Okay... I have a question.
I've had three similar circumstances crop up lately and I've been questioning myself A LITTLE about how I handled them.
I mean, I understand why I did what I did and I'm not sorry I did what I did, I just wanna know something. Am I the only one who gets pissed off when their personal heros get attacked? Three times now, someone has had to be an asshole after I've in some way mentioned or went on about or posted pictures of guys I love.And... I'm getting fuckin' tired of it, too. I keep asking myself two main questions...
1) What the FUCK is up with this?
and
2) Am I the only one who will not tolerate this kinda shit, or what? True to form for me, I went the farthest with the lone female who showed her ass than I did with the two men... IF "Gotcha" is a guy, that it. If not, then the score is one banned female and two "mouthed back at" others, one male and one female.
But then too, the one person I'm sure is a chick went the farthest with her assholery, so I'm not questioning banning her ass.
But... all this is working on my dick nerve. One thing right up front is that I don't post about people, usually, to get them fucked with. If I do do that, there's no question that that's what it's about.
Mostly, when I post about people I love, it's just to let others know how awesome they are or to let THEM know how awesome they are or just because I love 'em.
So, when I've posted about someone I love and someone ELSE attacks them or is an asshole about them, I take it VERY personally and I react much like using a chain saw to kill flies.
I get PISSED.
And, according to my Dad, I always have repayed a slap with a closed-fist punch in the throat.
So sue me, ya know?
*shrug and a grin*
At least I'm consistant. So, I do a post about someone special to me and they get fucked with.
First off, I'm pissed because they get fucked with, then I'm even more pissed because the asshole doin' the "fuckin' with" has used ME to do it. Used my post, my bringing those persons to the forefront to slam them.
I fuckin' HATE that.
I don't tolerate very well AT ALL. And, it's not that these people couldn't defend themselves, but the gutless wonders who're fuckin'with 'em never do it to their faces. Oh noooo. They do it here, with MY desire to honor the people I love. First time was Assrot, with Brooklyn Mikey.
I post a picture of the man because I love him and there's something wrong somewhere, I just don't know what and I wanted Mike to remember, to KNOW, that THAT is still how I see him, with that adorable smile and feelin' okay. Then, Assrot has to leave a nasty comment, which I removed (first time EVER I've felt it necessary to do that, too, for the record). Might interest you to know, Assrot, that Mike was in the second tower. He walked home from that day covered in dust from the towers going down. He's a great guy and I love him so much and there is something hurting him right now and I don't know what it is.
I did that post for him. To let him know that some things never change, like how much I admire him and how utterly cool he is. There's a story behind that picture that made us both laugh when he told it to me. That's why I used it. To make him at least smile. Not so you could say that horrible, untrue thing you said.
Okay?
THAT'S why I got so unholy pissed at you. Next up is Darrel.
Right or wrong, I have loved the guy since the first time I ever saw him.
You wanna call it a crush, go right ahead. Fine by me. (But, you don't need to be an insulting CUNT about it...)
Anyway... with Darrel, he's the one I most strongly identfy with. HIM, not his ex-wife.
I farm, I don't have kids.
I work outside, bust my ass and hardly ever seem to see any improvement in things, especially financially.
I DON'T raise kids, go to school and do housework as a fuckin' JOB, nor do I want to. What I do is my choice and it's what I love, JUST LIKE DARREL.
It's been documented to death here what my deal is with Darrel.
So, I get an email from the man and lo! and behold, THAT'S the day "Whitney from Spain" decides to comment for the first time ever (after having read me for a long time, in her words) and what does she do?
Shits on Darrel.
THAT'S what she does.
Shits on him, insults me and gets her silly ass banned and her comments removed, though I do still have the emails.
I mean... what the FUCK?
The first time you ever comment is only to act like a bitter cuntbag?
Why bother, unless it's just to fuck with Darrel?
And, you KNOW how far that'll get ya with me.
Especially if you've been reading me more than about 15 freakin' minutes, right? Then, today, there's this dipshit, "Gotcha" under my "Rob's ass" post.
First, they call Rob a "burnt out juicer".
Real fuckin' nice.
Then, they go on about him having a fantasy about being a Tall Dog, blah, blah, fuckin' blah.
So, I come back with... oh, just go read the stupid comments. I don't feel like rewriting alla that shit.
Ends up with them trying to use my own words against me *yawn* and I'm about a cunthair's width from banning that happy asshole, too.
(And, don't even get me started about their using a stupid pseudonym like "Gotcha" and some "jumble-of-letters" email address.... Gawd.) BUT... I came here to ask about this instead. What the flyin' FUCK is with these people?
Or, is it me?
Is it really reasonable to attack someone's heros, people they love, and expect to get away clean with it?
Would these people expect to come into a person's house, be all insulting about people the person loves and not be told to either have some respect or get the fuck out? (Like a certain "wife" shoulda told her MOTHER about a certain FARMER, just by the freakin' way?)
I mean, c'mon, fer fuck's sake. Who's wrong, who's being the asshole here?
Them, me or both and if you think it's me, you'd better be able to explain it in a way that'll help me understand HOW without being a dick about it.... y'know what I'm sayin'? Okay... have at it.
I'm goin' to the store and I'll be back later.
I hope to GOD someone has a coherant answer about this crap...
Comments
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Well my dear, I think in my case that you took what I said way to serious. I meant no harm and I was just joking around. Most of the guys I have known all joke around and call each other names just to stir the pot a little. We never really mean what we say when doing this. We just like to fuck with each other. It's in a man's nature to stir things up a little when its too quiet. I did already apologize and I sincerely meant my apology. I doubt that Mike took as much offense to what I said as you did. If he did, again I humbly apologize. My email address and blog link are on all my posts. If Mike wants to return the favor and call me a name or two, hell, I won't mind. If I knew where you lived I'd drop off a bag of smoke for you so you could mellow out. Sheesh! Try to calm down. At your age, you might have a heart attack getting this upset. Hope you have a nice day.
Posted by: assrot at February 20, 2006 06:08 PM (ARCEn)
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There's some in every bunch, Stevie. It's just the nature of the internet to have idiots show up once in a while. I used to do the pissing contest thing, but now I just delete their comments, ban their IP and ignore their emails. The more attention they get, the more they'll act like assholes.
Posted by: Chablis at February 20, 2006 06:15 PM (t9ebt)
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Assrot... I wasn't getting bent at you again, seriously.
That "shrug and a grin" I alluded to is really how I felt doing this post. I'm not upset any further than questioning myself about my reactions.
And, I'm not mad now, either, I promise. I really am smiling as I type.
I know you did apologize and I was happy/relieved that ya did and I still am. Like I said in Rob's comments when I showed up under you, I still love ya.
Only reason I brought it up again now is that it seems I'm having an epidemic around here and I really did wanna know if I was being a putz about it. (Which I probably am to some degree, but still... *raised eyebrow*)
And, I don't think Mike even saw it, thank God. I checked my StatCounter veeeery carefully for just that reason.
Also, Darlin' (and I do mean that... "Darlin'"), when I said "It may interest you to know", I truly wasn't being a snot. I honestly did want you to know that and that that's why I got so... insane about it.
It is interesting.
*grin*
AND... I live right outside of Gettysburg, Pa. or do you do mail order? (Either way, I'll give ya my address. Directions, if that'd help...)
*giggling my ass off*
(And yeah... it's been that long...)
Chablis... Cool. Thank you. I did that with that "Whitney" chick. I think that's what I'm second-guessing myself about the most.
I keep flip-flopping between almost feeling bad/like a wuss/like a non-castiron-ass-having hypocritical dip and knowing, without a doubt, that I'd have told her to leave my house for talking like she did to me, about me and about Darrel.
"Have some respect or hit the bricks" kinda thing, ya know?
Hell, I suppose I ought not beat myself too awful bad about the whole thing.
Even Rob has deleted comments and banned ijits...
And, Assrot (again)...
Dude, you nailed it about the heart attack thing...
My (stupid) mother died of a massive heart attack at one month shy of 44.
I'll be 43 in April.
*shudder*
Believe me, that shit is on my mind...
But... she didn't blog and she didn't "smoke" (except cigarettes), so I hoping that's the difference between her and me... Two of 'em, anyway.
Sooo... when ya comin' over?
*big hopeful grin*
That "shrug and a grin" I alluded to is really how I felt doing this post. I'm not upset any further than questioning myself about my reactions.
And, I'm not mad now, either, I promise. I really am smiling as I type.
I know you did apologize and I was happy/relieved that ya did and I still am. Like I said in Rob's comments when I showed up under you, I still love ya.
Only reason I brought it up again now is that it seems I'm having an epidemic around here and I really did wanna know if I was being a putz about it. (Which I probably am to some degree, but still... *raised eyebrow*)
And, I don't think Mike even saw it, thank God. I checked my StatCounter veeeery carefully for just that reason.
Also, Darlin' (and I do mean that... "Darlin'"), when I said "It may interest you to know", I truly wasn't being a snot. I honestly did want you to know that and that that's why I got so... insane about it.
It is interesting.
*grin*
AND... I live right outside of Gettysburg, Pa. or do you do mail order? (Either way, I'll give ya my address. Directions, if that'd help...)
*giggling my ass off*
(And yeah... it's been that long...)
Chablis... Cool. Thank you. I did that with that "Whitney" chick. I think that's what I'm second-guessing myself about the most.
I keep flip-flopping between almost feeling bad/like a wuss/like a non-castiron-ass-having hypocritical dip and knowing, without a doubt, that I'd have told her to leave my house for talking like she did to me, about me and about Darrel.
"Have some respect or hit the bricks" kinda thing, ya know?
Hell, I suppose I ought not beat myself too awful bad about the whole thing.
Even Rob has deleted comments and banned ijits...
And, Assrot (again)...
Dude, you nailed it about the heart attack thing...
My (stupid) mother died of a massive heart attack at one month shy of 44.
I'll be 43 in April.
*shudder*
Believe me, that shit is on my mind...
But... she didn't blog and she didn't "smoke" (except cigarettes), so I hoping that's the difference between her and me... Two of 'em, anyway.
Sooo... when ya comin' over?
*big hopeful grin*
Posted by: Stevie at February 20, 2006 07:39 PM (U8rZq)
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I just love the words you come up with when you are pissed off. I always try to write them down to use later when some one pisses me off.
Posted by: Maeve at February 20, 2006 08:16 PM (SZJ6R)
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I look at it this way: If you're pissing people off, you must be doing SOMETHING right ;-)
Posted by: Chablis at February 21, 2006 06:53 AM (t9ebt)
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Mornin' Stevie,
Ya know I was going to have to put my two cents worth in didn't ya!! As for the "my ass" - - well personnally I'd like to see an ass like that every morning!!! and the rest of it wasn't bad either!
Some people don't get what life is all about and some people are just jealous that they DON'T have people to love in thier lives and that they don't have the balls to admit it if they do. As for Darrel - well you already know how I feel about him. And a better man - - well that would be hard to find.
I found one once. 16 years ago. And he gave me a beautiful daughter (now 14) and 6 wonderful, exciting, crazy years. Then, two days after Christmas, he died of a massive heart attack, in my livingroom, in front of our daughters, with his head in my lap. So FUCK the people that can't understand that it is human nature to LOVE people and that if they are any kind of person at all - they are proud of that LOVE and not afraid to share it with the world. YOU and your writing brighten EVERY DAY of my life and I hope you NEVER stop. Sometimes you say things that are exactly the way I feel - - (We must have been related in another life!!!). There are few "REAL" people that we get to meet in our lives. You are one of those people, Darrel is another and my David was one more. I am proud and honored to call you and Darrel "FRIEND" and am not afraid to say that I love you both.
Take care and talk to ya soon.
Mar
Ya know I was going to have to put my two cents worth in didn't ya!! As for the "my ass" - - well personnally I'd like to see an ass like that every morning!!! and the rest of it wasn't bad either!
Some people don't get what life is all about and some people are just jealous that they DON'T have people to love in thier lives and that they don't have the balls to admit it if they do. As for Darrel - well you already know how I feel about him. And a better man - - well that would be hard to find.
I found one once. 16 years ago. And he gave me a beautiful daughter (now 14) and 6 wonderful, exciting, crazy years. Then, two days after Christmas, he died of a massive heart attack, in my livingroom, in front of our daughters, with his head in my lap. So FUCK the people that can't understand that it is human nature to LOVE people and that if they are any kind of person at all - they are proud of that LOVE and not afraid to share it with the world. YOU and your writing brighten EVERY DAY of my life and I hope you NEVER stop. Sometimes you say things that are exactly the way I feel - - (We must have been related in another life!!!). There are few "REAL" people that we get to meet in our lives. You are one of those people, Darrel is another and my David was one more. I am proud and honored to call you and Darrel "FRIEND" and am not afraid to say that I love you both.
Take care and talk to ya soon.
Mar
Posted by: Mary at February 21, 2006 09:26 AM (YI6rK)
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Fuckem, don't let them worry you.
Posted by: Catfish at February 21, 2006 12:07 PM (/c6uy)
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Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one. Don't get too bent out of shap...you are entitled to disagree. It's hard, I must admit, when someone you love is dishonored. And it can hurt...it does hurt.
Regardless though, people will be insensitive. All you can do is say, "Well, we'll just agree to disagree on such and such" and leave it at that.
But yeah, it does bug me too. I have to be honest. Over the years, I've learned to just shrug it off...not my issue, ya know?
Regardless though, people will be insensitive. All you can do is say, "Well, we'll just agree to disagree on such and such" and leave it at that.
But yeah, it does bug me too. I have to be honest. Over the years, I've learned to just shrug it off...not my issue, ya know?
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