One more thing... then I clean this house... I swear...

Lately, I've been getting a ton of hits for Darrel Buschkoetter. Actually for him and Juanita.

I don't mind this a bit, but, I just want to make it clear that, of the two, I'm a "Darrel fan", not s'much Juanita, ya know?

All I know about her is that she isn't with Darrel anymore and she is remarried. I don't know to who, don't know where she lives, don't know what she's doing and... I kinda don't care.
I know that sounds sorta bitchy, but, y'all know me, right? When it comes to women, I'm just naturally not that interested very often.

Nine times outta ten, I align with the guy in any given situation.
Especially this one.

It was Darrel I was drawn to from the first and it's him now that I think about, wonder about and hope is more than just fine, ya know what I mean?

As for updates... only one that matters is that Darrel is okay and is still farming.
End of story, pretty much.

I will say this, however...
Upon re-watching "The Farmer's Wife", it strikes me HARD when I hear her say that Darrel didn't want her to go to school because he was scared she'd finish her education then leave him.
Well... she did do that.
He was right.

There are also a few other like asides like that, that when I hear 'em now, strike me in a "not good" way toward her.

"It already has gotten to me..." is one.
I think I know what that meant.
Other things like that.

Anyway... bottom line is simply this:

I like Darrel.
I care about what happens to him.
He's been a source of strength for me since the first time I watched TFW and he's the one I'd like to keep up with as much as possible, without being obtrusive.

She did what she felt she needed to do, just like most women eventually do and it's him, as usual, left alone, trying his ass off to make a go of it and therefore, he has my support.
She doesn't need it, lucky for her, 'cause it's just not there.

I'm just sayin'....

Posted by: Stevie at 09:23 PM

Comments

1 I know I've "commented" before - - so I promise this will be the last time. As far as Juanita - - I personnaly think she is a bitch. I talk to Darrel all the time and there needs to be a second movie made called "The REAL FARMER" because that is what he is. She was cheating on him before, during and after the movie was filmed. She made him out to be this mentally abusive, heartless jerk - and he is anything but that. She even tried to "bribe" him to sign away his parental rights to his three daughters. He and his girls are all very close now and he actually even has "forgiven" Juanita. I doubt I could. But he said he had to in order to "survive". Can't carry all that anger around all the time. He is a hard-working man and a devoted dad. I consider myself lucky to be his friend. So - - if there are any Juanita "fans" out there - you either don't know the whole story or you are just like her. Stevie - thanks for a place to "sound off". I love reading your stuff. Take care!

Posted by: Mary at January 10, 2006 10:07 AM (qBZ3L)

2 I have always wondered what happened to Darrel & Juanita.I didnt think their marriage would last but didnt know they actually had divorced.I felt myself that Juanita meant well and cared for her family but that she thought she could do better starting over with another man rather than try to work on her marriage.Being a farmers wife is not an easy job but she knew his dedication when she married him.Do you know any more about them and the girls now?

Posted by: Tara at March 17, 2006 10:24 PM (qlpmR)






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