Can someone tell me why, please?

When Eric worked at his first valve shop, before coming to work at the farm where I met him, he did not travel. Ever. Period. End of story.

This was because the BC was an evil, controlling, intimidating, manipulative, shrewish, demanding bitch.
But...he didn't go away.
I am not like that. Even when I wanna be, I'm just not that way. I doubt I'd even be any good at it.
But, I don't want Eric to be gone, either. For vastly different reasons, granted. My wantin' him around comes from a way different place than her holding him hostage did.
My way doesn't work. He'll be going away. A lot. For long times.

All I wanna know is why? Why did she get what she wanted by being a total asshole about it and wanting it for the wrong reasons?

Yet, I'll end up alone. And...I'm the nice one.

So...
WTF?

Posted by: Stevie at 04:34 AM

Comments

1 Sure, I can explain some of it. You're not the mean, evil, soul-sucking type. You're going to let him go off an work, and you're going to go right on loving him. The big difference is this: he'll come home to you every single time out of *choice*, not because you've got his balls in a nearly inescapable grasp like She did. How's that?

Eric's X and mine should meet. They're both what my sister calls "emotional vampires."

Posted by: Snowball at October 30, 2003 10:35 AM (QO5tX)

2 Stevie:

Who's he with now?

See how well her approach worked?

Is your goal to have him there tomorrow, or for the rest of your life?



PS You too can have italics like these. Just call 1 800 Light&Dark for your next lesson.

Posted by: Light & Dark at October 30, 2003 12:54 PM (Hrm9v)

3 sweety i will never leave you alone we might not be in the same place together all the time but neither of us will ever be alone as long as we hold on to each others heart and soul and keep them safe and warm next to our own.I love you and as long as you want you can count on me being there by your side forever

Posted by: eric at October 30, 2003 01:32 PM (iX4r3)

4 ya know what? every time i read one of eric's comments, i get all kinds of mushy inside. i know it will be hard as hell when he's away, but girl, you have his heart and soul. better to be in love and have to suffer some distance than to not be in love at all. hugs.

Posted by: AmyVegas at October 31, 2003 10:05 AM (lBFdX)






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