Fer fucks sake....
Y'all are amusing.
I'll give ya that.
And, my own. See... you ridiculous people, what I'm doing is puttin' this shit together in Livey's, as well as Rob's, OWN WORDS. Her own WORDS. Things SHE said, not that "I've made up". Can you grasp that?
Her words. Also, ROB'S own words... the words he used to try to extricate himself from her, including that deleted "update" where he names names. If reading a person's archives is "stalking", well then, fine.
I'm guilty.
HOWEVER, I've also then "stalked" damned near everyone else whose reading I find interesting for whatever reason.
As some have done with my archives. I don't know what y'all's problem is here, really. Are ya pissed that I have the free time to do this?
Are ya upset that you don't have the balls to handle the truth?
What is it? If you know me AT ALL, you know I'm not doing anything any different than I did when Rob was alive...
I defended him to the best of my ability then, as I'm doing now. And, if you don't like that.... tough.
I really don't care. Now, to clear up a coupla things... Livey is lying again.
I have NOT "contacted a lawyer to prove she killed Rob." There was only person in the Crackerbox that night and it wasn't her. What I'm doing is layin' this shit out so that those who wonder why I believe what I do can see it and see why I believe it.
And, ya wanna know what else?
If the autopsy proves that Rob died of natural causes, or his head exploding, or whatever, it's still a FACT that Livey made his last bit of time here HELL. That she was told by Rob himself to piss off and wouldn't. Belieeeeve me... I don't for one second think she's the ONLY reason he wanted out. I don't give her that much credit.
There were many other reasons, but I do KNOW she's one of the ones who was calling him a drama queen and all but daring him to do it.
And, that bugs me, as well as many other people I've heard from. So again, I have not, as she's saying now, gotten hold of a lawyer.
She's LYING to you people.
If I were to spend money on a lawyer, it certainly wouldn't be because of her silly ass.
I'd spend it on a lawyer to get Eric outta HIS mess with HIS BC.
Besides... I don't NEED a lawyer to prove shit. I have all I need.
HER WORDS.
And Rob's. Which, by the way, are "public domain" and available to anyone who cares to look.
Also, if it's true that she's gonna call a lawyer, she'd better be ready to be laughed at when the guy finds out I'm alllll the way across the friggin' country from her and even less of a "danger to her life" than she is herself. Do ya's really think I care that much about her?
Gawd Almighty... if ya do, then you need to re-read that email I sent, because in it, in my OWN WORDS, I explain how little "danger" she's in as far as I'm concerned. Not to mention, I just did my big "get Livey" thing in, what?, my last post? I'll repeat it now, for all you brain-dead dickheads who didn't get it... ready? "May the song "Instant Karma" haunt her the rest of her life." Period. THAT'S how much I care about her.
THAT'S all the effort to me she's worth. The effort I'm expending now, with this other, this going through numerous archives and putting it all together so an IDIOT could understand it ISN'T ABOUT HER.
It's for, about and to Rob.
Whom I cared about a LOT and still do. I realize it's reeeeally hard to believe that not everything in the fuckin' universe is about Livey, but... it's not.
Least of all anything coming from me. Also, I'd like to mention that Rob's family has my URL, my phone number and my snail mail address.
More than enough ways to contact me if they wanted to.
If they felt a need to. They could contact me six ways from Sunday and warn me off, if they were of a mind to and ya wanna know what?
They haven't.
And, I doubt they will. But, they DID tell Livey to never contact anyone on the family again. See any difference there?
Probably not, but whatever. Look... I know I'm not ever gonna get through to some people.
That's fine. I'm doing what I'm doing because I want to and because others who love Rob want to see this. I'm not threatening Livey, nor did I, except to admit that, yeah, at first I wanted to beat her ass for being so dense, in my email.
I don't give a FUCK about Livey, one way or another.
Rest assured, if it was someone else who'd done the things she did to Rob, THEY'D be my focus now, instead of her. But, it is her because that's how she wanted it.
She wanted to be the center of attention, so, for now, she is.
But, for me, only as far as necessary to gather what's needed. Which, like I said, is pretty much complete. She can contact me, if she wants. She's done it before.
I'm not even angry with her anymore, since I understand the dynamics of the situation.
I won't "abuse" her, scream at her, threaten her or anything else. I don't care enough to. Go ahead and email me, Livey.
I promise you, I more pity you than anything else these days.
And, reading your archives is a part of why that is.
The more I read, the more I feel sorry for you. I won't coddle you and make you think what you've done and seem to be continung to do is okay, but... you're "safe". I'm not gonna hurt you.
No more so than what the truth of the situation will, anyway. I won't lie to you and I won't lie for you. Just like Rob, you've got enough to contend with without me making it worse.
And, if having it all laid out for whomever wants to know is "hurting you", well then, I am sorry 'bout that, but I am gonna do it. Other than that and wishing the song "Instant Karma" drives you nuts(er), there'll be no more to you from me. I'm not coming to Wisconson, nor sending anyone else there.
I'm not suggesting or setting up any retribution. Like I said on June 6th, the KARMIC retribution will be enough.
(Yeah, I warned her THEN to stop before he got pushed too far. Wish she'd have LISTENED.) Anyway...
speculate all ya want.
Call me "stalker" and "cunt" all ya want.
Hell, you can even email me and try to give me shit (and maybe somebody should, lest Callie be the only one, as she is so far...). Castiron ass.
I do have one.
Something I learned from Rob.
One of the MANY things I learned from Rob. So go for it.
Ya ain't botherin' me. Livey, same goes for you.
Go ahead and email me.
You're safe.
There's nuthin' I need to try to do to you.
You're doing it all to yourself. But, it might make things easier for you to just say what ya wanna say to ME, instead of everybody BUT me, ya know?
At least that way, you'd be sure I'm hearing what you're saying without anyone else's spin on it, right? Oh... and about my Pusser club (and that's a CAPITAL "P", thanks, it's a man's last name), I brought it with me because Cat asked if I had a gun for the drive down, which I don't. (Would you dillholes have felt better if I did have a gun and left the club home? God, yer stupid.) I brought it for any protection I may have needed had I broken down and been threatened by some random road person. It was in my car and STAYED in my car the entire time I was in Georgia.
I didn't even bring it out to show Cat Buford's signature.
AND, I went to the service in Cat's truck, so it wasn't even THERE to use on anybody.
So, can ya's glom onto something else to prove my insanity, please?
Christ knows there's enough other shit to choose from.
(And, I don't think perusing archives qualifies either...) So.
Are we clear now? No lawyer.
No ass-beatings.
No backing down will be done on my part in defending Rob from those who would like to destroy his dignity in death as they did in life.
Livey is safe.
She can email me if she wants.
I haven't and will not be appearing or speaking in her comments.
I will, however, read them.
And, I'll also give you guys a little unsolicited advice... that shit is as public as her archives, so ya might wanna take it into consideration.
Also, no matter how much you try to "get rid" of that kinda shit, it ain't ever really "gone", as I've proved each time Rob fucked up his archives and I've retrieved them for him.
What you guys say now will be there for a loooong time and you aren't really doing your girl Livey much good.
And, yeah... I know what I say will be around for just as long.
That's why I don't say the stupidest things there are to say.
I may think 'em, but I learned well from others who've been burnt. Oh, and... when I wrote that email, I knew there was a really good chance she'd see it, but in the interest of keeping shit to a minimum, I emailed it instead of posting it.
Not trying to hide anything, just trying to keep the shit to a minimum.
And so, when I wrote it, I wrote it with the thought in the back of my mind that she'd see it.
So, I'm not surprised nor sorry she did. And, I expected a buncha shit to come from this whole deal.
I'm waiting for it.
I expect MORE, once I get "the" post I'm working on posted.
That's fine. You guys are not disappointing me by those dopey comments at Livey's. Nor has Livey let me down in my knowing EXACTLY what her reaction is gonna be and what she's gonna do next... just like at Rob's service. Hell, man... I expect shit from this post.
Bring it on.
Because the more y'all fuck with ME, the more you're leaving Rob the fuck alone. Now... have at it.
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WOW... Ok... I have to admit to commenting at Livey's site...
Somehow, I had never found yours before (I didn't always click on the links in Rob's posts.. Sorry). So now I have the other side of the story and I must say, I think yours is probably more credible. I am saying this based on nothing more than reading your last 12 posts or so (will be reading more, was just trying to figure out what the fuck was going on!) and her site and Robs for the last few years.
Knowing what she did, how he felt etc. Yeah I tend to think your view is probably more on the correct side...
Anyway, since my comments are on her site that you linked to I just wanted to update my currect position.. LOL
Somehow, I had never found yours before (I didn't always click on the links in Rob's posts.. Sorry). So now I have the other side of the story and I must say, I think yours is probably more credible. I am saying this based on nothing more than reading your last 12 posts or so (will be reading more, was just trying to figure out what the fuck was going on!) and her site and Robs for the last few years.
Knowing what she did, how he felt etc. Yeah I tend to think your view is probably more on the correct side...
Anyway, since my comments are on her site that you linked to I just wanted to update my currect position.. LOL
Posted by: ElizabethOfTheSouth at July 04, 2006 06:53 PM (YnIJr)
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Also, just so ya know, Screen Shots are much more effective if using as *evidence*... Can't alter a screen shot like you can if you just copy and paste... I'm just saying... In case folks try to say you mucked around with something... 
Posted by: ElizabethOfTheSouth at July 04, 2006 06:56 PM (YnIJr)
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I read the comments "over there" and I find it ironic that Livey's posse is demanding Stevie just forget anything ever happened so Livey can get on with her life and then they proceed to inflame the situation with snarky comments. One thing is clear. Livey started this when she outed Rob on his own blog. From all accounts I've heard she behaved disgracefully at the funeral. She can't just cry victim now and make it all go away.
You all can think you want about how this is playing out but I can't fail to notice that Stevie is right up front and doing her own fighting while Livey is in hiding, calling on her troops to leap to her defense. Seems to me if Livey's conscience is clear she should be able to come forward and do her own talking. Whether they do it on the blogs or in email is immaterial but that's the only way to put it behind them.
From where I sit, Stevie has been completely honest. She chose to work out her stuff on her blog -- that's her right. No one has to read it. Livey, on the other hand, has uncharacteristically chosen to remain silent, apparently only divulging her account of the proceedings to a handful of supporters and one suspects she's been somewhat selective in what she chooses to tell. Those of you who consider her a friend would do well to encourage her to be honest with herself or else you're just -- what was that word you're all so fond of --- oh yeah, "enabling" the anti-social behavior that continues to sabotage her existence. Think about that.
You all can think you want about how this is playing out but I can't fail to notice that Stevie is right up front and doing her own fighting while Livey is in hiding, calling on her troops to leap to her defense. Seems to me if Livey's conscience is clear she should be able to come forward and do her own talking. Whether they do it on the blogs or in email is immaterial but that's the only way to put it behind them.
From where I sit, Stevie has been completely honest. She chose to work out her stuff on her blog -- that's her right. No one has to read it. Livey, on the other hand, has uncharacteristically chosen to remain silent, apparently only divulging her account of the proceedings to a handful of supporters and one suspects she's been somewhat selective in what she chooses to tell. Those of you who consider her a friend would do well to encourage her to be honest with herself or else you're just -- what was that word you're all so fond of --- oh yeah, "enabling" the anti-social behavior that continues to sabotage her existence. Think about that.
Posted by: Libby at July 04, 2006 08:12 PM (DGO1F)
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Does anyone know why Livey hasn't been blogging? I keep checking and she hasn't said anything about the events that happened in GA. It must have been bad if she hasn't found a way to spin it yet.
Posted by: Jane at July 04, 2006 08:50 PM (mtA+8)
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Damn...
I read both of you guys (although you're the only one between the two of you that I've blogrolled).
I came across a post of hers today and basically told her that "If your comments upset her, don't read em."
I've always thought of her as a nice person, but then again, I only know her through the computer screen.
I don't think you're a stalker and if I didn't have a pistol, I'd damn sure carry something with me if I was making a road trip...especially if I was a woman alone.
I like you, even if I did comment on Livey's blog today. :-)
PS...Wise up and get a gun woman, there's all kinda shit out there.
I read both of you guys (although you're the only one between the two of you that I've blogrolled).
I came across a post of hers today and basically told her that "If your comments upset her, don't read em."
I've always thought of her as a nice person, but then again, I only know her through the computer screen.
I don't think you're a stalker and if I didn't have a pistol, I'd damn sure carry something with me if I was making a road trip...especially if I was a woman alone.
I like you, even if I did comment on Livey's blog today. :-)
PS...Wise up and get a gun woman, there's all kinda shit out there.
Posted by: Mrite at July 04, 2006 10:49 PM (l8IdQ)
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Stevie,
I just commented on Livey's post today 7/4. She had pix of mushrooms. If Rob was the main focus of her stalking, she doen't talk about it. Pix of mushrooms??? What the hell. Someone who is grieving like you aparently are, is the one to believe. I don't know shit about anything, but keep your chin up. Livey seems like bullshit from the start. I can't ever phathom that I'd loose a friend and be talking about mushrooms on the fourth of July. Like any separation, when you have friends that divorce, some go one way and some go another. Just remember that the ones that go another were not your real friends. Be happy that you have sorted them out and know who are true, and loyal friends. I'd rather have a loyal friend than an imposter who is nothing but full of bullshit and deciet!!!
I just commented on Livey's post today 7/4. She had pix of mushrooms. If Rob was the main focus of her stalking, she doen't talk about it. Pix of mushrooms??? What the hell. Someone who is grieving like you aparently are, is the one to believe. I don't know shit about anything, but keep your chin up. Livey seems like bullshit from the start. I can't ever phathom that I'd loose a friend and be talking about mushrooms on the fourth of July. Like any separation, when you have friends that divorce, some go one way and some go another. Just remember that the ones that go another were not your real friends. Be happy that you have sorted them out and know who are true, and loyal friends. I'd rather have a loyal friend than an imposter who is nothing but full of bullshit and deciet!!!
Posted by: mark at July 04, 2006 11:54 PM (Dvz3g)
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While I do consider myself a friend of Livey, I am also a friend of Sam & Stacey. A close friend could everyone, please just for a while stop this for Sam's sake? Please? http://momisnutz.blogspot.com/2006/07/things-to-share.html
I know I will probably get ripped a new one, but fuck it, I don't care. When it's your dad....it's a whole different ball game. Everyone has the right to grieve, just remember that some grieve with a lifelong knowledge of someone they called Dad.
I know I will probably get ripped a new one, but fuck it, I don't care. When it's your dad....it's a whole different ball game. Everyone has the right to grieve, just remember that some grieve with a lifelong knowledge of someone they called Dad.
Posted by: Kel at July 04, 2006 11:56 PM (Mpp8f)
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Mark, I think you must have posted on Libby's site. She has pics of mushrooms, but she's not the crazy one..LOL
Libby is NOT Livey..
Stevie, I'd love to read the e-mail. I don't blog, I'm just a reader. I never really checked out your blog until Rob died. And I knew you had to have some common sense as you were not on Livey's side.
Libby is NOT Livey..
Stevie, I'd love to read the e-mail. I don't blog, I'm just a reader. I never really checked out your blog until Rob died. And I knew you had to have some common sense as you were not on Livey's side.
Posted by: Jane at July 05, 2006 07:18 AM (26v9i)
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Yeah Mark. You got the wrong girl. I got nothing to do with this directly and I do like shrooms....
Posted by: Libby at July 05, 2006 09:26 AM (DGO1F)
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