5MvGY) Definitely!. It's one of the 5 things I would grab in a fire. I urge any Moron lucky enough to still have a living parent or even another elder relative to take a few hours and try it. I guarantee it will be a treasure for you and your family. Posted by: LASue at July 20, 2024 06:57 PM (Kcw7x) 154
I listened, but I didn't ask enough of the right questions. I'd have wanted to know what movies my mother went to see, what she liked and didn't (I know she liked Clark Gable); what the downtown part of NO looked like; what day-to-day life was like. She didn't know or care about cars, so I wouldn't have been able to ask about those.
Posted by: Wolfus Aurelius, Dreaming of Elsewhere at July 20, 2024 06:46 PM (omVj0) Lots of stuff like that. Knew my maternal gma liked Louise Brooks, because she took Louise as her middle name. They didn't have middle names at the time she was born. Also knew Will Rogers in Claremore. Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 06:58 PM (0eaVi) 155
151 I admit I respect the house I reside in now, it was an original homestead of this subdivision back in 1846. I have all the paperwork. It's entirely hand-built over many years.
However nothing in it is straight or square... Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 Wait….you aren’t my exhusband, are you? Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 06:59 PM (p4NUW) 156
My fathers father was a devoid Catholic descending from presumed German-derived day laborers who ended up in Illinois.
His first wife, a French girl he met in France during WWI, was in the Ellis Island database. She arrived in America at 16 years old. He got another wife, then his third and fourth wife was my grandma, who divorced him for cheating with a neighbor girl, then remarried him. After that he went back to his second wife. Who I met just before she died, and she told me he was a jerk and a bad man with anger issues. He left my father and his two sisters fatherless and destitute in the Great Depression. That my Father became the greatest man I have ever known is proof of having a goal and working towards it. Posted by: NaCly Dog at July 20, 2024 06:59 PM (u82oZ) 157
You're a lucky woman.
Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 06:54 PM (JV1rp) Truly, beyond measure. Posted by: LASue at July 20, 2024 06:59 PM (Kcw7x) Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 07:01 PM (JV1rp) 159
Lots of stuff like that. Knew my maternal gma liked Louise Brooks, because she took Louise as her middle name. They didn't have middle names at the time she was born. Also knew Will Rogers in Claremore.
Posted by: OrangeEnt at July That is my middle name, after my Great Grandmother on my mom’s side. I always wanted the French pronunciation to be exotic. But nope. It’s Lu eze . Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 07:02 PM (p4NUW) 160
I became the weird family great uncle a few weeks ago, when I waxed prolifically to some of my great nephews and nieces about family history and stuff they never knew.
My sister says they loved it, but she could be stretching the truth. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 07:02 PM (2tKzk) 161
Orange Ent, the way I look at it, each of those ancestors is precious to me. Without them, I’m not here.
I don’t know them from Adam, yet each had a life that could be a movie, as noted above. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 06:51 PM (2tKzk) Sure, but when that X times gpa was put in the ground in 1577, he had no idea the next gen was going to come to America. He couldn't conceive what was to come, and I can't conceive what his life was in rural late renaissance Britain. Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 07:03 PM (0eaVi) 162
I do have to say that since most all of my family has passed on I am thankful for my family here on this community
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 07:03 PM (5MvGY) 163
158 Ojibwe (aka Chippewa).
Posted by: AZ deplorable moron Pawnee, the Oklahoma ones who ended up in Texas. Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 07:03 PM (p4NUW) 164
I checked seems Piper is allergic to stings. This can happen as well later in life, and one of the more... telling moments of my own life was doing utility disconnects and finding a 23 year old mother of two dead in the bathroom and her terrified daughter alone with an infant for 3 days. Turns out nobody in the family really communicated that a shellfish allergy could kick in, in early 20s. Girl went on a seafood date, died in front of her petrified child. So Yes, it can happen.
But I'm not structuring my life around it. Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 07:03 PM (bFId9) 165
Yep. Puritan ship I think. I don't know if any of my ancestors were on it but I've heard of the ship.
Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 06:51 PM (vFG9F) Yep. The manifest is on line as well as a lot of other info on those people. Carpenter, Rehoboth, Dummar and Austin and subsequent indentured servants. There is a book in that story. Chased out of England at the begining of the disolusion of the monestaries. Posted by: Reforger at July 20, 2024 07:03 PM (xcIvR) 166
Other hobbies topic.
Turns out there is a small art gallery/cooperative in town, mostly artists in the Northern Virginia/Maryland area. I was pleasantly surprised at the quality and diversity of styles and topics. And I got to talk to a couple of the artists about why they are attracted to certain subjects, styles and techniques. And I could get within inches of the paintings. It was a very enjoyable and revealing visit. Posted by: JTB at July 20, 2024 07:04 PM (zudum) 167
162 I do have to say that since most all of my family has passed on I am thankful for my family here on this community
Posted by: Ben Had at July And we are lucky ducks to have you. You are an absolute gem. Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 07:04 PM (p4NUW) 168
Posted by: NaCly Dog at July 20, 2024 06:59 PM (u82oZ)
Depends on the person. Some guys emulate rotten fathers and become even worse lowlife shitheels. Others look around and see neighbors with good families succeeding, look at their own dads, and say "ok, now I know what you *don't do*." Posted by: Yudhishthira's Dice at July 20, 2024 07:05 PM (0FoWg) 169
I took my family to the Celebration Of Life picnic and in no uncertain terms told all the family there is an undiagnosed seafood allergy and to keep an eye on the kids.
Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 07:05 PM (bFId9) 170
To get a tribe card, you have to be a provable percentage, and the Tribes very on what that percentage is. They don’t take dna as proof. The reason for that is there isn’t a lot of Native American participants, so matching is hard. You will show Native American, which is recent, but not specific tribes.
Posted by: Piper I've got the card. Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 06:53 PM (JV1rp) I have the letter my paternal gma's family sent to the Chickasaw tribe in 1910 asking to be enrolled. I don't know what happened, but I wrote to the tribe during the Fauci Fakery, and they never responded. So, I don't know how much native, if any, my gma was. Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 07:06 PM (0eaVi) 171
BotherInLaw did all this research. Turns out some GreatGreatGrandA was Alsatian. In one of the stretches when it was French. So much for the 1/2 German 1/2 Irish jokes.
Ve haff vays of making you drink. Posted by: DaveA at July 20, 2024 07:06 PM (FhXTo) 172
150 144
I've got the card. Posted by: AZ deplorable Me too! What tribe? Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 06:56 PM (p4NUW) I havecall the paperwork together to get my granddaughter's tribal card. Her dad has membership in the Lumbee tribe in NC. Posted by: Redbanzai at July 20, 2024 07:06 PM (JOR6L) 173
Orange Ent, but that’s the fascinating part. I have no idea who my descendants will be, but when they look backon me, they might understand a connection.
Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 07:07 PM (2tKzk) 174
I do have to say that since most all of my family has passed on I am thankful for my family here on this community
Posted by: Ben Had It is a great community and you're a great part of it! Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 07:07 PM (JV1rp) 175
I will never know my full ancestry until prison records are digitized.
Posted by: NaCly Dog at July 20, 2024 07:07 PM (u82oZ) 176
That is my middle name, after my Great Grandmother on my mom’s side. I always wanted the French pronunciation to be exotic. But nope. It’s Lu eze .
Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 07:02 PM (p4NUW) That's how she said it. Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 07:08 PM (0eaVi) 177
Ancestry.com? Best thing since sliced bread.
I had a family tree drawn up based on the best recollections of everyone I could talk to, but there were noticeable holes, especially with respect to my father's mothers grandmothers. Also, my dad swore up and down we had French and Indian ancestry, but no details to back it up. On my mother's side, well, her father was nearly a full-blooded Englishman but her mother was half Swede and was born in Pennsylvania. So, off to the races. Thanks to DNA testing and figuring out how folks anglicized various foreign surnames, I figured out the 2nd great grandmothers on dad's side (Speidel and Nixon) and the origin of the French/Indian stuff (french-canadien Gregoire dit Nantais and Ojibwa Indian, plus an Acadian Blanchard). Mom's mom turned out to be Pennsylvania Dutch in her unknown half and seems to be related to everyone in Westmoreland and Venango Counties. Last but not least, I assumed most of my ancestors immigrated directly to the U.S. Wrong. A goodly chunk of them landed in Canada first and then decided the U.S. was a better place to be. Heh. Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy at July 20, 2024 07:09 PM (/HDaX) 178
birth cert.,
I've an actual Cook County BC. Notarized, foot print, Mom & Dad signatures. May already have doubled as voter registration. Posted by: DaveA at July 20, 2024 07:09 PM (FhXTo) 179
there is an undiagnosed seafood allergy and to keep an eye on the kids.
Posted by: LenNeal Get an epi pen and carry it to those types of events. Posted by: AZ deplorable moron at July 20, 2024 07:09 PM (JV1rp) 180
Congresswoman Sheila Jackson Lee is dead. Now we'll NEVER get those U S flags left behind by Apollo astronauts returned to us by the Mars rovers! Posted by: Our Slope-Averse Secret Service at July 20, 2024 07:10 PM (xG4kz) 181
118. Paco, my great great GranPappy was old when he enlisted in S.C. Militia. Same tiime as his son joined Second S.C Artillary GGP was captured in the low country and died at Elmira. His son fought on and survived to become my GreatGranPappy.- Eromero
How about that! My great-great-great grandfather Solomon fought for a North Carolina outfit (I don't have the info right at hand) and died of amebic dysentery - the fate, I imagine, of many, if not most, prisoners at Elmira. Posted by: Paco at July 20, 2024 07:10 PM (njExo) 182
Orange Ent, but that’s the fascinating part. I have no idea who my descendants will be, but when they look backon me, they might understand a connection.
Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 07:07 PM (2tKzk) Nothing wrong with that. I just wouldn't want anyone to know I was hanged as a horse thief.... Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 07:11 PM (0eaVi) 183
175 I will never know my full ancestry until prison records are digitized.
Posted by: NaCly Dog at July 20, 2024 07:07 PM (u82oZ) Salty, they already are. I’ve seen a number of brushes with the law in my ancestry research. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 07:12 PM (2tKzk) 184
{{{Ben Had}}}
🍹 🍹 🍹 Your heart is so big; we are all part of your extended family. I would use your example as a parable on getting out of life what you put into life. Because you Rock! Posted by: NaCly Dog at July 20, 2024 07:12 PM (u82oZ) Posted by: NaCly Dog at July 20, 2024 07:13 PM (u82oZ) 186
I have the letter my paternal gma's family sent to the Chickasaw tribe in 1910 asking to be enrolled. I don't know what happened, but I wrote to the tribe during the Fauci Fakery, and they never responded. So, I don't know how much native, if any, my gma was.
Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20 Chickasaw are on the Dawes roll. You can look it up on archives.gov. Once you have that, you need to go to the Chickasaw Nation website with your Certificate Degree of Indian Blood, and then fill out the application with all the supporting documentation showing your lineal relationship to the person on the Dawes Roll. Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 07:13 PM (p4NUW) 187
I'm back. I caught the last ten minutes of his speech.
So much for kindness. He is back to bashing Joe Biden. "I cannot spare the man. He fights." Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 07:14 PM (+H2BX) 188
Salty, they already are. I’ve seen a number of brushes with the law in my ancestry research.
Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 07:12 PM (2tKzk) Same here. On my dad's side, one relative got shot dead as a San Joaquin river pirate. Another got jailed as a San Francisco madam. Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy at July 20, 2024 07:14 PM (/HDaX) 189
Last but not least, I assumed most of my ancestors immigrated directly to the U.S. Wrong. A goodly chunk of them landed in Canada first and then decided the U.S. was a better place to be. Heh. Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy Did they a tually pause and live in Canada, or were they simply passing through? On my maternal side, one family from Norway entered North America at Quebec City in late 1869 and moved on to Chicago, IL. Which burned down about eleven months after they arrived (they did not own a cow). Posted by: Our Slope-Averse Secret Service at July 20, 2024 07:15 PM (xG4kz) 190
NaCly, dearest. You are so kind.
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 07:15 PM (5MvGY) 191
On the family lore side, one ancestor was an Irish horse thief who got out of town quickly.
No records of this. Yet. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 07:16 PM (2tKzk) 192
Ben Had,
I'm in the same boat...some cousins left, but everyone else in my biological family has passed. But I, like you, cherish the family we make on this earth. And that most definitely includes you and this Horde Posted by: Grateful at July 20, 2024 07:16 PM (IQ6Gq) Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 07:18 PM (p4NUW) 194
Grateful, I am so looking forward to seeing you both again. I long ago said the MoMe is a family reunion
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 07:19 PM (5MvGY) 195
Suicide by firearm, prison sentences, and murdered by having been stabbed to death are among the unsavory modes of expiring among my preceding family members (or their close relations). Posted by: Our Slope-Averse Secret Service at July 20, 2024 07:19 PM (xG4kz) 196
Best ancestry story:
I found a 1911 newspaper article where both of Mrs. Red’s GGPs died within a few months of each other. An “uncle” (actually a distant cousin) kidnapped the 8 kids and took them home. $2,000 of life insurance money was at stake. Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 07:19 PM (2tKzk) 197
My Mother was born in Sweden and came over as a Child and went to Ellis Island.. yeah.. I'm that old..So 50 % Swedish/ Norwegian.. My father was more of a mutt.. Mostly English/ Irish... My Great grand dad was born in South Carolina and moved to Texas where he was a cattle baron.. Ran the largest cattle drive on the Chisolm trail.... He was even mentioned in the John Wayne movie The Cowboys... No other claims to fame
Posted by: It's me donna at July 20, 2024 07:20 PM (IyPmt) 198
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Ben Had, I'm bringing a bottle of the red stuff and we will toast! Posted by: Grateful at July 20, 2024 07:20 PM (IQ6Gq) 199
We-- hubby & me-- are the 'end of the line'. I have no children; hubby & his XW couldn't have their own, so adopted one son. He's gay.
No sense in researching, here. Posted by: JQ at July 20, 2024 07:20 PM (njWTi) Posted by: Talking Heads at July 20, 2024 07:20 PM (8sMut) 201
177 Mom's mom turned out to be Pennsylvania Dutch in her unknown half and seems to be related to everyone in Westmoreland and Venango Counties.
Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy at July 20, 2024 07:09 PM (/HDaX) *** Hmmm... I have Westmoreland, PA blood starting in the late 1790s. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 07:21 PM (IQ6Gq) 202
Genealogy.
To the early 1700's. I quit when I found one that was given hard labor for stealing a pint of gooseberries. I don't tell the kids about him, though I suppose it might be an object lesson regarding bad behavior. One I was quite pleased with, who was called before a Parliamentary Committee to answer for vote-buying. To the extent to which he was in opposition to none other than Anthony Trollope (a Liberal), I'm not too disturbed. One escaped hanging in the aftermath of the Monmouth Rebellion, but was shipped to Barbados as a bond slave. His son immigrated to Charleston, and here I am. Posted by: Mike Hammer, etc., etc. at July 20, 2024 07:22 PM (XeU6L) Posted by: NaCly Dog at July 20, 2024 07:22 PM (u82oZ) 204
My Great grand dad was born in South Carolina and moved to Texas where he was a cattle baron.. Ran the largest cattle drive on the Chisolm trail.... He was even mentioned in the John Wayne movie The Cowboys... No other claims to fame
Posted by: It's me donna at July 20, 2024 07:20 PM (IyPmt) You don't need another claim to fame- That one is incredible Posted by: LASue at July 20, 2024 07:22 PM (Kcw7x) 205
Even better: he farmed out the youngsters to relatives and kept the older ones to work in mine related activities in Scranton and kept most of their paychecks.
Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 07:23 PM (2tKzk) 206
I am the youngest of 8. I learned that it was great. So many personalities. Sweethearts, assholes. The biggest asshole, one of my brothers, has turned out to be a huge sweetheart in his old age. LOL
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 07:23 PM (+H2BX) 207
Way out on my family tree is Faye Dunaway. I've never met her and she would have no idea who I was unless you mentioned Two Egg, Florida.
Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 07:23 PM (vFG9F) 208
We weren't too interested in family history at first because we thought all eight great grandparents were the immigrants. Turns out yes and no. Six were, a seventh was the son of immigrants but the eighth turned out to have a mother from a New England colonial family. Was a surprise. It was also interesting to find out which stories were true after all. Yes, a great grandparent was Jewish, but no, there is no Scottish ancestry anywhere.
Posted by: Lirio100 at July 20, 2024 07:23 PM (I5U35) 209
I am doing my genealogical research wholly by examining digitized records -- no DNA testing of this kid, nosiree! Now, if someone shows up in my tree who happened to run a DNA test, I will follow them and where their research leads, but I will locate the paper records that document who was who and what was what. Posted by: Our Slope-Averse Secret Service at July 20, 2024 07:23 PM (xG4kz) 210
Time to say thanks before the next act takes the stage. There are two types of families - those of blood and those of choice. I'm glad that y'all have made the horde a family of choice.
Thanks to all for sharing your stories. This has been fun. I'm still waiting for disparate hordelings to find out that they're related though. Tune in next week and we'll do a hobby thread with a different theme. Thanks for being here. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 07:24 PM (IQ6Gq) 211
Hey! I am the descendant of General Ben McCulloch!
Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 07:24 PM (+H2BX) 212
Did they a tually pause and live in Canada, or were they simply passing through?
On my maternal side, one family from Norway entered North America at Quebec City in late 1869 and moved on to Chicago, IL. Which burned down about eleven months after they arrived (they did not own a cow). Posted by: Our Slope-Averse Secret Service at July 20, 2024 07:15 PM (xG4kz) Naw, most of them stayed a spell. On my mother's Kingsford side. my 3rd ggrandfather left Kent, England and emigrated to Norwich, Ontario. His son Alfred was born there but eventually emigrated to Michigan. On my father's side, well, they crossed the border between Quebec/Ontario and Michigan/New England states like it wasn't there. Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy at July 20, 2024 07:25 PM (/HDaX) 213
My ex-m.i.l. was mormon. She volunteered for several months of the year, doing "temple work" including standing proxy during rites for the dead... It seems very strange to me, but I'm not LDS.
Posted by: JQ at July 20, 2024 07:25 PM (njWTi) 214
Chickasaw are on the Dawes roll. You can look it up on archives.gov. Once you have that, you need to go to the Chickasaw Nation website with your Certificate Degree of Indian Blood, and then fill out the application with all the supporting documentation showing your lineal relationship to the person on the Dawes Roll.
Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 07:13 PM (p4NUW) Thanks. Some of the names are hard to read. I know my gma's name, but her birthday is wrong in the letter. I'm not sure I have any info on the others in the family. Wasn't expecting to get membership, as I told the tribe in my letter, just wondering if it was true about the Indian blood. Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 07:25 PM (0eaVi) 215
TRex, Thank you so much. You are doing a wonderful job with making this thread so much fun.
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 07:25 PM (5MvGY) 216
My grandparents and great grandparents on my mom's side were all Russian Jews and Litvaks, such as the distinction existed.
My dad's mom was a Scots-Irish mutt with some Indian blood in the mix, so that's all pretty murky. His dad was a Great Russian, but nothing is known of that branch as he was the only who wasn't shot by fucking Communists. Happened to be out of the country in Egypt when everything went to shit. Posted by: Yudhishthira's Dice at July 20, 2024 07:26 PM (0FoWg) 217
Hmmm... I have Westmoreland, PA blood starting in the late 1790s.
We may well be related. Any hints on the long ago surname? Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy at July 20, 2024 07:26 PM (/HDaX) 218
There are brave, very brave men and women. There are cowards, scaliwags, pirates, and Methodists.
LOL I pray for them all. Yes. I am Catholic and I pray for the dead. Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 07:26 PM (+H2BX) 219
Way out on my family tree is Faye Dunaway. I've never met her and she would have no idea who I was unless you mentioned Two Egg, Florida.
Posted by: fd -------- Bette Davis is a traceble cousin of mine. I'll trade her for Faye. Posted by: Mike Hammer, etc., etc. at July 20, 2024 07:27 PM (XeU6L) 220
217 Hmmm... I have Westmoreland, PA blood starting in the late 1790s.
We may well be related. Any hints on the long ago surname? Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy at July 20, 2024 07:26 PM (/HDaX) *** My email is on the nic hyperlink. Send me a note. Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 07:27 PM (IQ6Gq) 221
One of the things I did while researching ancestry id deviate from paternal and try the maternal of each person. That led me into insanity.
The frigging Green Knight? Robin Hood? Naill of the nine hostages? Satan himself? C'mon.. but it is on the internet. I actually started this journey a long time ago trying to chase down my wife's family in England using the LDS site before they locked it down and became Ancestry.com. We, at the time thought her birth mom was dead as she had been told all her life. Turns out she wasn't and was looking for my wife too. Found her through a messagge board on Yahoo. That is a long frigging story worthy of a TV eppisode. Posted by: Reforger at July 20, 2024 07:28 PM (xcIvR) 222
Bette Davis is a traceble cousin of mine...
Posted by: Mike Hammer, etc., etc -------- Do you have her eyes? Posted by: JQ at July 20, 2024 07:28 PM (njWTi) 223
So weird that I have a German mother, whose first language was German, who spoke German fluently up until the time I was born, who has a last name that is clearly not German but rather Eastern European. Due to some work between myself and my middle sister (she has done much of the actual work while I remember every damn thing and can clarify if that work is going down the right path), we have figured out that we are maybe a quarter German and the other quarter are percentages of Eastern European ethnicities from all over northern Eastern Europe. (Russia and Lithuania feature but Poland is noticeably absent. Czechia and Slovakia also represent.) My father's past is much simpler: he's the 50% English, and the source of our English family name. We don't know when his family got here but his ancestors moved west until they settled down in IL.
As an aside, any time I applied for a secret clearance, it went well, until it was time to mention my mother was born in Germany. After the war, mind you. But nonetheless, any time I mentioned my mother was born in Germany it raised a red flag on the clearance paperwork, and I'd always have to elaborate on that further. Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at July 20, 2024 07:28 PM (8sMut) 224
2nd cousin twice removed , Carla Bruni
Posted by: Ben Had at July 20, 2024 07:28 PM (5MvGY) 225
One of the interesting aspects of tracing family members, is names. My favorite was named 'Electa St. John'
One of my ancients was name 'Thankful' Posted by: Mike Hammer, etc., etc. at July 20, 2024 07:28 PM (XeU6L) 226
Interesting thread, TRex. Gotta go.
Posted by: OrangeEnt at July 20, 2024 07:28 PM (0eaVi) 227
Great granduncle Edward Kingsford of Henry Ford's Kingsford Charcoal here...
Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy at July 20, 2024 07:29 PM (/HDaX) 228
My grandfather maintained that we were related to the Italian inventor and polar explorer Umberto Nobile. After pretty exhaustive research by family members, it's just about a certainty that we are not...
Posted by: Joe Kidd at July 20, 2024 07:29 PM (n7FLE) 229
TRex, thanks for the thread. Ancestry is a passion of mind. Almost as much as Gub Thread.
Posted by: RI Red at July 20, 2024 07:29 PM (2tKzk) 230
I know my gma's name, but her birthday is wrong in the letter.
Try a year or two earlier. Or later "A gentleman always remembers a ladies birthday, but cannot ever remember how old she is." Posted by: No one of any consequence at July 20, 2024 07:29 PM (+H2BX) 231
Bette Davis is a traceble cousin of mine...
Posted by: Mike Hammer, etc., etc -------- Do you have her eyes? Posted by: JQ ----- Is by marriage. Posted by: Mike Hammer, etc., etc. at July 20, 2024 07:29 PM (XeU6L) 232
I did do the DNA test after finding out we had a colonial line, and then a male cousin did a test for me because I wanted to see what my dad's side looked like. My own results were a little skewed because of Jewish endogamy. Turns out not to have helped too much. His maternal grandfather was French Canadian, and that skewed results almost as badly!
Posted by: Lirio100 at July 20, 2024 07:30 PM (I5U35) 233
124 64
The Lusitania, wow! The father of one of my schoolmates in Nairobi (1960s) was a sailor in WW2. The batt;eship HMS Hood. When the fleet sailed to chase the Bismarck, he was in hospital with a broken leg. For those who don't know, HMS Hood was hit by Bismarck's second salvo, exploded and sunk in a few minutes. IIRC there were 3 survivors out of over 1400 sailors. Posted by: Ciampino - Crazy Casa of Cats #16 at July 20, 2024 06:45 PM (qfLjt) I was gonna say, if you know someone who was on the Hood, that is VERY small company. Posted by: Catch Thirty-Thr33 at July 20, 2024 07:30 PM (8sMut) 234
movie time!
Posted by: JQ at July 20, 2024 07:31 PM (njWTi) 235
Somebody told me I am related to Kevin Bacon but I don't believe it.
Posted by: fd at July 20, 2024 07:31 PM (vFG9F) 236
Nood movies!
Posted by: Cat Ass Trophy at July 20, 2024 07:32 PM (evvc2) 237
Well my immediate family got home from vacation today, haven’t seen them in a week. My little is up in her room and J is out by the pool. So. Missed y’all, too! 😂
Posted by: Piper at July 20, 2024 07:32 PM (p4NUW) 238
My email is on the nic hyperlink. Send me a note.
Posted by: TRex at July 20, 2024 07:27 PM (IQ6Gq) Done! Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy at July 20, 2024 07:34 PM (/HDaX) 239
The timing of this thread is fantastic. I'm taking an online course in writing fantasy which includes writing a fantasy novella, and my pov character is a woman who can read the past of possessions and documents, thus tracing owners. I'm having so much fun reading all of your powerful stories.
Posted by: Wenda at July 20, 2024 07:40 PM (ryt6Q) 240
writing a fantasy novella, and my pov character is a woman who can read the past of possessions
------ I have often looked at antique items of the family (and others), and wished that they could talk. Probably better that they can't, but it is fascinating to ponder what stories they would tell. They each have a life of their own. Posted by: Mike Hammer, etc., etc. at July 20, 2024 07:43 PM (XeU6L) 241
Made it home 🏡
Posted by: Skip at July 20, 2024 07:50 PM (fwDg9) 242
Wish we listened or asked more questions of our grandparents.
Sis and I got to see our grandparents wedding logged in at a Church in Chicago. To see the actual records from the 1920’s was incredible. We found old photos from Dad’s side from the 20’s showing Niagara Falls and Pikes Peak. Loved all the prohibition photos of grandpa looking very Capone and all the guys holding homemade liquor. Love all the mundane photos of grandparents inside of their houses- love seeing places that were so treasured growing up. Posted by: Paisley at July 20, 2024 07:50 PM (66OFj) 243
Wish we listened or asked more questions of our grandparents.
----- I have kicked myself many times for being too young, too stupid, and too naive to ask my g-parents simple questions that they could have easily answered, and now it is too late. Posted by: Mike Hammer, etc., etc. at July 20, 2024 07:54 PM (XeU6L) 244
I have kicked myself many times for being too young, too stupid, and too naive to ask my g-parents simple questions that they could have easily answered, and now it is too late.
I hear that. In my case, my dad and I pumped our relatives for pretty much everything they knew and that at least got me off to a good start. But the Ancestry searching has generated a whole new set of questions they can't directly answer now since they're gone. Posted by: Additional Blond Agent, STEM Guy at July 20, 2024 08:00 PM (/HDaX) 245
Just began researching one of my ancestors who, it appears, is a genuine Civil War badass. Only have the most rudimentary knowledge right now. When the records are downloaded I'll happily spend some time reading.
Posted by: IRONGRAMPA at July 20, 2024 08:10 PM (hKoQL) 246
Mike Hammer,
My feelings exactly. Posted by: Wenda at July 20, 2024 08:25 PM (ryt6Q) 247
Robert Isaac Everett, stowed away on a ship from England, got caught, indentured servitude for 7 years. Then moved to TN. Fought in the Revolutionary War.
Applied for a pension from the government at age 78. Sent the government a letter at age 82, saying he didn't need the pension anymore and to please stop sending it to him. They don't make 'em like that anymore. Posted by: Persnickety at July 20, 2024 08:29 PM (6fdSm) 248
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My grandfather. I come from a family of divers and salvagers who were connected the battleship Maine, salvaging of the Normandie, and even salvage operations in Pearl Harbor. Posted by: Tina-Marie Shafer at July 21, 2024 08:43 AM (srgR8) 249
58 I honestly don't comprehend why anybody even tries genetic percentages in Europe, it's a mix master and impossible to determine any kind of 'race'.
Posted by: LenNeal at July 20, 2024 06:12 PM (bFId9) Well, aren't you the negative Nancy! Don't think people need to know family history or where they come from. (You know what they say about those that don't know history.....) It's a fascinating and fun hobby and if you rather build model airplanes, go right ahead, but don't trash other people's hobbies. Posted by: BonnieBlue is tired of the lies at July 21, 2024 09:13 AM (RjGX7) Processing 0.04, elapsed 0.0504 seconds. |
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