Dear God, I wish Rob was alive to see this...
Now, I don't wanna say too much and jinx anything, here, buuuut....
After five years of taking it in the ass, it's gonna be over soon and in a way that NONE of us foresaw. I just spoke to a lawyer a while ago about how to end child support, seeing as to how Jr. has been "emancipated" since he was 16, his mother let him quit school then too, he's lived here for the last six months and never wants to see her again AND turned 18 about two weeks ago. I just had some general "what do we do now?" type questions. Well, the lawyer I found in Jersey via the internet, then called, is now OUR lawyer and he is ASTOUNDED at the current situation. While we always knew the child support would eventually end no matter what, we were thinking the only way the spousal support would end was if she ever found someone stupid enough to marry her.She thinks that, too.
That's why she fucked up the DIY divorce last year. BUT... co-habitation is also a deal KILLER (fuck "breaker"... hee). I asked the lawyer about it and when he said "Remarriage, death of course, or co-habitation...", I literally jumped up outta this chair and said, "Ooh, she's been living with a guy for AT LEAST a year and Jr. will testify to that..." (Yes, I asked Jr. if he'd have any problems doing stuff like this to her if it came down to it before I told the lawyer he would and he said, and I quote, "Oh, HELL NO, I won't have any problems with that. After the shit SHE'S done? Please..." He and I talked for HOURS about this kinda shit last night, in fact...) Anyway, to make a long story short, thus not jinxing this, basically she's gonna be the recipient of some major karma real soon. It took five years, yes.
But, we waited.
We were (mostly) patient.
We didn't run to or get dragged into court every fifteen minutes.
And, it turns out we only have to take one shot and it's going to totally annihilate her. And, if you're imagining me sitting here with the biggest shit-eatin' grin in HISTORY, you are correct. She's lost her son forever and now she's gonna lose that which means more to her than life itself... money. And, like I said first, I just wish Rob was here to see this, to garner hope from it and so that I could have given him back even one tiny part of all that he gave me, because, without having known him, I doubt ANY of us would be where we are right now.
(All these guys around here, George included, always leave this legal shit to me to handle and I KNOW I wouldn't be where I am now without having followed Rob outta hell like I did...) I'll always love you, Darlin' and thank you from the depths of my soul for all you did for me while you were here and anything you're doing "behind-the-scenes" now. I am now gonna go do the "happy, happy, joy, joy" dance with the rest of these people around here. Peace
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