Well, now... that's a damned good question...

Under my post called "Hey Men!!!!", Kenna asks a very good question. Has a coupla good points, too.

"Why do women feel like they have to fuck with their ex's and make them miserable?"

Shyeah... got a year?
Really, I can answer that. The easy answer, the one that really tells ya nuthin', is that "They're all bitches", or cunts, depending on how badly (or well, from their twisted perspectives) they do "the job" on the guy.

Well, no shit. But WHY!?!??
Right, guys?

Read on.... (I moved it into the EP @ 5:00pm)

Before I even start to try to answer that, let me make it clearer than mountain air that I am not and would NEVER defend this bullshit they do. It may sound like it a time or two, but that's only because you can't see the look of utter disgust on my face as I type. Nor does sarcasm translate well when typed. But, ya know I'mina try....
Besides, if I can just convey my total disdain for them, that'd be cool. I have no respect, sympathy or empathy for these kinda women. They bring it on themselves and they deserve every horrible thing that can be done to them, which is usually waaaay less than what gets done to the man in any given situation.
Not to even mention the fact that they make the rest of us look really, really bad by association and I hate 'em for that, too.

(Oh, and by the way... I've decided that the reason the (ever so STOOPID) Oak Ridge Boys "replaced" Bill Golden was NOT just because he went all "mountain man" on 'em. They were pissed and jealous, too, of his.... pants. (Yeah, I'm still looking back at that like, "Daaaamn, Dude...") Piss on the Oak Ridge Boys. I'm a Golden fan for life and besides, there's always the Statler Bros. THEY don't fire people for stupid reasons.) (Sorry. Was just "discussing" that picture with Eric. He's no where near as impressed as I am... go figure. *giggle*)

Okay, now back to the point of this post....

Just remember, I am not now, nor would I EVER, defend a bitch for this kind of behavior, BUT....
It has to do with their own self-image. They know the truth about themselves, the things they'd never admit and hope to GAWD you men never find out about. Those traits they try so hard to mask... that's when they come out full force... at the end. That's when the bitch doesn't have to worry about "ruining" it with the truth anymore. She doesn't have to try to appear to be any certain "way", so the real "them" comes out.

The truth about what kind of people they really are is NOT demonstrated when you (men) are doing what your "supposed" to do, when you're "playing the game" correctly. Oh, hell no. That nicey-nice little chicky who made dinner and cleaned up and actually had a job... all bullshit. Totally based on the premise that they HAVE TO do all that to keep you guys doing what they want YOU to do. The INSTANT y'all "fuck up", even though no one ELSE on the planet would see it that way, is when she drops the facade and becomes her real self.
Besides, (and think about this) this is one of her "weapons" in court... "Oh, Your Honor, I did do all that, I did do the "right" things... I cooked, I cleaned, I even had a job and STILL he did this horrible-ness to poor little me... *sob*"
Ya see?

It's outside a court room and away from any credible witnesses that she shows her real self.
The self she KNOWS has nothing to offer that's worth a damn, the self who KNOWS she'll never find another guy like you, the self who wonders "Oh my God, what am I gonna do NOW?"

Knowing herself as well as she undoubtedly does, she KNOWS she's fucked now. So, what does she do?

Panics.
Gets highly pissed.
Wants to see blood. This is because you (guy) just "wrecked" her years of hard work, maintaining that facade to "get" you and now, at the very least, she has to try that whole rigamaroll again. And, she's older now, so it's gonna be that much harder.
She also has to ensure she can maintain her "lifestyle" as simply as possible (lazy fuck), even without you or any other worthwhile guy, 'cause she really knows she'll never have another one because she is SUCH a loser. And, to do any less than everything she can do to kill you would make her lose face with her femi-nazi friends and her own evil self. Can't have that, now can we?

Oh, and just by the way... I have three women in my mind as prototypes for this "analysis". My mother, Eric's ex and Rob's ex, the original BC. So, person-of-the-female-persuasion, if what you're reading is pissing you off, before you write to me and say stupid shit that just proves my point, I suggest you look inside yourself to see what part of this truth I'm telling is affecting you.
For once, think before you react.
If nothing else, it'd be good practice for having a truly good relationship with a man. Or for how to behave like something better than a wounded water buffalo during a divorce... know what I'm saying? At best, ya might learn something about yourself and be able to grow the fuck up and change it. BEFORE you fuck up lives around you, especially HIS.
(Yeah, I know... "Or the kids lives..." Fuck them. I'm not there yet. That's a whole 'nother issue, kids are. And, yeah, I'll get to them, those leg-hold traps...
*snort*)

Women who have to try to destroy the man they're losing are mentally fucked up. SEVERELY mentally fucked up. Every single day, in every single way. They always have been and always will be that way, too. Once you have the ability to see them CLEARLY, not all pussy-ed up like you guys usually see 'em, you can see this shit all through their lives and all their relationships.

That shit they did or still do that makes you men go, "Hmmm" with a raised eyebrow is IT. That's the TRUTH. That's their real deal. If she's doing ignorant shit AT ALL, TO ANYBODY, rest assured she can, and probably WILL, do it to you, too.

If she's a lying, manipulative bitch to others, puh-LEEZE do not think you're gonna stay exempt. You WILL have a turn at that crap. Several, actually. And, if you don't do whatever mysterious shit it is that she wants you to do then, it WILL escalate til ya find yourself getting anally raped in court. And, I say "mysterious shit", because, dollars to doughnuts, not even SHE knows what the hell it is she wants then. Just you as "hurt" as she is, however it has to be done.
Regardless of whose at fault.

This is when their real talent, their REAL vocation comes to the fore... the Professional Victim.

Gawd. It makes me puking sick to think about it. This bit is society's fault. I also understand the "why" of it, but it's still WRONG that it goes on.

See, before all these stupid laws were passed about how men are ALWAYS the monsters who should be stripped of everything for the rest of their existence (because leaving them with a LIFE would be "too nice"), women did get screwed more often than not. And, no, that wasn't really fair, either, but still... You'd think a lesson or two mighta been learned from that and the new laws made to reflect that and be fairer to all.

Nope.

Women got screwed for years and now the pendulum has swung waaay to Goddamned far in the other direction so now it's MEN who get fucked. Wonder if it'll ever be balanced correctly... I doubt it. Not in my lifetime, anyway. That's beyond sad, too....
The men who did all the "evil" in the past are probably all dead by now and the guys getting fucked for it now are the wrong ones to be paying this price.

And, those women from back then are NOT benefitting from this bullshit either and, by the same token, the CUNTS who ARE benefitting from it are the ones who least need or deserve it. It was those other women who suffered, not you Professional Victim bitches of today.

Women of "yester-year" NEEDED the help. Y'all don't these days. Women have good jobs now, they have their "independence" they screeched so loudly for in the 60's, so what's with this "oh poor little me" bullshit in a divorce court?
Lying again, are ya's?

Typical.

I, personally, wouldn't expect anything else from you people. (Ignorant, bitchy, LYING women, I mean...)

So... why do they fuck with men? Because they can. Because they are ENABLED to by the courts. But, mostly because they know they themselves are not worth the powder to blow them to hell (where they all belong), so they feel a need to try to put the man in the same position. Financially and any other way they can.

Equality, my achin' ass.

Pfft. You just try treating a woman "equal" to the way a man gets treated and see what happens.
Yeah.
Good luck with that and, oh, don't forget the titanium body armour to keep you halfway "protected" from the ensuing overkill yer gonna have done to ya.

Ya know what? Just by the way these bitches expect to be treated in court and by society at large once they decide to cut a guy loose PROVES how inferior they still are. It goes against every damned thing the women's rights shit was about.

If women are so equal, why is it seemingly required for them to get everything in a divorce settlement? Why do they need to be "supported"? Why do they automatically get physical custody of the ankle-biting crumb snatchers that they only had TO TRAP THE MAN IN THE FIRST PLACE?!?? Especially when it's patently obvious they're horrible excuses for mothers? How can a woman who hates a man be thought to be going to raise his kids right? How does that reasoning work?
She does everything a person can do to hurt someone, but she'd NEVER pass it on to his kid once he's bled out, would she? Oh, noooo. Not her. She's a "mother".

Yeah, she is. Except ya cut that phrase in half, didn't ya?

In all three cases I'm using here, that is EXACTLY what was done. My mother got worse with me when Dad wasn't home, working or whatever, than she did when he was there to absorb some of her shit. Plus, she hated that he was my favorite and she knew it so plainly. Gawd, she was a bitch.

Jr. is also currently being mind-fucked by his mother, too. She let him quit school and get a job to support her fat, non-working ass. Nice, huh?

And, Rob's wife? Jeezus. That woman harbors such hatred for Rob, evidenced by her actions her every waking moment, even I'm scared for his son.

I know what it's like to be stuck with a woman who has no regard for your dad. "It sucks" doesn't even BEGIN to cover it. And, that's just a daughter's point of view. I can't even begin to imagine what it must be like being a BOY with a mother who feels like that toward men. Poor kid.

Women fuck with their exes to make themselves feel better about themselves and their own pathetic lives. They do it because they don't have the brains or class to try another way, like, for instance, being successful, financially stable and happy all on their own. They have to do it suckin' offa men, one way or another.

Now, I know for a FACT that some women get pregnant soley to trap a man. They figure they'll get "free money" for about 18 years and only hafta deal with a kid, once they fuck the guy off. So, don'tcha think it's within reason to think that some women also just pick a guy to be married to long enough to make it look good, all the while fully intending to end up "supported" and single by the time the dust settles?

Well, they do.

It's the ones who're too ugly or obviously fucked up that hafta resort to getting pregnant to spring the trap.

However, both methods rely on men being addicted to pussy. If men didn't think with their dicks so much, they'd have lots less problems in life.

I love you guys, but the truth is the truth, ya know?

Y'all play right into this shit, sometimes. For fuck's sake, how many more of you are gonna fall for this shit? Don't any of you ever learn from what the ones before you have gone through?

Obviously, not many of ya do.
Well, ya all should. Take heed. Pay attention. LEARN from other poor bastard's mistakes. At least let the poor guys get that much outta getting fucked half to death, the peace of mind of knowing that someone else will be spared the agony. Make it worth a little something, ya know?

All it is now is guys getting drilled.

Women fuck with their exes because that's all they've got. It's all they ever had and they fuckin' well know it.
It's all they are. There's nothing else they can do.

Pathetic.

It, and they, both, are that.

Now, Kenna also mentioned that she didn't get any advice on how to screw her ex.
Well, it's out there, somewhere, obviously. I, myself, don't know where to find it as I've never been interested in doing this kinda evil shit to anybody. (Don't believe me? Just ask either of my exes. Been divorced twice in over 20 years and still friends with both of 'em... so bite me.)

I don't know if women just pass it on, one to the other (or maybe they just PAY ATTENTION, taking notes and all, to what other bitches have "gone through", GUYS!) or if it's in the women's magazines or what. But, I did catch an enlightening bit of info in Men's Health magazine. It was an article on what to do if you're being fucked with by a woman.

I was FLOORED to read that, no matter WHAT do not hit a woman, even if she's beating the shit out of you, because you WILL be removed from your home by police officers, thereby opening up the possiblity that she will retain the house in the ensuing divorce AND... THAT WOMEN TRY TO PROVOKE THIS BEHAVIOR FOR PRECISELY THIS REASON.
Un-fuckin'-believable.

I mean, hell. I knew women were evil, but this? Holy Gawd. On PURPOSE. They do this shit ON PURPOSE.

My mind just does NOT "work" that way. Never has and never will. If it even started to, I think I'd off myself. I'd rather be dead than be like that.
How miserable of a bitch must you be to be like that?
I shudder to think....

You'd think these oh-so-smart(assed) women would understand one major thing in alla this...

Which would you rather have at the end? A man thanking God that your outta his life forever, or regretting losing you and getting teary eyed watching you walk away, if that's what you HAVE TO do?

The ones who make the men grateful that they're finally gone are the ones who're really losing in the end.
They'll never understand that, but it's the truth.

Hell, if they had the sense to grasp that concept, chances are they'd never find themselves in the position of having to turn cunt in the first place, would they?

Oh well. Their loss.

Kenna, take heart. Those kinda women make those of us not like them even more to be treasured and they also make our "jobs" a lot easier. After a guy has tangled with a cunt or two, all a decent woman has to do is be nice. They'll be loved half to death for the rest of forever just for that. Which, in turn, fosters the wanting to do more for the guy, because he's such a sweetheart, which makes you that much more to be treasured by him, so it all works out nicely. It's the difference between being in a hot tub full of warm, swirling water and swirling down a toilet, like they were doing before they found you.

And, men... y'all take heart, too. Not all women are the manipulative bitches that most of them are. There are a few of us good ones left. But, I've gotta tell ya now, you're not gonna find them in tiny little expensive dresses, underneath tons of silicone boobage and shit. We don't have time for that crap.

Us real ones are too busy taking care of business to be fussing with that silliness.

Forget the brainless trophy chicks and try someone REAL for a change.

Well, think about it... if a chick spends all her time prepping the trap, what's she got left to make it worth it?
Not much, usually.
Right?
Right.

Just think about it.

Peace, y'all...

Posted by: Stevie at 04:38 AM

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